The reality is that women judge men by the woman on their arm. No matter what they look like, who they are, the woman they are with defines them.
You might see Rick and think he is handsome or bright or desirable. You may talk with him, like him, think about him. One day you see him with a female who resembles the Pillsbury Doughboy. From that moment, he is no longer handsome or bright or desirable.
The immediate response is if that woman on his arm is the ‘best’ he can do, then you need glasses because you have obviously seen a Rick that doesn’t exist. For the Rick you thought you saw would be with Miss Jamaica, not the Pillsbury Doughboy.
Of course, it works the other way.
A woman who is ‘all that’ is seen with a nothing guy. The eyes of other females wonder what does he have that would attract a woman like her? Why is she with him?
Other Women see them at the supermarket. Other women see them driving over there. He must have something to attract such an important and pretty woman, they think. Maybe he’s a musician, maybe he’s a sports star. He must be Somebody.
So other women go after him as if he’s made of gold.
They don’t know that he is the handy man. They don’t realise the ‘All That’ woman goes with him to carry the bags and to assist in purchasing items for the yard and house. Sure, she likes him well enough, but not in that man/woman style.
So the other women go after him, and ‘get him’.
And it is after they are together that the Other Woman finds out he was only the Handy Man. And now she’s stuck with him.
Men who know how people judge them will virtually hire a beautiful woman to be their escort to functions. This is because they know their status will go up when people see him with such a stylish lady.
For men are judged by the Woman on their arm.
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I honestly couldn't have said this any better myself.
Thank you...
If a man is judged by the woman by his hand what is a woman judged by is it the man at her side too? Just thinking. We have been taught in our early ages that we should not judge a book by its cover right? But do people ever take that seriously I don't think. Judging a person because of their status or who they are is wrong, you may judge and get very disappointed that what you thought was good turned out to be the worst thing ever. People have often said that a man will take a beautiful girl out on a date so that his ego can be boosted or so that he can have status, it may be true but is it right? We need to know what it is that we want in our lives, if you have a lady who you think is not good enough to be seen with you in public do your homework and make her be what you want her to look like don't look at other women and say that your girl is not beautiful. It's your duty to make her beautiful. Another thing when you look at someone you cannot judge them by the way they look, that may say very little about them what matters is what is within. He or she may look gorgeous or handsome on the outside but what about the inside does it have love it hatred it's all a matter of choice so choose widely.
yes. You are right I really agree with you. When a man does not find the thing in his lady his greatness lies in making her beautiful. This is called the true manliness. He should at least make an effort. Why search for a beautiful lady who has nothing to do with his status? The same lady can be used up by anybody to elevate some other's status also. Now, what is happening to the very concept of status? Everything lies not in the beauty of the lady in your arm but in her inner beauty. It is a mere foolishness to think that a beautiful lady will elevate the status of a man. So much so the vice versa.
It is sad to say, but it works. A guy who walks in with a beautiful woman has his status raised. That is why many companies provide 'escorts'. These are NOT Prostitutes, these are beautiful intelligent women who are paid to go out with a man. They don't have sex with him.
When a woman is seen with a NOthing man, it is assumed he is rich or famous. It is assumed 'he has something'. If, over time, it is learned he doesn't well then people try to figure out why she married him... assuming some 'back story'.