Marie Edgerly
@marie42 active 8 years, 3 months ago-
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I agree completely with what you have said here, I especially like the part about communicating. If you don’t communicate then it makes it almost impossible to get anything done, let alone done right. As far as change goes, one of the only constant things IS change, whether or not we want things to change, they always do, so we might as well deal with that fact.
Compromise is such a good thing to be willing to do. Some people want things their way or ELSE, but life as a whole does not work that way.
Even if you are the boss of a large corporation, you have to learn how to compromise to meet the needs of your many employees. There is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to dealing with people.
Some people think that agreeing to compromise means that they “lost” in some type of way, when in actuality compromising (in certain situations) is a way for everyone to win.
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You say right that learning to compromise produce better results in practical field because real learning teaches how to compromise any situation.
Open, honest communication should be part of every healthy relationship. Use the guidelines below to open up the channels of communication between you and your partner. If you’re in an unhealthy or abusive relationship, be careful using these tips. You know your relationship best. If any of these tips would put you in danger, don’t try them.
If something is bothering you and you would like to have a conversation about it, it can be helpful to find the right time to talk. Try to find a time when both you and your partner are calm and not distracted, stressed or in a rush. You might even consider scheduling a time to talk if one or both of you is really busy!
Even when we mean well, we can sometimes come across as harsh because of our word choice. Using “you” can sound like you’re attacking, which will make your partner defensive and less receptive to your message. Instead, try using “I” or “we.” For example, say “I feel like we haven’t been as close lately” instead of “You have been distant with me.”
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Cats are very canning animals. I don’t know if you meant 5 ways to get your cats attention because all the things that you ha e mentioned above only seem to get theirattentionnot annoy it. If you swing a thread I front of a cat’s face you will get its attention, and all it will want to follow the thread and want to play with it, that wouldn’t annoy it pasay! Cats get annoyed when you step or pull their tails, or when you pour water in them. I also have a cat and I have seen all this things happen.
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This is really a touchy article I had seen so far. This is right that people always go by outward appearance neglecting the saying ‘DO NOT JUDGE BOOK BY ITS COVER’.
One should know that a person does not care for money after reaching certain heights in life. He actually value the relationships and the affection only. He realizes the importance of human relationships in a society and never cares the material aspects. He lives like a highly matured person
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I know a similar story. One should not judge a person by their dress…for one of the richest men in Jamaica dresses like the example in the article here. He does it so people don’t beg him any money.
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My favorite midnight snack was and still is cereal and milk. 🙂
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It is a favorite midnight snacks but very tasty water is running in my mouth looking at the pic and want to eat it as soon as possible in the lunch. I have many ideas abut such dishes as…
But I like such types of salad I call it salad because all look vegetables and one egg in the middle.
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that is so nice list and well posted, i liked how designed your post and also like the yughurt snake, i like youghurt with fruits and some i like its salty with pepper, i mean black pepper, to give it relly mixed nice taste and power, i like it as snake for night and between meals and also if i take brake at work i like it eat it too, thanks alot for this list agian and liked the style
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I just don’t want to give my id data online and regret it. Now I know one more page where I can not participate because they ask personal ID card. Bulling online – click and delete contact, very effective.
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Online bullying is something that has been with us for such a long time. Many people don’t realize it until it’s too late. There is some unusual I formationthat people ask for and that should be suspicious enough to make someone know that things are not right.
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I generally take the bull by the horn and show them their right place.
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Please, is there any body that would guide me through this litracybase?
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I hear various arguments FOR and AGAINST social media and also “in between”. I use social media for my home business projects primarily because it’s a an audience and it’s like “free advertising” (unless you want to pay for more followers and traffic). The fact that I meet new people and make new friends is an added “benefit”.
Zuckerberg (Facebook), Page (Google Plus) and all those other tech geniuses have allowed everyday people like you and me to create social accounts free and you get to connect with people you may not have had a chance to communicate with otherwise, and possibly grow a customer or subscriber base for your websites and blogs.
In my humble opinion, there are more advantages to using social media than disadvantages. But I do agree with you that it’s not necessary to spend a huge amount of time on those sites. That can be counter-productive.
