I don’t think we need to worry so much on Relationships The very concept is totally fading away. Give me money, I will give you want you to want” is the only concept existing nowadays. To think about relationships and how to maintain them is of no use in these days of technological development where nobody will have time to care for each other. If you get a leisure, spend some time for them that too if the other agrees readily. Otherwise, each will have different timings and different routes which may sometimes meet some point provided they are not parallel routes….which never meet at any time.

In most of the cases, the Relationships are distant lines only. It is only because of lack of time and busy work. It does not mean they lack Relationship, love, and affection. But, for the paucity of time only. Still, they have not taken the route of Parallel lines.

The concept of Parallel relationship will be coming shortly and it is not far off. For this, there is no need to talk about anything like love and affection. “Because we are tied up with each other . we are supposed to live together for the sake of society.”. This mentality is developing in the society very much and it is gaining ground. Once it reaches to a considerable number then everything will be accepted and there will not be anything wrong living in a room but leading separate lives but respecting each other.

It is wonderful when wonderful friendship turns in romantically relationship and eventually after time in marriage. It has value at most to be stable because friends already know one another and they know to respect one another needs and way of doing things too. Lovers sometimes argue around trivial things that make life complicated and unbearable but are not important for life and that leads to nothing interesting.

Believer of Adam and Eve. Man and woman. Have a blessed day.

I firmly believe that friendship can be a solid foundation of any relationship where you can get to know each other very well, know your flaws, your strength, and weakness. While courtship is a prelude for ever lasting relationship. They it is much better to have a broken engagement than to have a broken marriage. If you’re looking for true love pray to God, and ask the Blessed Virgin Mary to guide you in your search of looking for a perfect partner to be with you for the rest of your life and you will see by the help of Our Blessed Mother in heaven you’ll find the perfect one that was intended for you alone. I believe that marriage is a lifetime commitment. You should value your partner as a person of worth, accept everything about him, will stick to him no matter what, be loyal to him always. Most importantly, put God in the center of your relationship to make it work.

I believe in this reason, long lasting relationship are build with good friendship which rapport between them then molded in emotional, psychological and not just bind by a piece of paper. If only the couples can have this thing, their relationship would really last long.

Yes you say right but there is a great difference between friendship and relationship we must understand the difference so that our relationship and friendship could walk side by side in practical field.

A person can have many type of relations with another person either in shape of love or business purposes or friendship. And at the same times all are can be different from each others also. A good relation based on foundation of good understating, consensus, compromising and caring for each other either it is a family, love or friendship matter. Your collective behavior will decide the tenure of your association.

I find the main difference between relationship and friendship read these carefully:
Key Differences

Relationship is more wider term than friendship. Even friendship is emerged from relationship.
Relationship can be in two form natural or deliberate while friendship is always in deliberate form and people choose friends by their sole intention.

Good friendship is the sign of good relation as well but good relationship does not means that there exists friendship also.
Relationship always has legal aspect for example in case of dispute between business parties, family disputes or inheritance problems you can seek the help of law and enforce the legal values also.

But in case of friendship there is no legal value. You cannot legally challenge the mutual consideration in case of friendship.
Level of trustworthiness, loyalty and trust in friendship is more than relationship.

People are more open about emotions, feelings and expectations in friendship in comparison to relationship.

Most of the relationship cases are based on win-lose situation while friendship always based on lose-win or win-win situation.

Being a couple in marriage is one thing and being friends is another different thing. Most people get into marriages with the hope that things will just run smoothly, but marriage is a lot of work. When you become friends with someone you really have to work towards it so that you can keep it going.
A relationship is usually started as a result of true friendship, that is what keeps the relationship longer. Because you both know each other in and out, you know the strengths and weaknesses of that person, so getting along is not quite a problem. When they do you wrong then you know what to do, if they react in a bad way you will know how ready too. So relationships can be a very tricky affair but can be something that you can grow to live with in the long run.

I think cyber criminals are more dangerous for people owning companies and big money and not for small people using Facebook and games. If used in bad way we can lose credentials to some fraud, but in now present community it is easy to trace and identify all troubles. There is no need to be alerted if you have no money in bank either like me. What cyber criminal can steal away from me online? 4 dollars I earned last month? Hehe that funny…

The top and hopefully most well known place to observe your adversary is your attack surface. If you’re a financial institution or managed security service provider (MSSP), we could include things touching your customer’s attack surface as being another top place to observe your adversary. Analysis of logs sourced from your security devices is a great way to identify the type of cyber threat activity that is impacting you directly.

