I have always enjoyed my own company. I can be alone all day and not notice it. I have friends that can’t go to the supermarket by themselves. They fear being alone. They get into totally toxic relationships.

You are born alone. YOu have the capacity to be alone. Don’t destroy yourself with a false ‘need’.

I’ve been like this before with toxic relationships. I’m way too forgiving and will give people too many chances. I’m just too nice. It’s gotten me hurt many times and you’d think I’d learn but I don’t. Recently it got me hurt a lot as I had a professional treat me horribly and unprofessionally and I gave them as second chance – only to have them put me through more unprofessional and inappropriate behavior! I’m working on having better boundaries and not letting people take advantage of me. It’s hard but it’s something each of us has to learn so we don’t get hurt all the time.

Always remember that the constant thing in this world is change. People change everyone does with regards in relationship, career, status, individuality, personality and that’s an obvious fact. We cannot do anything about it but to accept changes in our life. We should be vigilant in trusting people to whom we gave our trust. Sometimes we felt betrayed by those people hurting us without knowing it. Life is though and most often people are mean and uncaring.

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it’s great that you were able to hold on to your decision. I guess I will have to consider your advice. I have no alternative since this situation only brings me sadness and I know I deserve better than this

First let me say this and this is my opinion, people who like to be alone usually are people who are trying to hide something so that they are not found out. But anyway there are times when we would like to just have some me time which is okay but when it’s okay for you to stay away from everybody else then that’s a problem. Here’s the thing letting go is one of the hardest things to deal with but it can be done. It has to be something that you are willing to face and undergo. If you do not have the heart or the willingness to move on then you cannot let go. You have to sit down and look at the situation in all ways before making a decision, because this is what will make or break you. Like you I have also been in the same place where i had to let go it actually took me a good 2 years to finally do it and it took a lot of courage. I looked at my situation then and saw that am the one who was actually putting in a lot of effort to hold the relationship, we never seemed to agree on small issues and I thought am I really doing myself a favor by being in this relationship? Am I gaining or loosing out and that’s when I decided to go out and never looked back.

That is animal cruelty. Why should they use animals in their showdown or in monkey business? People also applauded those abusers. I hate to see human being abusing some animals, butchering without a reason, eating them too and selling some.Pigs okay to be butchered, but it could also be pig cruelty if punish the animal just to gain viewers. Our laws on land have lots of biases.

The people are entertained in this kind animal exhibition in the circus. Whatever it is, it is the exploitation of the animals for the benefit of the human interest especially in making money.

The different countries have their own laws that govern this mode of cruelty, exploitation of the animals for the circus, for the business purposes. Those people involved should know the law concerning the welfare of the animals. Animals have the right to live, have the right to protected, have the right to a proper treatment as the human.

Look at the selected countries on how they treat and protect the animals through legislation.

In India, they have the prevention of cruelty to animals act, 1960 and it is amended by Central Act 26 of 1982. There is a restriction on exhibition and training of performing animals. Unless the person is registered, he couldn’t let his animals performing any act or have it displayed in public for a fee.

In the Philippines, there is Republic Act No. 10631. It is the animal welfare act of 1998. It provides there that any person who treats any animal cruelly, maltreated or neglected has to suffer the punishment imposed by the said law if found guilty. He would be imprisoned and be fined according to the provision of the law.

In Australia, they have the animal welfare act 1992. It governs the use of animals in the circus. It says that a person is charged by the court if he holds a circus. He uses animals and he has no permit to hold the circus.

Congratz! You’re able to overcome your trials in life. Because of your perseverance, of your patience, everything has changed in your favor. You have no more regrets. You are grateful to everyone you have worked with, associated with. It was actually the beginning that it took you much time to adjust. The longer you stay with your work, the more you become adjusted and getting used to your job, to your co-workers, and to your boss.

I am already in my senior age and sooner I would be retiring from the service. A month or so, I would be leaving the job, but still, I have to undergo management seminar in connection with my administrative and supervisory job in our school. I know that learning doesn’t require the age as long as you are capable of receiving instruction, training. I know now that learning has no end.

Yes I know although I was not rejected directly. However, I am thankful for her indirect refusal/rejection because that gave me chance to meet my present wife who is as beautiful and even more intelligent. I feel it is kind of blessing in disguise. She is still my friend and unmarried even after decades have past after that incident.

Yes i have been there too where a guy decided to leave me for another woman, reason being I was not ready to fulfil his needs. To me i felt that was a blessing in disguise because the minute he left I was free like a bird, I didn’t have to answer to him, and that felt so relieving. I always say if something is someone is meant for you let them free if it’s not yours they won’t come back but if it’s yours it will come back. Never hold onto something, it will bring you a lot of pain and frustration.

Rejections come in different forms not necessarily by a partner. The present generation is noted for rejecting those who are of no use to them any more.

As the cliche goes, always expect the worst. Rejection is a part of growing up for us to be wiser in life circumstances. We cannot please everybody but do things for our own growth and maturity. Sometimes looking for someone to care for us is really hard to find but with constant prayer and guidance from God i know sooner or later you’ll find that perfect one that was intended for you alone.