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Every new innovation will have pros and cons. The cons when it overtakes the pros then the problem starts automatically. It increases not only our stress but also creates stress among others.
Recently I have come across a post with hate speech against some section of the people of a Religion. It was a recorded video of a Member of Parliament of India. He was speaking totally thrash. Once we hear the speech one is sure to develope hatred against a particular community of a religion. Could we stop the person who has determined to post it and bring to the limelight the activities of the Member of Parliament? The person who had posted it should feel the social responsibility and see that such posts should not instigate hatred among the people.
The social network sites are nowadays being used for effective interaction by the terrorists and other anti-social elements. Both educated and uneducated are using these site for their own purpose.
These sites are taking sides in the matter of politics and making a big franchise for a particular political party. This is very bad concept. The members of political parties directly scold each other on the websites which will be quite funny to watch. Added to this some youth post dirty pictures and using these sites for pornography. Even ladies are hesitating to explore such sites. Ultimately they are being disappointed and forced to withdraw their account from the website itself.
As you rightly said it is only certain important and useful posts that need attention. Not each and every post of some Tom, Dick, and Harry.
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You say right wise men earn everywhere on earth be social media or mart or other country because earning rests on birth qualities just as some have traits to be a doctor, some to be lawyers, some to businessmen, some to be leaders, some to drivers, some to be come engineers, some to be pilots, some to teachers…
Before you become famous online you´ve got to pick a platform, now if it´s money you´re interested in then YouTube is always going to be the place to start.
If it´s easy fame you´re looking for then Tumblr is the place for you and if it´s constant fame you´re looking for then Facebook is going to be a sure thing.
Twitter is one of the easiest sites to become famous on, but it´s one of the only sites that does n´t really have any value from being famous. You won´t earn loads of money and you´ll never be noticed.
Use face book, twitter, Instagram, tumbler, blog…but you me creative and you will earn very and get popularity among the readers of all over the world.
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This are some really good tips on how to cook for people who he e no time in the kitchen is who are too busy with work. I am one of those people who do most of the things that you have mentioned above. It saves me a lot I time and money when I prepare my meals before hand, do that when I get home it’s easier for me to cook even if it’s late.usually on Sundays is when I do my boiling and stacking of good in the freezer for future use. I boil meat dinner vegetables and anything else that needs preparations before time so that when I get to the house all I need to do is thaw and start cooking thanks for sharing those tips
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There are some useful tips for cooking at home. As you rightly said that people nowadays are finding it difficult to devote time for cooking for various reasons. Most common reason for not cooking at home is because of tiresomeness and not having a good company to share their work at cooking. The remaining reasons may be specific to a particular family and a member who is cooking for the home.
The tip on how to cook in less than 20 minutes for the entire home is good. The appliances you have mentioned will be quite friendly in cooking. They save time and money also. They also assure some good physical activity.
I want to add that eating in a glassware will save a lot of water as they are easy to wash. We need not use a lot of water in cleaning the dinner and lunch plates. The dinner plates and other serving bowls should be kept clean and should be of good material to avoid the reaction with the food items served.
But, these items should be changed at least once in a year for keeping the kitchen always nice and attractive. This will create a good ambience for eating.
There are some people who recommend cooking for a whole week at a time. But this is not advisable. The Fridge and other electronic items may be efficient in keeping and preserving the food. But it is confined to only some countries only. It also depends on the climate you are living in . In the countries having colder atmosphere the cooking of food for a week may be accepted. But not with the people living in the countries that have a very hot climate.
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Oh confidence, this is the reason why our Miss Universe Pia Wurtzbach won the tilt because of her answer during the question and answer portion when she said she is “confidently beautiful with a heart.” Confidence is one of the attitude and traits that every Filipino must develop because most of us have low self-esteem. We are good and we are outstanding but we have little confidence in ourselves which always reflect in our face. I guess we filipino should have to develop this attitude.
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Confidence is the cream of life. Whatever work we undertake and is given should be attended to with confidence. Though the term confidence is an intrinsic property of one, it should be viewed both as an intrinsic and extrinsic.
A boss will ask you to do a job because he chose you for doing that particular job. In his opinion you are a more suitable person meant for doing it than others. He is having confidence in you.
