There should be some attempts to walk away to avoid conflicts but there has to come a time when something needs to be said. There will be a lot of attacks but we’re given the tools to defend against such attacks. That’s what works for me. Be blessed.

All I know is that when one is being bullied or belittled, there is something in that person being bullied , that the bully is envying him/her for.

But when this thing happens never ever let it pass without reporting it to the principal or to your parents as the case may be.

As early as possible, the bully should be dealt with by an authority like the principal, so the parents will be called and the attitude of the bully be stopped.

We should never allow anybody to demean or to bully us.

Totally! Don’t let anyone feel you less of yourself, and yes to diversity! People are used to live up to the expectations by the society, but I really think we should not let others get into our nerves. We can’t please everybody and it really isn’t right to be mistreated just because we don’t fit into their standards. I hope you inspire victims of bullying to stand up for themselves and don’t let the bullies get in their way. Kudos!

You know the reason why people get others annoyed is because they feel threatened by them. Someone will not attack you with words when they know they won’t gain anything from you. But if they will benefit from that then you can be well assured that they will bully you. I see this thing usually with politicians where there are many other parties, everyone wants a piece of the pie, so what normally takes place is just the bashing of one another. One person will say all the bad things they would think of about the other person to make him look bad in the eyes of other people. They may even tell lies just to paint a bad picture of that person. It is a well know tactic and very many people are using it to get their way. Others may do it so that they feel good about themselves. Usually such people have a low self esteem, and so when they annoy others it makes them feel like they are in control and that they have done something good for themselves, not knowing that they are hurting others and themselves in the long run.

That is true

A lot of people will have a problem admitting they’re wrong due to pride. There’s some who have no problem expressing how wrong they are. There should be times when saying there’s been some mistakes made but doesn’t always occur. Be blessed.

Lawyers should be involved when matters can not be solved by individuals. If there’s harassment, bullying, or threats then lawyers and authority need to be involved. There’s lawyers who will not take any money unless the lawyers win and they’ll work with clients who have cases which can produce some money. Lawyers have to eat. A lot of matters online require lawyers.

Get a laywer and sue me or something, I’m letting my fist go, left jab right jab knock out. Break laws because then whos going to make sure there is laws.

Oohh my goodness you have just nailed it! I know someone who is exactly what you are trying to describe. And I can say for a fact that’s it’s the most annoying behavior anyone would have. It almost feels like the person is in a competition alone. They are constantly competing with themselves that’s very disturbing, even though they don’t even notice it. You know always having someone in your space, whatever you do that want to also do it, when you but a new cloth they are all over you asking questions like where did you but it, how much did it cost, what sides do that have, can I get it in a color lighter or darker than yours, or they may even start being sarcastic as in making comments like ar3 you sure it’s going to fit? It looks either too big or too small, but usually they would say it looks too tight on you with that suggestive look as in your too big, yet you appear smaller than then. This are the types of people who will always want to make themselves look better than others in every sense of the way. They will always squeeze themselves in places where they are not needed. When they are asked to stay away they will always look for an excuse to be part of it regardless of whether they are needed or not. How would you really get rid of such people. I would suggest that if you live with them in the same place please make arrangements to move out and start your life elsewhere, if not assume them every time they try to come close to you and make it known that you are really not interested in what they are up to.

I never engage in anything for the sake of competing. I engage in one activity because I like it and not to brag that I am “in” in what is the latest activity.

Besides, if you are into a lot of activities, you cannot excel in any one, because you are just giving a part of yourself since you still have to give some on your other activities.

I value myself, so I value rest. It has to be that I have a moderate number of activities so that I can also have a time for myself – rest. Rest is important because it’s what reinvigorates one and makes one think well for what could be done still for what he is aiming at.