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    kaylar wrote a new post, It is Just as Easy to be Nice… 7 years, 10 months ago

    My mother used to tell me;  “It is just as easy to be nice as it is to be nasty, so be nice.  You can always be nasty.”

    I’ve tried my best to be nice.  To present a pleasant countenance, to speak kindly, to be wa […]

    • You and I are very much alike. I am nice, and when that doesn’t work, I show my claws and cut them off. Sometimes I don’t show my claws, I just go away.

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    Mr.Church and Profile picture of TiadaTiada are now friends 7 years, 10 months ago

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    kaylar wrote a new post, How Some WebSites Cut Their Own Hits 7 years, 10 months ago

    I used to get news delivered to my in box from a particular service.   I liked it, quoted it, thought it was a good service.  It decided to charge.  I no longer use it.  I applied for another service, which is fre […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, How To Deal with the Slow Brain 7 years, 10 months ago

    This is perfectly evident.   It takes you a second or two to recognise it.  It’s clear.  But!   If you are around a person with a Slow Brain, they will take forever to recognise it, and in between, will ‘di […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Dealing With The Curse of Cassandra 7 years, 10 months ago

    You might think being able to read situations and know what is going to happen next is a great gift.
    Ha!
    Not only does no one who has any control over the situation listen, but when it happens, they have this […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Basa Fish; Something else to Poison the Population 7 years, 10 months ago

    Supermarkets are full of ‘Basa’.   Whether called “swai” “bocourti” “river cobbler”, “cobbler”, “pangasius”, “panga”, or any of these with the addition of “catfish” they swamp the shelves.

    In 2002,  Vietnam was […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Fake News, Biased Reporting, and the Public…? 7 years, 10 months ago

    We have all heard of the Fake News Stories, whether that the Pope endorsed Trump or some anti-Clinton rubbish.  Most people believe everything they read, which is nothing new.   People are gullible.  That is wh […]

    • It also happens here in Philippines, bias news, fake news, unreliable news, the only reason is to create trouble and release their hatred, to scam and to distort the minds of the people.It is not only fake news, likewise fake persons. Just recently one young lady was stabbed to death after meeting a boy friend met in Facebook. It is not wise to accept someone;s love on line hehehe. Fortunately, the suspects is o detained in jail. He left something in the crime scene with his name inscribed on it, so God does not sleep and the criminal must pay. That is why, there are are many fake persons not only ads or news,LOL.

      • Many years ago, as a project, I joined dating sites, (I wrote about it on this site somewhere) and it was clear to me that a lot of what was there was untrue. But people are too gullible. They believe things without proof.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, The Results of Not Planning 7 years, 10 months ago

    No country opens its borders without some serious organisation of data collection.    No organisation opens itself to acceptance of applicants without pre-requisites.

    If, for example, a hurricane destroys all t […]

    • Congrats freind,despite only two of us here saving the site with our blogs, at least we also enjoy writing blogs hehehehe.We are fighetrs and courageous. I am going to submit blogs this afternoon here. I have to sleep first. i slept 3 in the morning and woke up 7 in the morning. I feel groggy. We have many visitors at home this new yer, 6 visitors from other countries, our relatives. They are going to leave home tomorrow to Manila then, USA. They are afraid of the storm that will attack in Mindanao, I am from Mindanao and the storm makes its showdown next week.I hope its performance is nice not worst.

      Your post is on high profile on different issues, congrats.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, You Let The Wookie Win 7 years, 10 months ago

    We were standing on line, maybe we were invisible, as the door man was passing in other people and keeping us out.   Then my friend announced happily; “Let the Wookie Win!”  With that, smiling, we came off the l […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Mad Men; The Television Series 7 years, 10 months ago

    This series ran seven season.  It began in 2007 ended in 2014.  It is the story of the Advertising Industry in America, primarily, New York City; Madison Avenue.  The show begins in 1959 and ends in 1970.

