I have always enjoyed my own company. I can be alone all day and not notice it. I have friends that can’t go to the supermarket by themselves. They fear being alone. They get into totally toxic relationships.

You are born alone. YOu have the capacity to be alone. Don’t destroy yourself with a false ‘need’.

I’ve been like this before with toxic relationships. I’m way too forgiving and will give people too many chances. I’m just too nice. It’s gotten me hurt many times and you’d think I’d learn but I don’t. Recently it got me hurt a lot as I had a professional treat me horribly and unprofessionally and I gave them as second chance – only to have them put me through more unprofessional and inappropriate behavior! I’m working on having better boundaries and not letting people take advantage of me. It’s hard but it’s something each of us has to learn so we don’t get hurt all the time.

Always remember that the constant thing in this world is change. People change everyone does with regards in relationship, career, status, individuality, personality and that’s an obvious fact. We cannot do anything about it but to accept changes in our life. We should be vigilant in trusting people to whom we gave our trust. Sometimes we felt betrayed by those people hurting us without knowing it. Life is though and most often people are mean and uncaring.

Nope! You should have no give up to anything. I just posted a Blog post and it is the answer for all of your problems! It is still on pending status so I will leave a link here sooner once it got approved.

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it’s great that you were able to hold on to your decision. I guess I will have to consider your advice. I have no alternative since this situation only brings me sadness and I know I deserve better than this

First let me say this and this is my opinion, people who like to be alone usually are people who are trying to hide something so that they are not found out. But anyway there are times when we would like to just have some me time which is okay but when it’s okay for you to stay away from everybody else then that’s a problem. Here’s the thing letting go is one of the hardest things to deal with but it can be done. It has to be something that you are willing to face and undergo. If you do not have the heart or the willingness to move on then you cannot let go. You have to sit down and look at the situation in all ways before making a decision, because this is what will make or break you. Like you I have also been in the same place where i had to let go it actually took me a good 2 years to finally do it and it took a lot of courage. I looked at my situation then and saw that am the one who was actually putting in a lot of effort to hold the relationship, we never seemed to agree on small issues and I thought am I really doing myself a favor by being in this relationship? Am I gaining or loosing out and that’s when I decided to go out and never looked back.