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    kaylar wrote a new post, Marrying Against the Wishes of Your Parents 7 years, 11 months ago

    When you decide to turn your back on your parent’s desires and marry someone they do not approve of, this often leads to the end of the family.

    In some places, one will be ‘disowned’.    In some places, one w […]

    • The problem comes when a person chooses someone the Parents don’t like. If you were to fall in love and pick someone yet your parents liked and approved of, well that is one thing. But if they don’t like the person and refuse to accept the marriage… that is a world of problems.

    • This is a big problem in many families and I personally have come across where parents have treated the son or the daughter who has so married to be no more in their life. It is a sad reality. I feel bad for both but more so for the parents because in one stroke the trust which parents place on the children is broken. One should understand that marriages are made with families and not individuals. But since the times have changed elders should also learn to accept the ground realities. And the children should also not end up troubling their parents for their own reasons. Child parent relationship are a case of mutual trust and this trust should not be broken. The most important thing is that children should not do something which will upset the parents mind. While there are many happy endings once a grandson or a granddaughter is born. In a lot of other cases the exact opposite happens and the girl or the boy ends being thrown out of the family and the relationship with the parents. These are all sensitive issue and should not be trampled upon. Elders should also forgive them and leave them alone no doubt that pain keeps lingering on till death. A thought provoking article well written.

      • We share the same sentiments. To be thrown out of the family is hard on everyone and very often there is no reconciliation. The relationship may not last and the parents move on, the child has to recreate a life for there is no home to go to.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, All Politicians want is Power 7 years, 11 months ago

    Politicians are interested in being elected. Once elected, holding power. Politicians seek to hold power as long as they possibly can.

    That is because all they want is power. They don’t care about the people, […]

    • The reality is that only the worst people go into politics. They are interested in power. They pursue power, they will do and say anything to get it. They will stand on a platform and promise then get into power and starts filling their pockets and bellies.

    • I totally agree with your arguments and think you should add that they also want a nice pay (money). I’m from Belgium (EU) and the only thing i see our politicians do is working against each other or the community to get power or money. The socialist who should stand for the people are always involved in scandals.

      • politicians say/promise what they think you want to hear. What they intend is to get into office, get as much money as they can, as you rightly said, and then coast for as long as they can hold office.

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    bestwriter wrote a new post, Delicious Wine From Cashew Apple 7 years, 11 months ago

    I came across a site where homemade wines were being discussed. The person whose blog it is talked about how she visits fruit and vegetable market and picks up over ripe fruits that are discarded and even some […]

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    bestwriter wrote a new post, Fruits That Can Safely Replace Drugs 7 years, 11 months ago

    For every ailment drugs are prescribed and most drugs have side effects. Those with high amount of bad cholesterol drugs that have niacin are prescribed but this drug too has many side effects.  I have a fruit in […]

    • A well researched article about health benefits of fruits especially about egg fruit. Nowadays there is high demand for organic products including fruits as awareness has increased among the people about the negative effects of medication. But people still continue using them as they are used to allopathic medication. I have come across some families which are used to other forms of treatment like Ayurveda, Unani, Siddha and others. These medicines take time but the remedy is permanent whereas allopathy has instant results but with negative results in the long run. When we buy fruits it is preferable to but fruits which are available in plenty as it is their season. They will be fresh and healthy. I think your garden gives you a regular supply of good fruits all through the year.

    • I always have bumper crops not knowing what to do with them as there is no market here for our produce. But we enjoy these fruits which get ripe naturally unlike what one gets in shops.

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    kaylar replied to the topic Goodnews: Message from @Support in the forum Group logo of About LiteracyBaseAbout LiteracyBase 7 years, 11 months ago

    When you want to write something topical, something you want out there now, you can use that site.   Your work is immediately published (just after you finish networking).

    As I often get inspired by a headline I need that outlet as the slow moderation here will only cut down on my views.

    For example, when Merkel banned the burqa I was able to…[Read more]

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    kaylar replied to the topic Goodnews: Message from @Support in the forum Group logo of About LiteracyBaseAbout LiteracyBase 7 years, 11 months ago

    https://niume.com/57248.