Although Intel 471 is an intelligence vendor, we still believe that an organization’s #1 source of relevant threat data is their own attack surface. One of the first steps into developing a threat intelligence program should be the identification, consumption, and analysis of all relevant internal sources of information to include attack surface data.

However, when it comes to cybercrime and hacktivism knowing the actual person behind the keyboard provides additional options for a victim organization, such as submitting a complaint to law enforcement. There is continuous debate in the information security community about the usefulness of attribution of threat actors and groups, but we believe that attribution to various levels (person, group, nation-state, etc.) provides valuable insights that support decision-making at all levels.

The most value of actor-centric information lies with identifying motivations, goals and intent. This enables analysts to produce predictive intelligence that can drive proactive decision making and action at numerous levels of an organization.

We all have gifts just as you have said. And we all have to nurture them accordingly. Like when a child is born, they grow up, knowing or loving something, and when the parents see this they are supposed to motivate the child through what they like, and this way the child would grow up getting better at what they do. And when the parents show interest in what the child loves, the child is going to put in more effort and work harder at what they do.

Gift is the peace of mind and heart but the gift given by other any good [performance is pure encouragement for future work. Gift has more importance in life than any other thing in life. Gift giving is something that should not be a chore.

It must come from the heart. When you give gifts, you are giving something willingly without wanting something in return. Making someone feel special is more than enough reason to make you give more. It tells the receiver that you were thinking about them.

Gift giving is an act of self-gratification. It is a good way of strengthening relationships. If you are in a friendship or a relationship, you should always show the other person how much you care for him or her. You don’t need to wait for an occasion in order to give a gift. Give one to show how much you love someone

There are some instances when you need to give back to someone who has helped you or provided you a favor. Gift giving is an act that can show that you are thankful. Giving and receiving is the purest of reasons to give gifts. The receiver will truly feel your gratitude when you give gifts for elevating happiness and well being.

The import of advocating cannot be overemphasized. It is needed for good governance to be achieved. It is the scale the balances the society. I sometimes call it constructive criticism. When it judiciously utilized it shape an ideal society. It is a tool for checkmating erring leadership.My believe is that a society that is devoid of sincere and thorough advocators is not an ideal society.

This time technology is abused by bad elements. yes true, it is so beneficial and never be taken for any criminal activity. It seems human beings want to explore the unknowns thru computers and internet.Many crimes soar anywhere in the world because of technology.I can no longer describe how they disregard the beauty of mother earth that produces wealth and health to man.

Cybersecurity is the body of technologies, processes and practices designed to protect networks, computers, programs and data from attack, damage or unauthorized access. In a computing context, the term security implies cybersecurity.

One of the most problematic elements of cybersecurity is the quickly and constantly evolving nature of security risks. The traditional approach has been to focus most resources on the most crucial system components and protect against the biggest known threats, which necessitated leaving some less important system components undefended and some less dangerous risks not protected against.

Such an approach is insufficient in the current environment. Adam Vincent, CTO-public sector at Layer 7 Technologies (a security services provider to federal agencies including Defense Department organizations), describes the problem:

To deal with the current environment, advisory organizations are promoting a more proactive and adaptive approach. The National Institute of Standards and Technology (NIST), for example, recently issued updated guidelines in its risk assessment framework that recommended a shift toward continuous monitoring and real-time assessments.

that’s something we all must keep in mind and practice, be optimistic

Concentration is the key to success in every branch of life and peace of mind and soul lies in both of them. When you go out to war against your enemies, and see horses and chariots and an army larger than your own, you shall not be afraid of them, for the Lord your God is with you, who brought you up out of the land of Egypt.

And when you draw near to the battle, the priest shall come forward and speak to the people and shall say to them, ‘Hear, O Israel, today you are drawing near for battle against your enemies: let not your heart faint. Do not fear or panic or be in dread of them, for the Lord your God is he who goes with you to fight for you against your enemies, to give you the victory

There was a rich man who was clothed in purple and fine linen and who feasted sumptuously every day. And at his gate was laid a poor man named Lazarus, covered with sores, who desired to be fed with what fell from the rich man’s table. Moreover, even the dogs came and licked his sores.

The poor man died and was carried by the angels to Abraham’s side. The rich man also died and was buried, and in Hades, being in torment, he lifted up his eyes and saw Abraham far off and Lazarus at his side. …

Hate is a bad thing but those who hate others have bad past since their childhood. Their genes of love dies in childhood due to corrupt atmosphere and environment because children cannot choose two things: their parents and environment at any cast.

