It’s the way we handle problems that can make us winners in life.

I am a person who would do all I can first by myself in solving a problem. But when I know I have to ask the help of my husband or family, I do it even if it means it would humiliate me.

Why would I pretend I am fine when I am not. I won’t die of shame, but I would die of heart attack if I keep my problem to myself which I know I can’t handle anymore.

It’s a losing part of our life when we ask help , but it’s also a winning one, because we won over the problem, with the help of our love ones.

If one only win but never lose then one would not appreciate the win but would disregard one’s win to be a normal thing and this is a bad thing because if one day, all of a sudden one faces loss then one couldn’t accept that loss and immediately give up.

I think less are posting on Facebook due to scammers who tend to phising for personal information on those who post about it. And sometimes it feels like a waste of time; just go there to check messages from friends and relatives.

I har a lot about Goa. That place must be a paradise. 🙂

It is right to give thanks or gratitude even to nature because without it man can not live.

Yes. I agree that it is only the confidence that makes the things happen. When one is having confidence in one’s own capability and ability in delivering goods he may come out with a big win. A person having a low confidence should never build up confidence just carried away by circumstances. If he by chance, does so, he is bound to suffer in life. He, on the contrary, should avoid taking up such ventures. It is nothing but over-confidence. Estimating more of oneself than what actually he is.

Yes it is good to having confidence in yourself because it is the key of success But we have to escape from overconfidence .there is a thin line between both of them.overconfidence leads us to failure. But a positive attitude will help you to recover from it.

I do agree that having confidence is a good thing but there are times that you need to understand your own abilities and what you can do with these abilities. If you truly understand your abilities, then you wouldn’t choose to do something that required abilities that you don’t have. This way you won’t be overconfidence and results in failure.

This is quite common that one cannot reach the top if one is not capable for. Before climbing the top one should estimate the details about the top one has to reach. In most of the cases it gives some idea whether to reach the top or not. One should take a decision in the beginning itself.

Sometimes, people feel confident of their strength. After getting the full information and other related aspects they build up confidence and do the effort to achieve it. This is what we need to reach the top. This needs regular practice, devotion, diligence, positive thinking and it is here most of the people prove themselves as successful. Without any effort or taking up things as challenge one can not expect to achieve anything. These people are called super-leaders or super Heros. Most of the businessmen do have these qualities. They plan they organize, they coordinate, they order, they obey, the pursue, they convince and they control..everything will be taken up as a whole unit. They start working where others stop their work.

Power abhors a vacuum. India and China are the two Asian giants in terms of economic and military power. In Geo-politics it is necessary to project strength in order to promote and protect one’s self-interests. Will China resort to military adventurism? Only as a last resort if negotiation and diplomacy fails. It is the United State that is trying to create an alliance among neighboring Asian countries against China. This is not for the welfare of those countries but mainly to project and maintain US power in the Asian-pacific region.

When person does some thing ‘unworthy’ it deserves kick in bottom not pat at back.
What you wrote is confusing.
What you wrote is asking people to love you because you hurt them and it is sadism.
And hilarious.
Good criticism my friend, yes?

giving negative criticism to other people for FUN was never a good thing to do. Just think of the circumstances and anxiety the person will be experiencing when he or she was criticized just for FUN. Although giving criticisms can also be taken as good step in improving mistakes. but there is always a right way in telling something to a person, make sure to be conscious enough and choose the words that will come out from your mouth to avoid misunderstanding and to avoid to hurt the feelings of others. by the way this is a good article. kudos!

One should only give criticsm to other person when one truly understand that person.