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    kaylar replied to the topic Goodnews: Message from @Support in the forum Group logo of About LiteracyBaseAbout LiteracyBase 7 years, 11 months ago

    okay

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    yasirkamal posted an update 7 years, 11 months ago

    unable to spare proper time to write and post some articles here on the site.

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    kaylar replied to the topic Goodnews: Message from @Support in the forum Group logo of About LiteracyBaseAbout LiteracyBase 7 years, 11 months ago

    The point is simple; if a person writes an item that people want to read, they’ll race to the site.  For example, on Triond people wrote items that were getting 1 mill hits.  That means 1 million people came to read it.  That’s how a writing site makes money.   It has to get out there and get the views.

    Here is the quandary.

    I am listening to…[Read more]

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    kaylar replied to the topic Goodnews: Message from @Support in the forum Group logo of About LiteracyBaseAbout LiteracyBase 7 years, 11 months ago

    I am not anti-moderation.   Unless one is a very good writer of professional standards, then the work should have some moderation.   However, the delay on this site is problematic.

    I wrote a piece yesterday I published elsewhere.  It is getting hits and being networked elsewhere.   I did it because it is a topical item.  I can not post topi…[Read more]

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    bestwriter wrote a new post, When Nature Provides Man Takes a Back Seat 7 years, 11 months ago

    When compared to Singapore which has a size of  719.1 km²   and Nepal with a size of  147,181 km²  what we see in Singapore by way of progress is great compared to what we see in Nepal .  Since Nepal is blessed w […]

    • You are right. Nepal is a great place for tourists. I think it is famous for mountains and peaks.

      I would prefer enjoying the beauty of a skyscraper to a high mountain.
      We must be very closer to nature when it comes to our mental and physical health. Nature is our best friend. We must try to save and preserve it.

    • I prefer mountains 😀 although modernisation is needed to enrich our lifestyle.

    • I’m a nature lover so i really appreciate all the beautiful landscape scenery as well as the fresh air in the rural city, the breath taking views of the mountain, the sun set biding goodbye at the end of the day, the shimmering waters of the ocean, it was really a picture perfect and a sight to behold. I hope somehow i would like to be close to the nature to see its beauty beyond words.

    • It is only after reading posts of users like you that I have realised how beautiful Philippines is. You are lucky to be surrounded by mountains.

    • We shifted from a city to a semi rural town just to be with nature. Here it is peaceful and I have created a lot of greenery around me.

    • Each country has its charm and highlights. While countries like Nepal are ancient and have lots of pagodas and temples. In the case of Singapore it has developed well after independence. Its main income is shipping industry, tourism, infrastructure to name a few. In the case of Nepal a big part of it is preserved eternally in nature and that adds to the beauty of the place and the people are also the natives who have been living their for centuries unlike Singapore. Two different cities with contrasting styles. If you want peace of mind Nepal is a better place to be at. You seem to have lot of pleasant memories which is good.

      • Nepal is indeed a place a getaway when one wants peace. There is not much development but nature has gift enough to attract tourists. Singapore on the other hand is a well laid out country – also a place where a tourist can enjoy mostly the cleanliness around it.

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    bestwriter wrote a new post, Situations Work Better Given a Second Chance 7 years, 11 months ago

     

    In any relationship be it formal, informal, business or personal there are situations when a need arises to part company. It is not always that anyone gets back but if they do, that pact gets better results […]

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    bestwriter wrote a new post, A Positive Thought a Day Will Keep the Doctor Away 7 years, 11 months ago

    It is only those who have reached a stage where they only see  positive things around them will know what it is to have this power of positive thinking. I have gone through traumatic experiences only because of m […]

    • Absolutely. Being optimistic can relieve our stressful day.
      Always think positive to have a good heart, as they say.
      Though, it is impossible to be positive when all the people around you are negative thinkers.
      It is impossible sometimes to be positive when in your working place, all your co-workers treat you as their competitor.
      It is impossible to be positive when you are suffering from deadly illness or you are suffering from a great disaster.
      However, it is good to always put in mind that being positive makes everything okay.

