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    kaylar wrote a new post, The Long Con – Why People are So Angry 8 years, 3 months ago

    When some guy or gal you wouldn’t trust to give change for a dollar is arrested for fraud or drug dealing, you shrug.

    When some bad boy (or girl) actor is arrested for driving drunk or possession of drugs, or […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Foods that were Once Considered Healthy 8 years, 3 months ago

    Over the years, many products have been put on the market, often claiming to be healthy or have some kind of medicinal properties.

    These are just a few items I have researched.
    COCA COLA
    In 1886 an Atlanta […]

    • some writers mentioned that corn flakes are not healthy because it is mixed with sucrose, sugar, honey even though i is just plain corn flakes, not honey rings etc

      Corn flakes are filling for kids but not adults, however I don’t find it helpful for bowel movements

      • I don’t touch corn flakes…I’ll have muesli, the kind I can see the nuts and fruits and grains in it.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, How to Escape being the Dog’s Body 8 years, 3 months ago

    It is called by many names.   ‘Gofor’,  ‘Lackey’,  and of course, ‘Resource Person’, (to be politically correct).

    This is a person who is expected to do a lot of work for neither pay nor recognition.  Sort of […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Too Many Hurdles — Why writing Sites Fail (3) 8 years, 3 months ago

    A chap began a site.

    He sent his Shill all about the ‘Net to round up users.   I was in one of the first batches.

    I liked the TOS, (terms of service)  the payout seemed good, and the writing had to be up t […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, The Second Time I Crashed a Party 8 years, 3 months ago

    There were 44 Jamaicans in Barbados at a particular discipline at the University.

    We knew each other, some we liked, some we didn’t, there were various cliques.

    There were two chaps I played Chess with. […]

    • Yes it was a good marriage and your participation was mysterious you were not invited is spite of this you went to attend the marriage function I think personally that it was your greatness you attended yhe party from his friend’s side.

      If I were you I say my friend in thse words as
      Coming together in hope, joined by a promise and united in love. Congratulations on your Wedding! May all your days be filled with light and joy!
      You were meant to be! Wishing you both an eternity of love and happiness together.
      Warmest wishes to my best friend! I really feel so happy for you two found each other. You are an inspiration to those around you! May your joy last forever.
      Congratulations to the Happy Couple! Today I wish for you all the happiness your hearts could ever dream of!

      Congratulations on your first big step together,
      And wishing you a wonderful life.
      You were two best friends forever,
      And now you are a Man and a Wife!

    • The marriage didn’t last

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Giving Yourself Worry 8 years, 3 months ago

    Famous story, you all know it.

    Guy has a flat tyre and does not have a jack.  He looks around and sees a house.  He starts to walk to it. As he walks he images the house holder.   He presumes the chap would be […]

    • I live in Jamaica… we have the police kill someone nearly every day. So I know what you are talking about. What I’m saying is that not to predict things will go against you.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Jumping Hurdles, Why writing sites fail (2) 8 years, 3 months ago

    If one writes anything but a personal blog (and even then) it is likely that much of what  will  be posted has been posted already.

    If it is history, if it is science, politics, anything that is real; i.e. H […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Alas, Poor Triond, I knew it, Homies 8 years, 3 months ago

    Triond was the first site I wrote for.  I found it using Stumbleupon.

    Stumble is a site, (I’ve mentioned it before) which you join, pop in your interests, hit the Stumble button and are shown all sorts of […]

    • I don’t doubt you. There were many items that went viral. There was a large audience. When the site went down it’s hits and pay had dramatically dropped.

      In Nov 2010 when there were 500k hits… that was down by half.

    • I signed up for Triond. I just never found my comfort level so I left.

      • That was odd, because it was so easy. You didn’t have to find an image, they’d give you one, and you had so many topics you could write about.

        • They kept rejecting my writing. I didn’t know why but it wasn’t worth being aggravated. 🙁

          • That is strange because Triond usually was press and publish… very little waiting time.

            • Strange indeed. Most people reported an experience similar to yours, not mine. That’s why I moved on. If you’re at a site and it’s working for everybody else except you, then leave. It’s not your site. You have no control. The owners don’t have to allow you to be there anyway. I wasn’t interested in an explanation. Either the site is easy for me to use or I’m outta there! Simple as that. 🙂

    • ah, you are not the only one!
      When I first joined triond many years ago, I think it was in the 2012, I had earned 30 cents for the whole year, I got so frustrated that my posts didn’t get any traffic and were copied pasted by other cheaters, I closed my account and removed my posts to bubblews where I got paid, at least

      • Again… that’s a bit strange. But with Triond, you had this whole aspect of sharing, with a pile of sites and what you learned to do was post, then start sharing like crazy..