Those who have in heart are those who jealous and greedy. Keep in mind, if some hates someone means theta there is no place of love in their hearts because the place of heart has taken hate. Now again imbue in their hearts love hate will leave the hearts at once.

Bible says about love and hate : Corinthians 13:4-7

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions. For their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature; and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error.

Back in the 1970s a man walked across a University Campus with a sign that said F*ck (the U was in the sign) He was arrested and pleased Freedom of Speech and the Court agreed with him.

John Lennon did a song called Working Class Hero. On the radio it is bleeped because he has a line where he says, ‘until you are so f*cking crazy..’

Since then, to cause the greatest amount of mental hiccups the ‘politically correct’ terminology has arrived. We can not say what we think or feel or mean because it is banned.

This does not mean our opinions have changed or our views, we just suppress them. We say nothing, but do things.

We all have freedom of speech. We don’t all choose to exercise our freedom of speech. Some prefer to pray silently and let God speak on their behalf. Because when God talks, everybody listens. 🙂 An atheist or unbeliever may laugh at my comments. But I’m not being funny. I’m serious!

Listen me carefully my respected readers, speech is a process of imagine, thinking and giving your thinking practical shape via chosen words is called speech in modern language. Freedom means to say something keeping in mind what is wrong and what is right is called freedom of speech. I call it the sense of right and wrong.

Politician make such laws that we cannot say wrong thing about them in any way or you cannot say any negative thing about them. Those in which freedom of speech is means the public may say what they think about something or someone.

The real meaning of freedom of speech is to say truth not lie lie is not the part of human nature is man’s self created formula to avoid shame in public. On the political level the public may say just their conscious but what the public will will be acted upon never, never because freedom of speech is to befool the public in a technical way.

As in USA freedom of speech is but what the public say no body acts upon it why? because they know that if we do what the public say will lead us to hell.

Freedom of speech does not mean to hoot other or disgrace other keeping in mind the freedom speech. Freedom of speech means in the real sense advise someone morally so that they could mend selves and nothing else.

You say right that more difficult thing life is mutual understanding between friends, between parents and children, between wife and husband…every thing demands understanding from us even inanimate this…birds and beasts….

I think the value of knowing how to “read” personality is primarily to help leaders understand their own basic personality dimensions, and then to learn to emphasize the positive and mitigate the negative aspects of their own style. It also helps you understand others to know something about their personality – knowledge that you can use to guide YOUR behavior. And your own behavior is the thing you have the most control over at work.

With out true understanding of life we have little control of our lives or future. To just react blindly – to act, protest or praise without understanding – is to be no more than leaves blown in the wind. The bliss of ignorance is the bliss of stupidity. Understanding of what is outside of ourselves separates the human from the animal.

Without understanding of life we are no better than animals and behave worse. We are a buyer at life’s auctions who doesn’t understand values; a cook who doesn’t understand flavours; a musician without rhythm..Understanding brings wisdom to knowledge and is of greater value than money or possessions because these can be easily gained with understanding and easily lost without it.

It is said that there are three kinds of people in the world: those who make things happen; those who watch things happen; and those who never know what’s hit them. Those who cannot be bothered to try to understand events make up the last two categories and are now the great majority of the world’s people.

If we know the importance of understanding life will be easy comfortable and full of pleasures. We all alack mutual understanding in practical field.

I guess understanding is the basis of life. Can we really love with having an understanding of one another? I don’t think so. Understanding is the only way to someone’s life.
Like if you go to school teachers have to have an understanding of how a child reacts to certain situations how they are able to grasp things that they are taught, without that a child may not be able to grow from one level to another guidance is needed.
And then when we go to the idea of understanding in marriage. This is where people’s attitudes, characters and understanding is tested. There are so many things that happen in marriage that can cause misunderstandings between couples. Sometimes the way we talk to put spouses that make the other person feel like they have been offended when it’s just about being misunderstood.

Understanding, a very serious topic. We cannot deal with any situations in life without the so-called UNDERSTANDING.

Though understanding is sometimes not a usual thing to everyone. There are those who are not open minded to the point that they misunderstand other people.

Being open minded will lead us to a very good understanding. We can easily cope with others situation.

As for me, I can easily understand others most especially when I experienced such things related to what others are experiencing.

