HOW to Make Your Family Life Happy?

Everyone of us wants our family life to be happy. One role is when family members fulfill or do their duties and responsibilities assigned to each one of them in harmony. No alibi or long discussion or even fighting among the members and the result… very satisfying.

Here are my top 5 ways for each member to help the family happy:

1. SHOWING LOVE (every member)                                                                                                                        Love is the first that was stated in the words of the Lord which says God is Love. Love is the greatest gift that we could ever give and share to our family members. You cannot buy it or sell it to someone else. For example: When you show your love to your wife and the children will see, they would imitate it as a good manner and example as young children follows the older one. Just like a baby learning from anyone, what he sees or hear, will automatically imitate it as he/she is still in the process of learning.
2. THE HUSBANDS AS THE ROLE MODEL                                                                                                          Husbands should treat and love their wives as their own body because no man hated their own body as I know of. You did not marry your wife to become your maid, your assistant and even your housekeeper and most specially not a punching bag. There should be a transparency  on your part. Remember your mistakes and learn from them or simply say forgive and forget the past and move on, be always happy and joyful because it helps a lot when you wanted to motivate someone who is down in your family. You are the head of the family so become a role model to your family members. Show consideration and not to be selfish.
3. SUBMISSION OF WIFE TO HUSBAND                                                                                                                For us women/wives, we must fully submit to our husband.Many of us don’t value this because some of us women have our own understanding and decision but we must not. Many men are imperfect so do women, instead let us not belittle our husband to what ever they wanted to try for our family’s sake or improvement. As the bible teaches us that a wife with a quiet and mild spirit is of great value.  We should have deep respect for our husband as they are the head of the family. This will help the husband to decide what he knows better for the family to be happy and not to regret mistakes happened in the past. The support that comes from a wife makes his him proud and confident to whatever decision he will be making as he knows that his wife supports his every decision.
4. PARENTS AS A FRIEND                                                                                                                                              Most of the parents nowadays forbid their young children to go out at night and have parties over a beer or liquor because they think of their children’s safety. Yes, that is one example of parenting but what about as a friend? For me, a friend is always there to comfort and understand you as who you are and it needs not a small time but large amounts of it. Being a parent is like a friend, let your kids open up the things they wanted to share, discuss it over a coffee or anything that could be done. One more is to take time in teaching them in a way that they will learn as the world becomes more evil and evil. As a friend to your kids, you must be alert on the things they don’t usually do and approached them in a calm manner and  don’t ever yell at them because they will just become a rebel.  Instead of becoming a friend to them you just made yourself their enemy so watch whatever words you say to your kids.
5. CHILDREN NEED TO OBEY THEIR PARENTS                                                                                           As a child to your parents, you must obey and do that pleases them. Happy are the parents who see their children as a good example from what they have learned from them. It is true that young ones may sometimes find it difficult to obey most specially when they are teenagers. Children, by learning to become obedient you will surely make your parents proud and happy. They (children) need to be more careful in choosing their company and avoid wrongdoers that led to a lot of trouble.

You Judge yourself if you have done something to contribute to your family to become happy not just by providing financial aspect but then what are the other aspects to contribute more. These are just my top 5 which is the family members tasks and responsibilities itself. Add these on your list and I hope I provided a lot of information that helps make both our families happy.