Wow you were really a party girl according to your story. Partying the whole week or three times in a week may sound like a lot of time out, but it’s underatandable given that you were still young and in college.
During my days I also used to go out but not as much. Mine was kind of limited, I would go like twice in a month. But it was not a given that I would go. But I can remember December was the month of having all this fun, because most kids were on holiday, celebrations are going on from every corner, parties are the in thing during this time. Me and some two friends of mine created a dancing group that used to perform routine dances, around the estates. We would have people from different places come to ask us to go and perform for them, and Mark you it was all for fun no one paid anyone we would do it for free and really enjoy ourselves in the long run.
Going to the disco was a Saturday event. We would hang out the who night until the next morning at 6pm. We did this because if you left at midnight or at 2am in the morning, you would not get means to go home. Those are the days when you would not get taxis that easy they were mostly for the rich and quite expensive.
Anyway I loved those days they were the most enjoyable and memorable days of my life. I wish I would go back to those days but am all grown now and taking life slow. Some of this things don’t excite me much nowadays. Am more quiet and reserved and just enjoying my quiet time at home.

I enjoy watching disco dancing. It a lot of entertainment. But actually I enjoy all dancing. It relaxes me and even clears my mind. I even enjoy dancing myself every since I was a little girl. As I grew older I begin to pole dance. It wasn’t about the money. I just really enjoyed it. Dancing was a big activity for me.

Lolzzz.. From your writeup, its obvious you made a delicious meal. Perhaps they were carried away by the tasty meal you made them. So no hard feeling ok.

“I was a bit disappointed, because I want to hear it. But I guess, I just have to be contented of seeing them eating the pakbet, as if they have no tomorrow anymore. Lol” and thats all that matters. Because their actions have shown you how much they appreciated your efforts.

We learned them as children, but no mater your age these essential words are effortless to say and convey a wealth of meaning to others. They have a powerful ability to create positive interactions.
But we sometimes fail to recognize and show appreciation for the everyday courtesies that come our way. And also sometimes when we don’t hear the two magic words from those we would like to hear them from, doesn’t mean we’re not appreciated.Most people know to express their thanks for gifts, favors, awards, and the like.

I’m hoping you share your recipes with me in the future…

Well actually, I have known them, including my husband to be like that, no saying of Thank You. You will just know from the way the gobble up the viand and the perspiration in their heads, that they really liked what I cook.

And at the bedroom, i would ask my husband if he liked what I cooked, he would joke NO! and hugs me.

But then I still would like to hear it or even just a plain “It is so delicious!” .

As you said these two words can really create a positive reaction from the recipient. Makes us wanna cook more delicious foods. ha ha ha

Recipes ? I only cook simple foods. Or from what are the ingredients inside the refrigerator that is available. I call it cooking by chance.

Uuhhhhhh so sweet of your husband..*smiles* then you also telling him jokingly. “Honey I’ll like to hear you say it.it makes me feel better”lolzzz..

You must be a very good cook for using the available ingredients in the refrigerator to do perform the magic they enjoy so much. Thumbs up.Continue keeping your family happy.

Generation now a days is getting worst.Ladies or elderly are even standing on public transportation’s. This kind of attitudes are often observed to younger generations.They do not offer seat to ladies even they see them standing,specially on trains where lot of people are rushing to work.But of-course take some considerations for those who do not feel well that they need to sit.

Fortunately , we still have gentlemen in our city. In fact yesterday, there was a guy who stood up and let the lady sit in lieu of him The worst scenario was, the lady did not even thank the teenager who sacrificed to stand for the sake of the old lady. I told the lady, no ore seat, but she insisted and the guy beside me stood up and offered his seat. I commuted yesterday for my car is in shop for cleaning. That case, I was so thankful for we still have gentlemen in our city, if there are gentlemen ; sad there are also hypocrites hard for them to say than you for the seat offered.

many of the new and old generation dont bother to stand i saw old and young men also dont care for woman old and young while the are standing the men are setting, how shame is that, i can not beleive it really what to expect worse than that? non that is the worst thing not to respect women, but i saw women supporting women and im so happy to see them like this, i do also support any woman in any situation as we have to support each other and not to be bullied at for any reason it is, way to go to the girls who support other women too, God bless

A good topic. Just a happy experience and memory between the couple. After getting married 10 years, I just ignore it and forget all these issue, move on and sleep , haha!

I seized a moment, several years ago, to teach one of my daughters what marriage relationships are about. She mentioned something my husband (her dad) does and asked me how and why I put with it since it was so annoying. I responded: “Yeah. He does do that. But it’s nothing I would get a divorce over.” She smiled back because she clearly understood the “lesson”. 🙂

Of course our partners have habits that annoy us. In the same way, we have habits that annoy them too! But we overlook or tolerate them because, if we weigh them on a scale, we realize that our mates have many more good qualities than they have annoying habits. Those qualities are why you stay together. The habits you talk about and change if you can. If not, you learn to ignore them. 🙂

Men can be the most annoying beings in earth then kids. The things they do sometimes you may find yourself asking so many questions that only you can answer. I don’t know why they feel that they can say stiff all the time and make it look like it’s no big deal.
For me my biggest problem is when my fiancee visits. When I am busy working in the house, moving from one corner to another, all he will do is just sit on the couch and flip through the channels. The next thing I know he expects me to cook, serve him and clear the kitchen, yes i don’t refuse that it is my duty to do that, but if I could only get some kind of help i would appreciate. Men have oftenly believed that the house belongs to the women and so she is the one in charge of keeping it in order. He’s only contribution is to have the rent paid that’s it no, that’s not right, he needs to also engage himself and help around the house. Another annoying thing is when he gets too loud around the visitors or friends. It can get so annoying that you actually feel like putting him off and asking him to keep quiet. Another thing when you would go out together with your friends, and that are busy drinking and making merry, so it would get to that point you feel he has had enough and so you should leave, but guess what, instead he now gets into the fun even more, and decides that he doesn’t want to leave just yet and that we should wait a little longer. That really posses me off, and sometimes you can’t really do anything about it.

Well yeah, homelessness is a global phenomenon. It probably is in correlation with how capital minded a goverment/society is. Sure the goverment will make homeless shelters and soup kitchens but that sure as hell isn’t enough. I’m from europe an the last few years there has been a stream of immigrant from the middle east because of this the goverment has done even less for our homeless patriots, who don’t commit crimes. It is like they have been forgotten. After all we all know how politicians act, for them it is the public eye that matters not a heart of compassion.

When Jesus said “The poor ye have always with you”, He wasn’t saying to ignore them and not show charity. The greatest gift is love (or charity).

For every country that exists that has governing leaders and/or rich people, there is no excuse for homelessness.

It’s true, there are some people who create their own bad situations in life and end up where they end up. No matter how much you try to help them, they just stay down.

But most often homeless people live the way they do because they have either always been poor or were once financially sufficient but have fallen upon hard times. There are those who have the power to extend a helping hand, but they are too selfish to be bothered. They have other “priorities”.

Many religious organizations or charity foundations do what they can to address this social problem. But there are people in government positions who actually have a job where they are supposed look out for the welfare of the poor citizens and they don’t do their job! But they still get a paycheck. There are other people who have more than enough money and can donate the funds – I said DONATE – to create homes, serves food, etc. It’s their money. You can’t tell them what to do with it. If they choose to turn their heads and look the other way, it’s their decision.

Homelessness is a problem than can easily remedied.

Homelessness, “the have-nots”, exists because of the selfishness of “the haves”.