To me understanding comes with patience and knowing. If we are bound to neglect than there would be no understanding to begin with.

Understanding is the very nature of an enlightened mind. An enlightened mind knows exactly what is what and why is that certain people are like this and that, why we are weak, why we fail to appreciate, why we are neglectful and why these things happen. It all happens because they have patience and understanding.

What could be more rewarding for anyone but a bit of understanding for itself and a bit of others. For those who have this understanding they are to appreciate what they have. And those who do not, it’s simply because they lack such understanding.

Keep writing! Peace:)

Faith is the element of living a positive life. Like we read in the bible that Faith without action is useless. We always have to exercise our Faith in order to stay positive and happy. What you have shared is actually very true. In life nothing comes easy everything has to be worked for to achieve results. Troubles are part of life we cannot avoid them when they come, and when they come we have to fight them by praying and that’s when faith comes in. And if your fighting them yet you have no faith that will yeild you no results. So it is very crucial to have faithin everything that we do.

Yes, faith God is the root of happiness and prosperity on earth and in heaven But on the contrary the word is doubt is very dangerous thing the root of all evils on earth. When we lose trust in God means doubts takes its in heart and we fall prey to many earthly mental and spiritual troubles as the holy bible says:
James 1:6
6 But when you ask, you must believe and not doubt, because the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind.
Galatians 3:22

22 But Scripture has locked up everything under the control of sin, so that what was promised, being given through faith in Jesus Christ, might be given to those who believe.

Keep these rules in mind, where there will be doubt, absence of faith,
, where there will darkness, absence of light, where there will be illiteracy, absence, of education because education is light and illiteracy is darkness.

It is knowledge and faith that comes to light from the hell of darkness.

This is the reason why we should never lost hope in times of trouble. What we do is to grip on our faith and believe we will always pass every troubles that comes to our life. Holding on and when we conquer it, the fruits will grow for us.

Definately.

Wow that’s a good piece there reminding us that no situation is permanent. Even though we may go through pain, trials and tribulations we should never loose hope because trouble brings us closer to God and makes us much stronger. When we go through pain we should not look at it like something has has come to finish us but something that has come to make us stronger and give us a hope for tomorrow.many are the times when we feel hopeless when we are going through troubles but that should not dicourage is instead it should encourage us because it’s always a blessing in disguis3.

yes. one should develop positive thinking. It can be developed only through prayer. When yoga is clubbed to a prayer the things become even easy. Finally, what we have to do with prayer? Prayer is meant for wishing the happiness of others and wishing for their success. This is the secret of prayer. Pray for others, their happiness, their wellness, for their good health, for their success, and for their well-being.

As I grow older, I learn. And the learning from different situations strengthen me to a better, higher and happier level in life. Family, my husband and children play the most important part in that growing process. Family problems put the bulk of the load on our shoulders from my past mistakes and troubles. But it’s so good to know that we have a Higher Wisdom greater than ourselves.

Patience and endurance are character-building traits that involve hard work. Love, faith and hope come from within and we work on them to draw courage from.

Yes, it true that there is pain and there is blessing because behind darkness live light and light blessing and darkness is pain in practical life. If you have the light of knowledge there will be blessings no darkness or pain.

Nowadays every one of us is in mental tension, running after happiness. None welcomes pain, whether physical or mental. In God’s creation, there is always variation. There is variation in the weather, temperature. There is variation in a day, morning follows evening. He knew that His children would get bored if they lead their lives in a static condition. That is why a great variation in body parameters like blood pressure, sugar level ,heart beats has been introduced in His design .

He knew that his children will enjoy only in variation. That is to say, variation is essential for a sound living. Unless one is in pain, how he can feel the pleasure? A difference in level is essential for enjoyment in the life.

In other words, pain is a signal when something goes wrong. It tells ‘Take care ‘. But we do not listen to it, neglect it. That creates disease in the body, and finally leads to dreaded disease like cancer.

There use to be a saying, no pain, no gain. We go through things in life to make us stronger for someone else that made be in need of a helping hand. Our testimony can save lives. If I can tell people the things I had to go through in life, just to make it to this point. We are here for a reason and we must do what do what we where brought to do. That is to change lives and make others believe how important it is for them to be here at time where encouragement is needed.

