July 14, 2016 at 3:05 pm

Me I think it is a good idea to learn this things early in life so that when you get there you have a pretty good idea of what you are getting into. it is a scary affair really especially if it is a first time but for me my mum is a nurse so it was easy for me learn from her with my sister’s kids. it was awesome being able to hold a young child by the neck and give them a birth I used to enjoy it, but the part that I dreaded was wiping the cord that scared me I always thought I would hurt the child so mum did that all the time.

July 14, 2016 at 2:45 pm

You have said it very well teaching a child when they are still toddlers is good. that way they get to be responsible but there are some children who can be very unruly sometimes that may require a little beating. I don’t agree with beating them all the time because they could get used to it and that could stir trouble. being able to talk to the child and counselling him helps quite a lot

July 13, 2016 at 6:57 pm

I think a little spanking goes a long way in disciplining a child it will not hurt him in anyway but it will make him or her realize that mummy or daddy are just trying to teach me the right thing it’s not that they hate me or anything. but they will see that what they did was wrong and that is why they were punished. I can say nowadays more and more parents are getting away from the norm of beating their kids up.

July 12, 2016 at 3:38 pm

When we were younger our parents never gave us room to make mistakes because then you would be punished thoroughly and after that you wouldn’t make you want to make a mistake again. we used to get beatings and long lectures about being obedient, not like in the states where kids are not beaten your only told to go to time out sometimes I wonder does that punishment really work at the end of the day.

July 12, 2016 at 3:10 pm

Ooohh my goodness I wonder when I will be able to cash out at this point, because I haven’t even reached 1 dollar yet how much longer will I need to go to be able to get to that 10 dollar mark. we are already in the mid of this month do you think I will be able to make it?

July 12, 2016 at 2:40 pm

such experiences can be very traumatizing and not many of us can be able to deal with them when confronted with a situation. my experience was with my elder brother who was admitted for meningitis and it was the most terrifying moment to see my brother in so much pain yet you can’t help him. there was a point where we all thought he is going but God is faithful my brother survived through it all and he is well we thank God

July 12, 2016 at 2:06 pm

That’s nice to know suny at least there is some proof of payment and that’s also motivating I hope I can also work at it and see myself do a redemption soon. good luck to us all

July 12, 2016 at 2:00 pm

wow well said I like the direction that you taken with this whole thing about arguments, many times people do not want to own up to their mistakes and that’s where the problem begins. when we say sorry we are usually taking the blame off our shoulders which is good. and I also like the part that you have said that we should always start our sentences with I feel good point@ yvette

July 8, 2016 at 6:37 pm

Ooohh my goodness what? this is so shocking really why, how, I don’t understand I thought the altar is a holy place but again there are many different altars that can bless and also curse so to me I would believe that maybe that kid was used as a sacrifice or something because that is how they are done I presume but am so shocked the way some things happen it begs to question.

July 8, 2016 at 4:37 pm

First thing is when I decide to go to a place that is not touristy I am going there for the sole purpose of going to take some rest and just relax from the daily hussles of town life, that’s the advantage and then you also get to spend less there than you would have spent in a tourist destination.

July 8, 2016 at 3:10 pm

Oooh my goodness peachpurple this must be really sad to keep having arguments with your son and hubby, I know sometimes silence is the best thing but again it can really hurt when you say nothing at all, it’s good to confront issues just check the tone of your voice and the choice of words he will eventually listen to you just don’t be too fast to evoke or blame him because he will look for something to turn the blame towards you. all the same I wish you all the best and may God be your guide.

July 7, 2016 at 7:19 pm

I am grateful for so many things, I can’t really mention them all but the one thing that I would say is I am grateful for life God has granted me an opportunity to live, breathe to see hear you name it all free of charge who does that. I am grateful that I have had good health am grateful that I have never spent a day admitted in hospital, just the thought that I have never lacked anything in my life God is good and will always be good to me what more can I say am grateful for his everlasting love, his Mercies, his Grace and his Faithfulness.

July 7, 2016 at 7:11 pm

This is the worst thing that anyone would do for themselves, when you start comparing and competing with the people around you then that just shows how insecure you are about yourself. We read in the bible that there is a time for everything in this life. So when you start to compare others with yourself you are sinning because we are all created in a unique way and we are well able and anointed to do whatever we want to do. So to answer your question yes there are lots of people who actually compare themselves with others are even in competition with me when am not even aware.

July 7, 2016 at 6:55 pm

I think we all have different ways of dealing with issues in our lives. and I tend to think that time alone can help solve issues as opposed to being with people, but like you have said @icybc when all fails the best thing is to commit it in prayer well said

July 7, 2016 at 6:50 pm

When I feel that all has been said and done I walk away from that trouble. I am very good at spending time on my own so getting away from it is not a hard thing for me to do. I will either just take a trip to spend some time with someone who will not share negative vibes with me and that will get away all the troubles that might be in my mind.