    The at […]

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    kaylar replied to the topic What makes you happy living alone? in the forum Group logo of Thinkers GroupThinkers Group 7 years, 10 months ago

    Exactly.   For example, certain days you set to cook.  You prepare stuff for the week.  Then you go to work.  You can set time to clean or not clean, watch TV or not watch.  You get a power of yourself you can never have when you live with people.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Exploring The Mother / Daughter Alliance 7 years, 10 months ago

    In many parts of the world, women have learned that they can never trust a man. Whether it is part of a culture where a man has more than one wife or where adultery is ‘normal’, women make alliances with other […]

    • Wow well written truth be told mums and daughters share very many secrets together yet no one else would know. I am a woman but the truth is I don’t like it when some women join alliances with their mother’s to ruin the relationship between them and their spouse’s. I think that’s wrong and it should not be encouraged by anyone.
      For me i believe that when you choose to love someone, get into that relationship with the intention of growing both of you and not your mother of father. Remember that it is about the two of you, make that your business. Many people get into marriages for th3 some purpose of enriching themselves bad their families and that’s very sad and unfortunate. I even know of someone who got married, to a lovely lady who he thought was his world, he would do all sorts of good things for her take her places, but her gifts and so on and so forth, not knowing that one day he would be damped for reasons he never understood. After doing all this things an being divorced he comes to the realization that he was duped, and that everything that he did and bought all went in the hands of the woman and her mother. He was left empty with nothing to hold onto. It was very unfortunate the last was in cohorts with the mother to dwindle the poor guy and they managed quite easily.
      So when women do these things really they need to think about the reasons that took them into that marriage in the first place. So not use someone’s feelings to your own advantage it hurts. And for the mother’s who encourage their daughter’s to do such things should really consider what if that boy who is being duped was their son how would they feel?

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    kaylar replied to the topic What makes you happy living alone? in the forum Group logo of Thinkers GroupThinkers Group 7 years, 10 months ago

    It is not really a great feat.  Just find a nice little place, just for you.  Gives you lots of time to think and comprehend things in life.

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    kaylar replied to the topic What makes you happy living alone? in the forum Group logo of Thinkers GroupThinkers Group 7 years, 10 months ago

    I was married and have children…   I don’t mind being alone… I like it.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, The Greatest Challenge in Watching T.V. Online 7 years, 10 months ago

    Although we can debate the selection of What to Watch as being a ‘challenge’,  I would prefer to label it more of a ponder than a problem.

    There is an enormous variety of programs going back to 1950s and forward […]

    • yes, This is really a challenge If not one there are many other sites which can be found to view the targeted show. Be it a serial or a movie the aim is to search and find the appropriate site.
      The only thing one requires is patience
      I, most of the times do the same thing If I lose any episode I search for it. I choose a site which is free from advertisements and then I prefer it. This saves our time and most importantly we can enjoy the movie or show without any disturbance during the show

      • Sometimes you will find that the episode is not there or some kind of problem viewing it. I move to another site. In a way, the Internet is a ‘new world’ where there is always another site.

    • I find it very relaxing myself. I can shut the show when I have to take a call or go out…

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Me Nah Want Old Bruk 7 years, 10 months ago

    The title can be translated as “I don’t want old things.”  It should not be said by someone in poverty who is offered second hand clothing.    It should not be said when religious organisations from America se […]

    • In America we have Goodwill stores. They take second hand stuff and sell it at really low prices. It’s for low income people, but anybody can shop there and buy lots of used items at great prices. I can understand if people don’t want you dumping on them. I mean … giving something a dog wouldn’t even wear. But used clothing is nothing new. (Excuse the pun.) If you came from a big family, you probably wore hand me downs. I suspect an ulterior motive is behind requesting new items instead of “old bruk”. I don’t know what the reasoning is, but I do know charity is charity and it doesn’t wear a mask. A person who receives charity is usually grateful for whatever they get. I know I am! Most of my clothes are “old bruk” and also my other property (TVs, furniture, etc.) is “old bruk”.

      • I know what you are saying. We gave things to Good Will, and it has only been in the past few years that I’ve been dumping them.

        It is so bad, that Politicians do NOT give money to parents who beg for school fees… they pay the fees to the school because the mother will take the money to get another tattoo.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Being Proactive; Preventing Sibling Capitulation 7 years, 10 months ago

    As a parent who has more than one child, the potential of one ‘dominating’ the other is live.  I am not talking simply about a bully or the elder taking charge of the younger.  I am focusing on a problem which f […]

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    kaylar replied to the topic What makes you happy living alone? in the forum Group logo of Thinkers GroupThinkers Group 7 years, 10 months ago

    I like living alone as I can eat/sleep when I chose, and can be sloppy without complaint.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Getting Out While the Getting is Good 7 years, 10 months ago

    There are times when fate seems to conspire to ‘protect’ you.

    You aren’t there when disaster hits, you aren’t a witness to other people’s grief.   You weren’t working for the company when there was an inquiry. […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, People Cling to Their Constructs more than their Children 7 years, 10 months ago

    Years ago, a friend of mine made the statement that is the title; “People Cling to their Constructs more than their Children.”

    At the time, I didn’t understand.   The words were heard, but floated somewhere […]

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