I know in time I will able to understand but taking her dear life is something that I can’t accept. I know what’s going on with her were something she could handle any more. I know she is hiding something that only her knows. It is painful and I am not sure if I can able to handle this one too. I hope her family will be tough for each other.

We have to accept this reality. No one is spared for this eventuality. If he does, he would be still experiencing this even a wink of an eye. This had happened to some Bible important persons like Moses, Enoch, and the rest who have not died for they are translated by the Lord.

Death is one of the three realities in life. The first is birth, second, living, and last is death. Not counting the spiritual point of view which is the resurrection.

Thanks for sharing this beautiful and touching post.
It is hard to accept that a dear friend’s passing but time would heal the pain.

Your hubby had been very kind to talk the guy out but when someone has the intention to commit suicide, you can see the symptoms , look to his Facebook.

There were several cases in our country where young teens and adults took their lives without a good reason.

Fed up with their lives, guilty of something done, feeling lonely, rejected by someone or even study pressure.

Most of these cases you see the symptoms, the victims would type in their last Goodbye at Facebook.

Yes, you may feel the hunch that your friend had that kind of thoughts, that is when he needed more support, only his family members could stay 24 hrs per day with him.

So, you are not at fault, you had done your best.

Amen to your friend.

Life is a gift from God, and no one has the right to take away their own life. But some people find it much easier to end their lives so that they can put an end to their miserable lies. That’s not the best option that someone would take, suicide is not the answer. It is painful enough to see someone die because of illness,but suiside? You will never get through that pain easily. There will always be that question in your mouth what happened, or where did I go wrong, all this things cloud your mind and sometimes you may find that your blaming yourself for things that you don’t understand. So death is inevitable but let it come naturally don’t force it life is a gift treat it well.

Suicide is a bad thing and those who commit suicide are cowards not bold or clever. Those who cannot face time hardships and find noway to escape make suicide anon.

In other words that Severe depression is always accompanied by a pervasive sense of suffering as well as the belief that escape from it is hopeless. The pain of existence often becomes too much for severely depressed people to bear.

I asked you to tell me why you think people contemplate suicide and you had some amazing insights. It is clear that it is usually not just one thing that compels someone to feel suicidal. You said it is a combination of a lot of things, including:
pain
loneliness
rejection
abuse
deep depression
guilt
depression
helplessness
hopelessness

I believe first and foremost, hopelessness is a serious spiritual problem rooted in lies and faulty thinking. Anytime you believe lies about yourself, you are listening to the wrong voices.

OMG sissy, I am so sorry to hear of your loss 🙁 As I’m reading this I have goosebumps. I’m sure a part of you went with her. Just remember I’m here for you… I love you!

That is life. You have to take it squarely. Face the truth. Accept the reality. If she’s your best friend, don’t isolate yourself. Muster the needed strength and be bold to see her for the last time, if you want to visit here in Bacolod.

By the way, I am living in Negros Occidental and our capital city is Bacolod. I want to venture to find it out. If I might be mistaken probably I know her family. I am just guessing anyway. I am very sorry to know the untimely death of your friend in our place.

I am so sorry that you have to go through this. I can sympathize with you because I have lost a friend and found out on Facebook. Although, our friends have passed in different ways, it is still a terrible loss. I hope that you can come to terms with her passing and know that she is not in any emotional pain anymore. It is hard to understand why someone would do this and even though they may portray to the whole world that they are feeling fine, inside they are not truly fine. I wish there was something I can do for you in your time of need. I can only be here to listen to you and to support you. Remember your friends here are only a post away if you need to talk. Take care of yourself and try to remember that you are not alone as you seem to feel. Reach out to us if you need us. My thoughts and prayers go out to you, my friend.

Well, that is life we can’t never tell how long we go far in this world. Our life here on earth is like a passing journey. It’s here a little while then it’s gone. Maybe she send you a message just to bid you goodbye for she knows its about time for her to go. Yes, its very painful at first but that’s life. We should always remember that our final destination in this world is death. A world without end. What we do on earth when we’re still living will determined our fate in the second life and through the loving hands of God we will know his verdict as he will show the movie of our life. He gave us a free will to choose between good and evil and it was entirely in our hands what kind of path we are going to cross and travel.

Goodness that’s so sad. It has never been that easy to accept a death. It is the hardest thing to come to terms with.but again we cannot avoid it either we still have to face it. I don’t know what I would do if I heard about the demise of a good friend on the social media it is very painful. I remember when I found out that my late sister died in a road accident, it was the hardest thing ever. Confusion set in there was denial, I didn’t want anyone telling me anything about my sister being no more so it was very very hard to accept that she was no more. So I can tell or feel how you felt when you found out about your friend. But with a lot of company the pain does go away at some point.

You lost your friend very sad but it is life part finding friend and losing friend as we have lost our father and our father lost his father and his father lost his father…it is a chain of life. It is continuous circle of God is called life and death circle.

Now I say that True friendship can afford true knowledge. It does not depend on darkness and ignorance. But Sweet is the memory of distant friends! Like the mellow rays of the departing sun, it falls tenderly, yet sadly, on the heart.

We must not call that person who has lost his father, an orphan; and a widower that man who has lost his wife. But that man who has known the immense unhappiness of losing a friend, by what name do we call him? Here every language is silent and holds its peace in impotence.

Friends are the best source of pleasures and the gift of God on earth. We must respect friends more precious than a diamond.

I am wondering what kind of garden you are raising. In a time of natural calamities, your garden survive. Why is it survived? Because God has protected it, because of your unwavering faith of God’s greatest love and mercy. It is the faith that makes everything possible.

Believe it or not with that kind of faith, coupled with a prayer of faith, it is for sure you will be having a garden of Eden figuratively speaking.