There are so many haters in the world. We cannot describe their attitude, We cannot also find reason why they hate. This is normal everywhere in business, in politics even in the academe. We cannot please everyone.Others hate because of jealousy and some personal views. It should be better for the person/ persons to analyze whether it is justifiable to hate. It should also be nice if the haters evaluate themselves if perfect or not.This time in the country where I live, the haters of our new president are the media people.They keep on twisting the truth, thus putting the nation to danger. I also hate haters. They have to investigate themselves about their true image.

Yes, there are countless haters on earth and countless lovers on earth but we all must keep in ind that hate springs from evil past and evil early environment and it is a fact that haters become greedy and jealous by birth.

If you can just stop loving her then you never really loved her at all. Love doesn’t work that way. If you ever truly love someone, then it never goes away. It can become something else. There are all different sorts of love. It can even become hate- a thin line and all that- and, really, hate is just another kind of caring.

Even if you hate me, Zero…I will tame that beast in you…as many times as necessary. If you haven’t completely lost your sanity…I won’t let you die. Hate vampires, hate me…at least that means you haven’t given up!” Yuki said to Zero. “How can I hate you?

You should never trust a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Because the only thing the wolf will ever want to do is break you.

I would join Combat or die trying… A fine choice of words. What had been meant as a melodramatic proclamation was now to be my intended irony

Relationship has always ups and down its like a roller coaster ride. You should accept each others flaws for nobody is perfect. In fact, we all commit mistake and learn from it in every circumstances we encounter our own failures in life. A love that build with trust, sharing and openness will stay stronger and will linger forever over the long run its because we value our partner as a person of worth. Imagine yourself having blessed to have someone to love you unconditionally and unselfishly, someone you can share your dreams with, someone to lend you a shoulder for you to cry on, and someone you can share your life with for the rest of your life and to grow old gracefully. It’s fantastic to loved and to beloved by someone you know who will never ever hurt you and will always be there for you.

Relationship changes with time when situations change for better or for worse. It is not easy to consistent.

Nothing is impossible with love and by consistent prayers to God’s guidance i know you will surpass all the constant change that will come along in every phase of a any relationship to test how strong the both of you to hold to each other inspite of many trials that you have to endure.

Wow that’s some good writing right there and what you have shared is so true. Relationships can be messy sometimes and the people who get hurt the most are those that are quiet and patient. So unfair but that’s just the way it is. You may find some people tend to take advantage of their quiet partners to do them wrong because they know that their partner will not react in abad way, that will probably take it easy and try to solve the situation amicably. And this is very wrong, I feel two people in love should watch each others hacks always talk to one another so that when issues arise they don’t have to walk away because of pain or misunderstanding but it’s unfortunate that there are others who would rather go quiet to save themselves from being hurt. It takes a lot of patience and understanding to keep a relationship going and the big thing is the grace of God

‘Relationships can connect in a powerful way if both partners try to make it a great one. Do not live life halfway.’

Oh how precious these words were to me. Every relationship is at the mercy of those involved in it.

Relationship is about giving and how selfless the partners are determines how far the relationship goes.

So the partners must joins hand to make it work.

Every time I see that kind of photo portrait of a husband and wife, there is a happiness in my heart. Through the years the love they feel inside there heart always burning. Once I saw a senior couple inside the passenger bus, they are very old, but while they are singing together to the old song being played inside the bus, they are holding hands.

That is a nice looking couple.

Honest men makes honest relationship with all people be a wife or a friend or a relative…but dishonest man makes relationship to cheat everyone and considers it his victory but the defeat of mind and soul. Those whose relationship ends in divorce i am sure one of them is dishonest. Such persons become mentally and spiritually dishonest since childhood.

According to the New Testament, being head of your wife does not mean being her master, but her servant. Again, Christ is our model for this type of leadership. Jesus did not just talk about serving; He demonstrated it when he washed His disciples’ feet (John 13:1-17). Christ, the Head of the Church, took on the very nature of a servant when He was made in human likeness (Philippians 2:7).

One of the best ways to serve your wife is to understand her needs and try to meet them. Do you know what your wife’s top three needs are right now? If she is a young mother, she has a certain set of basic needs. If your children are grown and gone and you are in the empty nest, your wife has a different set of needs that you should try to meet.

What is she worried about? What troubles her? What type of pressure does she feel? Learn the answers to questions like that, and then do what you can to reduce her worries, her troubles, her pressures.

I was thinking of good way to earn more by taking more photos, write more articles and enjoy the day even sometimes you are distracted. Of course we can still have a good earn while on journey as long as we have the wifi or other internet connections so we can log in to our earning sites.