        I would say, that from 2007 – 2010 you could make $50 a month. It started dropping with Google’s Panda.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, The First Time I Crashed a Party 8 years, 3 months ago

    I was not invited to Jalle’s Xmas Party.   Every year she would hold her party a week before Xmas break.  This was to allow the invitees to march around and talk about how wonderful the party was.

    And of c […]

    • That should be a way of saying that if you do not have an invitation to go for a party please do not invite yourself. it is always courteous to ask. and let me know how did you manage to keep the lady out of your site. You have actually made my afternoon.

    • I went because people thought we were friends, not that I was merely her homework slave. I went, she never spoke to me again, but people made up stories why we didn’t speak…and I didn’t lose my status.

    • I had to go… remember, everyone thought Jalle and I were friends. I knew that if she caught me she’d say something and then could never ask me to do her homework again. So there were two upsides… the first… being at the Party, the second.. not having to do her homework.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Too Many Hurdles; why publishing sites fail (1) 8 years, 3 months ago

    I joined this ‘writing’ site; I’ll call it Scrib.   It didn’t seem to be different than the other sites, except it has a very long TOS; (terms of service).

    Most people don’t read the TOS, and in some cases I […]

    • Thank you for sharing your experience. I have heard about Scrib but never got around to signing up.

      • Once a site goes beyond demanding x words and image I’m out of there

        • Yes. Any site that wants to survive should make the experience user-friendly. Members come from all backgrounds with so much to offer. They may have a passion or expertise that could really pull in traffic to the site. But because the owners did not make the site easy to navigate, they get frustrated, give up and leave! It does happen! Owners need to recognize people come in at all levels of experience – newbies, intermediate and advanced. The newbie will get confused and leave because it was too hard to get started. The intermediate or advanced may have had experience elsewhere that was not as difficult, throw up their hands and say “Forget this! I’m outta here!” Know what I mean? Then again … maybe the site owners are new to the game and haven’t learned what to do themselves. Who knows?? (O.o)

    • me too…give me too much guff… I’m gone

    • And what about sites that edit our blogs and give it a new look wiping out your writing style. I am out of such sites too

      • I have never had that experience. The only time certain articles I wrote were edited, the editor let me know the changes and it was up to me to keep the article or trash it. What sites have you been at that edited your work to the point of wiping out your writing style? (O.o)

        • There is a particular new site which your work is ‘edited’. When you look at it… that is NOT what you said! It isn’t just a change of heading… it’s not your item.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, I Didn’t Need a Ouija Board 8 years, 3 months ago

    I didn’t need tarot cards, either, to know this marriage was going to crash.  I can give you all the signs, starting from the wedding.

    The bride wasn’t glowing.

    Every happy bride virtually glows.  She has t […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, An Embarrassing Prank 8 years, 3 months ago

    When I was in High School we decided to pull a prank.   We thought it would be funny and then we could sort of scream “April Fools”  although it wasn’t April.

    We are High School kids so don’t get all pompous a […]

    • That’s a real life experience from which you learned a valuable real life lesson.

    • yes, that is the problem with people believing in rumours, gossips and couldn;t figure out which is a prank joke after all

      • WE were trying to protect her. (Just take a guess why she couldn’t come back to school) so we made up something positive.

        But it taught me that if you hate Obama you want to believe the worst of him. An item published on a site with no credibility will be held up as proof because people really want to believe the worst.

    • I have never liked pranks of any kind in my life ever.

      Neither when i was small nor right now. For me every humour or fun should have a limit like every other thing in this world.

      Somethings can never be accepted even if they are done only for the sake of fun

      But I am happy you have learned a lesson for life.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Watching the Olympics in Jamaica 8 years, 3 months ago

    We jumped on our televisions last night to watch the Opening Ceremony of the Olympics in Rio. We all went a little crazy when our flag was carried in by Shelly Ann Fraser-Pryce..  Our pitiful television station […]

    • Our TV gave us problems too when we tried to watch the opening ceremonies for the Olympics. At first, we couldn’t get any sound. Then when we finally got sound, they weren’t speaking in English!! Yeah yeah yeah. I’m a spoiled rotten American who thinks the rest of the world should speak MY language. My husband got tired of it, tuned out and started listening to his music videos. 🙂 You are spot on about the runners from Jamaica. Amazing! 🙂

    • They didn’t broadcast the whole opening ceremony here. And the events that we are in were a bit jumpy the first two days.

    • It is very interesting to see and look Jamaica Olympic Games on TV sitting at home with family and children but very bad the whole cremoney was not telecaster by the national and international channels for public.

      But I think that Shelly-Ann Fraser-Pryce will bid for a third successive Olympic 100m title, while world 200m silver medallist Elaine Thompson has been selected for both the 100m and 200m.

      Other leading names on the team include world indoor 60m hurdles champion Omar McLeod, world shot put bronze medallist O’Dayne Richards and two-time Olympic 200m champion Veronica Campbell-Brown.