Now your job is to do it with dedication and do it perfectly reaching to the expectations of your Boss. You can not do it as per your own inner sense and submit something only to displease your Boss. Here your inner will not workout. You will not have the appreciation from anybody including your boss. Here you can not argue with others even if you are right in doing that job with your own confidence. If you do it and still argue about what is right as per your inner will then it will not be called confidence but only as an arrogance. People will hate you.
Thus confidence is both intrinsic and extrinsic. You can not break the confidence of your boss on you and do things as per your whims and fancies.
The confidence speaks about the perfection in making and attempting a work that is given and taken up.If you are asked to take up some job you are supposed to do it with dedication , with due respect to the established norms and procedures. If you do it as per your choice and preferences people treat you either as a lunatic or as an Arrogant.
Sincerity , obedience, and perfection are the three jewels of Confidence.
As a social creature one should look to the social acceptance of the work done. You can not say ‘I go ahead unmindful of the criticism from others’ it does not carry any value. Take criticism as a positive aspect and try to analyze the work done whether it is actually suitable for criticism or not. If the criticism is correct one should accept it and making necessary corrections accordingly to the job done. Even before that have as many consultations with other experts and elderly people as possible and confirm whether the criticism is a healthy one. If it is so, then nothing is wrong In accepting the criticism.
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I like what you have shared very true indeed. If we listen to people and do what they want then we are loosing our self confidence thinking that what we are told is what is good. When you go out to look for a job do you always follow all the things that you are told? Am sure you don’t, why because you trust yourself to do the right thing. Confidence can come in different ways just the way you have listed them above but there are those people who will take it in the wrong concept as usual.
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Life pleasure and progress rest in confidence and confidence comes from real knowledge and knowledge come from the holy books reading in depth.
Every human contains a powerful success mechanism, which is goal-striving. This power success mechanism only becomes activated when a clear goal is in view. Therefore, sit down and decide what you really want to accomplish.Do not borrow another person’s dream. Set your goals and believe in their possibility. If you are not passionate and convinced enough about where you are going in life, someone else will succeed in convincing you to look the other way.
If you have not got a clear vision yet for your life, take time to identify what you want your life goals to be. Ensure that what you have chosen is in harmony with your talents and passions. You will not be able to endure in an undertaking beyond the level of your love and passion for it.
Make sure that what you build your life around is what you really enjoy doing. “A goal properly set is halfway reached,” said Zig Ziglar, the American motivator. One of the ways to properly set a goal is to make sure that you set a goal that you will be really looking forward to pursuing.
Unless you detach yourself from the false self, the true self, who is creative, energetic and result-driven, cannot emerge. Highly successful people are those who have tamed their ego and are willing to take the next available actions even in the face of fear and discouragement.
Their intention is to try many things and fail quicker so that they know what works or doesn’t work. Successful people are more passionate about success than their fear of failure or momentary disappointment.
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Having confidence is indeed important. But at the same time we must not be so over confident that we enter into the habit of disregarding people and their ideas or be rude to people. We must try to maintain the balance of having confidence to strive for greatness and to achieve our fullest potential, being successful and being respectful.
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This is a food I am not familiar with although I’m sure it not only has great health benefits but taste good too. I’ve seen Ming Tsai, the popular Asian-American TV chef, use this ingredient in some of his recipes.
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They say that radish can be eaten raw. My friend also extracts it’s juice and drink it as is without any ingredients or flavorings.Is there any difference with the health benefits we get when it is eaten cooked or uncooked?
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I don’t think we need to worry so much on Relationships The very concept is totally fading away. Give me money, I will give you want you to want” is the only concept existing nowadays. To think about relationships and how to maintain them is of no use in these days of technological development where nobody will have time to care for each other. If you get a leisure, spend some time for them that too if the other agrees readily. Otherwise, each will have different timings and different routes which may sometimes meet some point provided they are not parallel routes….which never meet at any time.
In most of the cases, the Relationships are distant lines only. It is only because of lack of time and busy work. It does not mean they lack Relationship, love, and affection. But, for the paucity of time only. Still, they have not taken the route of Parallel lines.
