I have given birth four times and each time it became harder and harder to lose weight after each pregnancy. There are multiple reasons for us becoming fat.

Heredity, food choices, sedentary lifestyle and sitting for too long because we are online for long hours all contribute to obesity.

The best remedy is to be active. If you cannot find 40…[Read more]

@swalia oh, you had a surgery for gall bladder. I have a classmate that had the same and yes she is now fat and I can say begin to be obese. She is really that big, like double my size. That was fast because the gall bladder removal happened just last year. She is now depressed because of that. I think having that surgery makes you really fat but…[Read more]

@slayer08 I have slow metabolism now that is why I am fluffy and I know the not normal sleeping time is the culprit too. When it comes to exercise, I only want to dance, but because of no space at home which is stopping me to get active with dancing again.

From my last relationship I learned the hard way that if he cheats on you once he will do it again.

@thinker since the work is available during the night on my online work, I need to be awake during the night. I need to earn money, that is why I can’t sleep the normal time. My objective is to earn. I know I became fat because of that but there will come a time everything will be normal again. I think after a week I will have a daytime offline…[Read more]

I am also somewhat fat though I have controlled my fat content somehow.

Heredity is responsible for making me what I am.

I too work mostly online but I do not prefer to sleep abnormally. You can work from morning to evening. You can sleep in night as normal. You can prioritize your work. You can decide what you are supposed to do and when. You…[Read more]

@Lee Ka i am from Pakistan and the language is URDU Ammi for MOM and Abbu for DAD 🙂

@peachpurple My mom speaks Cantonese in her home, and my dad spoke another Chinese dialect (similar to Hakka), but when they met each other, they spoke in Mandarin. I guess that’s why we spoke Mandarin since we were young. Both of them are Chinese educated and so we are.

I can’t speak my own Chinese dialect as well, we only speak Mandarin at…[Read more]

i call my Mom Ammi and Dad Abbu :))

@kaka135

is your mom or dad Mandarin spoken in his/her family?

Like my family, my parents are english spoken, so I don’t speak Mandarin at all until I started to work.

I admire those family who speaks Chinese dialect.

This helps the kids to embrace Chinese dialect to the next generations.

My nieces and nephews plus my kids do not speak…[Read more]

@morgoodie

Gee, your case is quite different from here.

Most of my friends who are the middle child don’t have to do much.

Their existence seems like not existing at all in the parents eyes.

In addition, they are very lonely. Not fit in the family that kind of feeling.

They don’t get anything or favor.

Usually the youngest siblings gets…[Read more]

@slayer08

Being the middle child, you don’t get favouritism.

Thatis the advantage to me.

You don’t have to be involve with siblings rivalry!

How i wish that i am not the older child, too much responsibilities to bear

@morgoodie Yes, I agree with you, though the c-sections were not planned, as long as the children are healthy and well, we are happy. That’s why I chose to have c-section as well, as I didn’t want to take the risk after trying hard for quite some time and my first child still couldn’t get out. Though many of my friends have commented I should keep…[Read more]