Pleasing your man and keeping him happy and satisfied among other things can be quite difficult. I mean I’m not an expert. But considering my man was quite the ladies man before we got together and he hasn’t wondered off yet is if I do say so myself amazing.
And when I fall I fall hard and fast. Considering he was my first male partner. For my experience I have always supported his wants and needs however it has to be rational. But for him he loves to feel as if his decisions in life are good and supported. How would you feel?
Another is make sure you show him you appreciate the things he does for you. Men love to feel like they are being appreciated for what they’re doing. Just like women. Don’t worry if you don’t get much recognition for your role as the gf or wife or mother of his children.
That can be quite normal in my experience which is actually quite sad when you think about it. Also aside from cooking and cleaning and all the things they are used to having done for them by their mothers you will forgive make him realize how much you remind him of his mother (in a good way) and he will realize also that you’re showing him what it would be like if you two were to marry.
If you’re like me I like my partner to pull his weight at home also and have daddy time with his daughters. I don’t think too much freedom for him is good, or else he will get used to doing what he pleases because you’ve clearly shown him your role in the relationship and he’s also comfortable with his working during the day and doing absolutely nothing after work. So be firm with that and he will appreciate it later on. And so will his children. For instance; he wants to go out with his friend to another suburb for a night then back home early in the morning.
That to me is a waste of time, he’s tired from work that day, he wears glasses, has to drive over an hour drive at night, somewhere he’s never been with people besides his friend there, have to leave super early in the morning to come home because his friend has work at 8am. That is the difference of how a woman thinks compared to your man. Once you explain why you think he should stay home that night and plan a family day out the following day he will appreciate that alot. So that was an example of a situation that I have had. Now if you have kids it’s a whole other chapter.
Because if you’re a stay at home mother of twin girls nearly 2 years old. It is not a walk in the park relaxing day at home like your man thinks it is. Having to constantly tell him that it’s not easy gets a little frustrating I know.
And when your man throws the “I work” excuse at you can drive you mad and feel a little unappreciated. I totally give it up to those solo parents out there and stay at home mothers or father’s because I know it’s exhausting not physically but mentally. But just understand that your man hasn’t been in that situation before maybe leave him with the kid/s for a day to see how he copes while you go out and have a day off.
Or if you’re like me get a part time night job when there’s someone home to watch your children and use that time away at work as your “break” because trust me you need something like that. But all in all. He will understand and you both will appreciate the roles you play.
So pleasing your man maybe a pain but remember, by you showing him how supportive yet strict on certain things will show him that you really care and will be there to push him and catch him if he needs. But also allow him time away to stay intact with his friends. In my situation his time away and passion has always been playing basketball ball. So that’s his time away.
Be there for him in those ways, he will surely start being there for you if he isn’t already. That’s is my experience I hope you found somethings helpful. Or comment some stuff you have found to keep your man/woman happy. I would love to know.
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Its the little things that make them happy. Just by simply asking them how their day was, to asking what hed like to have for dinner. Maybe even having his clothes ready by the tub so that one less thing he has to worry about when he gets home from work. why not even rub his feet, back, or even just play in his hair. Showing a little love sometimes is the key to keeping him happy. Write him a sweet message when hes on his way to work, that way when he opens it the first thing he does is smile and remembers why he loves you. Maybe your man is a stay at home dad and you work. Ask him what he did today, or what he eat for lunch just so he knows you have acknowledged him.
Man crave for attention all the time and that are sometimes like little babies. But we ar3 women we have been brought up and trained in such a way that we cannot forget to take care of our men no matter what. What you have said is actually very true though it's never easy to keep a smile on your face all the time, but you have no choice of you want to live in harmony in your house. Men also love a woman who can cook for him all the time. In actual sense men do not like to eat out that would love to go.a home to a clean tidy home, served good by his lovely wife who is of course at that moment tidy and clean as well. I believe that is something every man would love to come home to and that makes him happy and relaxed at the same time. Good is one of the most importAnt things in a man's life of you can't cook then you are in trouble because that will keep him away from home and guess what before you know it your love will fly out the window and never come back. Happiness doesn't need a lot of effort those small small things that you do are the ones that will bring happiness and joy in the house.
Really husband and wife relationship is charmful and harmful. If both have mutual understanding the relationship will be charmful while on the contrary will be harmful because both do not have mutual understanding. It effects kids if they have. I suggest husband and wife must live peacefully.
It has already been pointed out that marriage is more than love. Indeed, it must be fed by love, but in essence it is a communion of life. What true love seeks is realized in marriage. Love becomes "serious" because it concerns the whole of human life. Marriage consists of a life of work and worry, joy and sorrow, sickness and health; it involves being young and becoming old, dealing with small and big problems, coping with internal and external troubles, and facing individual and social questions, all in loving communication with each other.
A great many days, weeks, months, and years are shared. During this long period - should the Lord grant it - the couple lives together in intimacy, which reveals all. It soon becomes apparent that big things can matter very little while small things can become dreadfully big. Often over an insignificant matter a great quarrel springs up. Marriage can show how any person can be terribly small.
Love has to accept the other person with all his or her peculiarities, weaknesses, and pettiness. Love prepares a home for the other. Marriage and the family provide a resting place, a natural haven from the hectic pace of modem life. No strained or artificial manners are necessary at home; one can be oneself there.
thanks for article.good idea
Yes its not easy to please your man and keep him happy. And they can be really demanding. They dont always relize that you are also tired after a day cleaning cooking and taking care of the kids. They come home kick out their shoes sit back infront of the tv,relax. And order you to bring him his food and running his bathwater! And we wonan jumps to please our men,because we love and apriciate what they do for us! And somerhime we do all this for them without a thank you or a little apriciation from them. But hey! From their side they are taking good care of us and their children!