The concept of Parallel relationship will be coming shortly and it is not far off. For this, there is no need to talk about anything like love and affection. “Because we are tied up with each other . we are supposed to live together for the sake of society.”. This mentality is developing in the society very much and it is gaining ground. Once it reaches to a considerable number then everything will be accepted and there will not be anything wrong living in a room but leading separate lives but respecting each other.
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It is wonderful when wonderful friendship turns in romantically relationship and eventually after time in marriage. It has value at most to be stable because friends already know one another and they know to respect one another needs and way of doing things too. Lovers sometimes argue around trivial things that make life complicated and unbearable but are not important for life and that leads to nothing interesting.
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Believer of Adam and Eve. Man and woman. Have a blessed day.
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I firmly believe that friendship can be a solid foundation of any relationship where you can get to know each other very well, know your flaws, your strength, and weakness. While courtship is a prelude for ever lasting relationship. They it is much better to have a broken engagement than to have a broken marriage. If you’re looking for true love pray to God, and ask the Blessed Virgin Mary to guide you in your search of looking for a perfect partner to be with you for the rest of your life and you will see by the help of Our Blessed Mother in heaven you’ll find the perfect one that was intended for you alone. I believe that marriage is a lifetime commitment. You should value your partner as a person of worth, accept everything about him, will stick to him no matter what, be loyal to him always. Most importantly, put God in the center of your relationship to make it work.
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I believe in this reason, long lasting relationship are build with good friendship which rapport between them then molded in emotional, psychological and not just bind by a piece of paper. If only the couples can have this thing, their relationship would really last long.
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Yes you say right but there is a great difference between friendship and relationship we must understand the difference so that our relationship and friendship could walk side by side in practical field.
A person can have many type of relations with another person either in shape of love or business purposes or friendship. And at the same times all are can be different from each others also. A good relation based on foundation of good understating, consensus, compromising and caring for each other either it is a family, love or friendship matter. Your collective behavior will decide the tenure of your association.
I find the main difference between relationship and friendship read these carefully:
Key DifferencesRelationship is more wider term than friendship. Even friendship is emerged from relationship.
Relationship can be in two form natural or deliberate while friendship is always in deliberate form and people choose friends by their sole intention.Good friendship is the sign of good relation as well but good relationship does not means that there exists friendship also.
Relationship always has legal aspect for example in case of dispute between business parties, family disputes or inheritance problems you can seek the help of law and enforce the legal values also.But in case of friendship there is no legal value. You cannot legally challenge the mutual consideration in case of friendship.
Level of trustworthiness, loyalty and trust in friendship is more than relationship.People are more open about emotions, feelings and expectations in friendship in comparison to relationship.
Most of the relationship cases are based on win-lose situation while friendship always based on lose-win or win-win situation.
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Being a couple in marriage is one thing and being friends is another different thing. Most people get into marriages with the hope that things will just run smoothly, but marriage is a lot of work. When you become friends with someone you really have to work towards it so that you can keep it going.
A relationship is usually started as a result of true friendship, that is what keeps the relationship longer. Because you both know each other in and out, you know the strengths and weaknesses of that person, so getting along is not quite a problem. When they do you wrong then you know what to do, if they react in a bad way you will know how ready too. So relationships can be a very tricky affair but can be something that you can grow to live with in the long run.
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Yes a strong willed person may perform miracles on earth. Intention is the root of success on earth in any field. JH Sayyar
Determination is the key to success in every walk of life …study, business, travel, journey, education, literature…in any field of life determination helps men and women to achieve the goal and destination in real life.
Determination is important. Nothing in life is easy. If you give up, you won’t accomplish much. Sometimes, you should not be so determined that you lose sight of common sense. Just because something doesn’t come easy and we don’t want to give up doesn’t mean we should keep pushing. Sometimes we should give up because things are just not meant to be.
From my point of reference, determination is important because it helps to give focus to consciousness. Individuals with determination help to better understand what has to be done. In a way, determination helps to address Tolstoy’s dilemma regarding what it means to be human. Tolstoy argued that all endeavors must seek to answer two fundamental questions:
Who we are and what shall we do. These two questions are answered by the presence of determination in our lives because it helps to give structure and purpose to what we do and how we shall live. In this light, I would say that determination is highly significant to our lives.