      It is the biggest event on earth and most important for the public. Race is more important part of Olympic Games especially of 100mt because According to Live Strong, training for the 100m sprint “requires the development of strength, power transfer and flexibility”.

      The 100m sprint can be broken down into the start, acceleration and maximum speed phases, says athletic trainer Phil Davies. Sprinters have to lean forward and deliver maximum thrust to their feet during the start phase for the first 10 meters, and then slowly move the body upright for the next 50 meters during the acceleration phase, and then go into long-stride deceleration during the final 40 meters of the race.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Networking 8 years, 3 months ago

    You’ve spent how long composing that article.  You have submitted it to that site. Your item has now been published. Congrats.

    Now comes the real effort.

    Compare it to beating out other applicants for a […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, The Job Interview 8 years, 3 months ago

    When it comes to hiring,  too often prospective employers ask the wrong questions, judge by the wrong criterion and hire the wrong people.

    Wrong people are very difficult to fire. The worst workers are usually […]

    • Yes, E.Q. is extremely important. Many 3rd & 4th World places never heard of it. I read about it myself…and have realised why some people who don’t have ‘on paper’ qualifications are so competent.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, The Psychopaths 8 years, 3 months ago

    Most psychopaths have never killed anyone. Not physically. Their pleasure comes by hurting other people emotionally, mentally, economically.
    Psychopaths take pleasure by oppressing people.  To mentally or emotio […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Discovery at Tintagel; was King Arthur Real 8 years, 3 months ago

    Most of us have heard the legend of King Arthur.  We might have read the ‘original’ story (which was constructed out of bits and pieces of other legends) or seen one of the many television programs or movies […]

    • It will be interesting to see if any additional information can be gleaned from the find. Often, what we get from such digs is a few pieces of data and more questions than answers.

    • I have always believed King Arthur was a fictional person. However, if they happen to dig up a round table, I might start singing a different tune. 🙂

      • Life has taught me that many ‘myths’ or ‘legends’ have a lot of truth in them. The Flood really happened, (geological evidence)

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    kaylar wrote a new post, How to make Tofu Stickies 8 years, 3 months ago

    Most people don’t even want to hear the word ‘tofu’ much less cook or eat it.

    That is because most people never tasted tofu that has had some effort put into its’ preparation.

    This particular recipe is […]

    • Two types of recipes I’m starting to collect: sushi and tofu. This one will find its way to my foodie blog.

      • When you make it the first time you taste it and keep tasting and it’s gone. My carnivorous friend said it tasted like bacon.

    • Tofu which we call paneer here is in great demand specially with Punjabi dishes. Matar Paneer is the dish that is often seen in many restaurants. Your recipe looks interesting.

      • Tofu needs to be seasoned and made into what you want, not just fried and flung on a plate. Too many people don’t put effort into their tofu

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    kaylar wrote a new post, The Fight Back Against Ads 8 years, 3 months ago

    Many people will shut a page as soon as they see a pop-up. This is a protest against ads.

    Sites should monitor how many users spend 2 seconds or less on their page.   And if those 2 seconds were owned by the […]

    • If we can put up with commercials on tv channels there is no reason why we cannot put up with them here. As is known to everyone Ads generate revenue and putting an Ad blocker is wrong as the one who puts that ad blocker will get paid but through the efforts of others.

      • We don’t watch commercials. They often play to our empty seat. Having ads which interfere in one’s viewing of a site lead to people leaving a site. So many people use ad blockers. And they won’t stop. Not unless the Ads stop attacking the page.

        • How will you get paid if there are no Ads on writing sites such as this? Do you have a plan?

          • Here is the quandary… A visitor comes. Before s/he can start to read, a pop up obliterates the page. The visitor goes away. Another visitor comes, ads disrupt the item to the extent the visitor goes away.

            In both cases, the hit does not count because it is less than 30 seconds.

            An ad that is to the side would be ignored and not offend the visitor. A good ad with a useful item that might tie to the article; i.e. talking about computers and ads to the side, or cell phones, etc. would be useful.

    • And people will close the page. People will come on to see what was written, be attacked by ads and pop ups, and go.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, When Ads Kill the Article 8 years, 3 months ago

    I belong to a number of sites; and I use Stumbleupon.  This is a site where you put down your likes.  You click on it, and it gives you site after site.

    Years ago, it was fantastic.  You’d see so much, you’d le […]

    • If you do not want Ads to appear in your blog then you could have your own personal blog where there will be no Ads. In sites such as this you get paid from revenue generated through Ads.

      • The fact is, when a visitor is assaulted by so many ads and pop ups they leave. They don’t say…”Oh, I’ll sit here and take it because it is good for the site and the writer.”

        You have to appreciate that the viewer has no vested interested in the site. They don’t care if the site lives or dies. They came here because they learned there was an article here on something they were interested in.

        They come, too many ads, they leave, go to another site.

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