I think and I have seen that many people with borderline disorder engage in self-injurious behaviors such as cutting, burning and small drug overdoses. Cutting is by far the most common act of this type of behavior.

About 9 percent of people with the disorder commit suicide. The most frequent means is by drug overdose. Both types of behavior may occur in the same individual. Cutting behaviors double the risk of suicide in people with borderline disorder.

There are a number of factors that increase the risk that a person with borderline disorder will commit suicide. Although nothing can be done to reverse some of these factors, others are highly treatable, and deserve immediate attention.

co-occurring disorders
antisocial personality disorder (higher in males)
major depression
substance abuse*
personality characteristics
impulsive aggression
poor emotional control
hopelessness
history and severity of childhood sexual abuse
age over 30 years
number of prior self-injurious behaviors and suicide attempts
no prior treatment, or extensive and unsuccessful treatment history

Goodness!thos3 are so many symptoms for one to go through. It’s like living in frustration all your life. There are some disorders when you hear about them they sound very unusual but in actual sense that are real. Dealing with mood swings is a lot of work in itself leave alone all the other symptoms.

It is a serious matter for everyone if some of our friend falls in BPD because it crushes human mind and soul and plus human body in such condition anon must consult a specialist doctor to check up the patient as soon as possible.

These are the clear cut signs and symptoms ob BPD

Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment
A pattern of intense and unstable relationships with family, friends, and loved ones, often swinging from extreme closeness and love (idealization) to extreme dislike or anger (devaluation)
Distorted and unstable self-image or sense of self
Impulsive and often dangerous behaviors, such as spending sprees, unsafe sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, and binge eating
Recurring suicidal behaviors or threats or self-harming behavior, such as cutting
Intense and highly changeable moods, with each episode lasting from a few hours to a few days
Chronic feelings of emptiness
Inappropriate, intense anger or problems controlling anger
Having stress-related paranoid thoughts
Having severe dissociative symptoms, such as feeling cut off from oneself, observing oneself from outside the body, or losing touch with realityFrantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment
A pattern of intense and unstable relationships with family, friends, and loved ones, often swinging from extreme closeness and love (idealization) to extreme dislike or anger (devaluation)
Distorted and unstable self-image or sense of self
Impulsive and often dangerous behaviors, such as spending sprees, unsafe sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, and binge eating
Recurring suicidal behaviors or threats or self-harming behavior, such as cutting
Intense and highly changeable moods, with each episode lasting from a few hours to a few days
Chronic feelings of emptiness
Inappropriate, intense anger or problems controlling anger
Having stress-related paranoid thoughts
Having severe dissociative symptoms, such as feeling cut off from oneself, observing oneself from outside the body, or losing touch with reality

Common causes of anxiety include these mental conditions: Panic disorder: In addition to anxiety, common symptoms of panic disorders are palpitations (feeling your heart beat), dizziness, and shortness of breath,

I think the main cause of anxiety if dispersed emotions in human mind or when someone cannot find the the hidden problem solution and feels helpless in due circumstances causes severe anxiety.

People with anxiety disorders may be unable to stop worrying about seemingly unimportant things, and they can perceive situations as much worse then they actually are. It interferes with the enjoyment of life and disrupts work, relationships and self-perceptions. Anxiety disorders are treatable conditions, and learning about them is an important first step.

Anxiety disorders are the most common mental disorders, affecting 14% of Australians in a one year period. Women are more likely to develop anxiety than men, but it is not clear why. There are many forms of anxiety disorders but the one thing they have in common is their impact on day-to-day activities.

Anxiety can affect your ability to concentrate, sleep and carry out ordinary tasks at work, home or school. People with anxiety disorders often feel compelled to avoid stressful situations and in extreme cases avoid going out altogether. Physical symptoms are common, such as shortness of breath, a pounding heart and shaking hands

That’s a nice anecdote at the end of your post and your point is taken. Each day is a brand new day. Some people like to ask: Does life give you second chances? My answer: As long as you live, each day you woke up was more than a chance. It was a precious blessing gifted to you by your Creator. Don’t screw up! If you already screwed up, then don’t keep screwing up! DUH!! Don’t wait for any chances. Rather use the time you have been given wisely. 🙂

Psst is most important for everyone because some persons past becomes good and some have bad past due to poor circumstances or due to any injustice in our society is the main cause of problem belonging to mind, spirit and soul. When past be bad the first of it effects human soul and along with human mind and spirit also effect at once due to be soul illness.

It is no secret that the majority of us with anxiety have “thinking” problems that sometimes tear us down and make us feel miserable and depressed. Although some of these “thinking styles” may come very naturally to us, it is always possible to change or restructure thinking so that we can be more rational, allowing life to be more enjoyable and productive.

Our emphasis in therapy is always toward the practical: That is, how can I take the information I learn in therapy and apply it to my daily life, so that my life can be calmer and more peaceful, and I can better cope with the difficulties I face in life?

I dwell on negative events or worry excessively about what might happen in the future. When I get into this “vicious cycle” of thinking, it is hard to think realistically and remember all the good and positive things in your life.

The negative things we dwell upon are not helpful to us at all. They lead us to think even more negatively and we get stuck in this cycle of “over thinking” and the “racing” thoughts about negative events that have happened and which we think will continue to happen.

Solution: Learn to put a stop to this negative vicious cycle of thinking and to replace these ANTs thoughts with rational, progressive statements and thoughts that are more realistic.

I think that feelings of severe despondency and dejection. “self-doubt creeps in and that swiftly turns to depression”

Anyone suffering from depression will tell you, it’s not imaginary or “all in your head.” Depression is more than just feeling “down.” It is a serious illness caused by changes in brain chemistry. Research tells us that other factors contribute to the onset of depression, including genetics, changes in hormone levels, certain medical conditions, stress, grief or difficult life circumstances.

Men and women of every age, educational level, and social and economic background suffer from depression. There is no area of life that does not suffer when depression is present. Marriage, parenting, friendships, careers, finances – every aspect of daily living is compromised by this disease. Once an episode of depression occurs, it is also quite likely that it will recur.

And the impact of depression can be even more severe when it occurs in combination with other medical illnesses such as diabetes, stroke, or cardiovascular disease, or with related disorders such as anxiety or substance abuse.

Let your emotions be peaceful and do not be greedy an do not crave for the things that cannot be bought will be no depression.