I have this realization recently about my speculations. I have lived enough life where I have learned that it feels bad when our speculation turns out to be true. And it’s not because we wanted some things to happen. It’s just that we are helpless the way things are going on in our life. We can’t control everything in our life. And that is what makes it harder for us to come in terms with. So you have to understand when to speculate and when to take action on the speculations that you have. I am not sure if all of us have had those days where we thought something good was going to happened and it did. But often that does not happen. Instead we thought and calculated about something bad. And as we known bad things happened. So in this article I want to discuss about the speculation part of why it feels bad.
I have this incident happened where I realized something that I thought of something like this long time ago. And I wanted to take control of the situation. But lack of money didn’t made it easier for me to control my life. And in turn I ended up getting controlled. So it was kind of hard for me to get over the situation. And that situation ended up making me take more actions which lead to more of problems. So I can tell you from my experience that speculation some of the time can come true. At first I did not thought it would go that way. And that’s where my speculation was wrong.
Speculation often can be misleading and I totally understand that part. It’s not like I can ignore that. I have realized that most of the time when you work hard enough, you speculate more. And that speculation in itself can end up costing you a lot. So you have to focus on things that can be good for you. And you have to decide where you stand when it comes to taking action agianst the speculation. I have learned that some of the time our calculation is going to be so wrong. And there is no way to recover from that. It just makes you worry about things more as well. I am not sure how that can be cured.
Cause and effect is another thing that we are not understanding. For example, we don’t have process to deal with the speculation. And that is what makes you work hard towards life. And then things happen where you have speculated those wrong scenarios. And you just work harder on that to get over it. But that does not work good for you. And you keep working harder to understand what are some of the things that can be changed. As you can see this spiral is going to be difficult to manage. And those who try to manage it will have a hard time. It;s not something that can be handled by all.
In short such problems are hard to deal with.
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It is a observation which I have observed personally and with others known to me too that when they feel for a long time and get the thought whether something which they want to go right, will it go right? Many times it has gone wrong and horribly wrong. I leaves with a sense of helplessness as that is the only word which I find can be used to describe that. It leaves scars in our mind and will continue to haunt us long after the event has taken place.
Yes it happens. It depends on ones coping mechanism and acceptance levels. One even gets this thought Why does this happen to me? There are only clear questions and more questions but no proper solutions or answers. It is better we leave that thing at that and focus on something worth thinking and can think and get solutions for it with time. But it is a bad situation going through it. It continues for days and months. Thanks for the share.
True. You become what you want to become. If you think some bad experience will come it may occur. That is why it is suggested we should always think positive. Perception is what makes us all. good day.
The word speculation is totally a misgiving. What should we speculate or why should we speculate, when this has got no specific path or direction to follow.
I work throughout the day. I know I will be paid Rs.300 per hour for my work. After the completion of the day, I am sure to get Rs.2,400/- (for eight hrs of my work). How can I speculate on that? Why should I speculate on that?
Speculation leads us towards ruination and makes us greedy which we are not eligible for.
Similarly, there will be some deduction of Rs.800/- per month from my salary. At that rate, there will be an amount of Rs.9,600 in my Govt., account. There is no place for speculation in that.Speculating something which we do not know makes us DAY DREAMING on everything and everybody knows pretty well the value and significance of life spent upon DAY DREAMING.