      • It is possible. Just try and get that book by Norman Vincent Peale. You will get the guidance there. I have seen terminally ill peple having a smile on their face and so on

    • I would like to second you in this regard. I am impressed by this short but great post written by you. I would like to read it again and again as it is a great source of inspiration for me.

      You seem to be perfect in this field. You seem to have an inborn talent in this connection. Waiting anxiously for some more post on the same topic – Motivation.

      • I am glad you liked this post Thanks. If you can get that book written by Norman Vincent Peale that could help. It helped me.

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    bestwriter wrote a new post, Tips to Make Working in the Kitchen a Joy 7 years, 11 months ago

    Kitchen work is sure considered a drudgery and many shy away from it.

    There are exciting things that happen in the kitchen that can bring you joy given the proper mindset. .

    Here are a few approaches. […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, This is What is Called Global Warming? 7 years, 11 months ago

    I live in Jamaica.

    For the past few years, for the first in my life, I have to sleep with socks. That is because it is cold.

    From October/November until April/May I wear socks to bed.  During the day I […]

    • We have ruined weather patterns in different parts of the world. We are having no rain in our country. We are damaging our nature and environment and it will be declared as unfit for living purposes in the near future if we do not improve the things. We must take proper steps in this connection if we want to secure this beautiful world.

    • Global warming is cause of human irresponsibility…in this peace and beauty world…peoples doing many negative things and also not scared of the god….so global warming is one of the way that god shows his anger on us and make us scared to him

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    kaylar wrote a new post, How To Check if a Site is Legit 7 years, 11 months ago

    Over the years many writing sites have sprung up and ripped off the writers.  The Scam is fairly simple.
    How
    Create a site on one of the many free servers. Get Ad Sense or a similar Ad program which dumps coin […]

    • To be honest, having gained experience with various sites, I don’t know why it didn’t seem obvious to me from the beginning that certain sites would go belly up. Two sites in particular I can think of but won’t bother mentioning them by name because they are already gone and nobody cares any more. Live and learn. But there was one site that I really hated to see go. That was Squidoo. Even though the site was acquired by HUBPages, it’s just not the same. I really miss that site.

      • What happened to some sites, like Squidoo is that they didn’t know how to counter Google’s Panda/Penguin. Labelled content farms as was Hubpages they were unable to create some new paradigm.

        Wikinut stopped paying because of it, and Triond disappeared.

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    kaylar replied to the topic Goodnews: Message from @Support in the forum Group logo of About LiteracyBaseAbout LiteracyBase 7 years, 11 months ago

    niume is just a writing site that publishes right away.    So you can write there.  The more views you have the more you can earn.  It doesn’t pay right away, you need to earn $10.  You can take look…

    niume.com

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    kaylar wrote a new post, When There is no Excuse 7 years, 11 months ago

    In a previous article I mentioned Peggy.

    She was an unsophisticated woman who had no real access to information so believed what she was told.

    It happened at Sharon’s Bar.

    Three guys who had been on Farm […]

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    bestwriter wrote a new post, ‘Gotmatter’ is a Nightmare for Tinycent Community 7 years, 11 months ago

    As some of you know there was a site called tinycent where many of us diligently posted.  It paid us initially but without warning stopped paying, giving an excuse that Indian Banks were on holiday.

    Those […]

    • You can save and delete your posts.I have done that You could do that too.

    • It is more a site that was created by someone who had no knowledge whatsoever about such sites that it got messed up even before it could be well established. I could save a few posts but now it is suspended and one cannot reach it any more.

    • The Day I heard about Tinycent I was pretty certain it was a scam. Then some guy came on posting how he’d spoken to the Owner and the Owner told him… so I knew it was a scam.

      gotmatter is the continuation as the government shut down Tinycent, which is why the server is in singapore.

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    bestwriter wrote a new post, It’s Time Everyone Enters the Digital World 7 years, 11 months ago

    Seniors I notice have assumed that working on computers is only for youngsters. I proved it otherwise. Spending a bit of time to get myself acquainted with it was all that was need for me to start with. I got the […]

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