How to know who your true friends?

Everyone we meet can be our friends, whether they are our neighbors, classmates, workmates, chat mates, or someone we just meet online. But not everyone of them are your true friends. Some of them might just want to used you for their personal interest, some might just need something from you, some are just bored and just want someone to talk to, or some are just your friend when you have everything. When problems comes your way, that’s the only time you will found out who really your true friends are.Yes its true, many of them will call or chat you or even visit you, to know what happened? what’s your story? but not everyone of them are willing to lend a helping hands to you. During your darkest time, don’t ever share your story to everyone who show concern because not everyone of them are real. Some might just used your story to put you down. The worse scenery is that some people you thought your friends will be the one who will judge you first. Instead of lending a helping hands, instead of lifting you up, instead of believing in you, because your friends, they are the one who will help others to put you down. You can only know your true friend during this kind of situation. That one will be the person who will going to support you know matter how hard you’re going through without any what IF’s in mind. A true friend is someone who will going to stay beside you not only during your happy days, but also stay and ready to support in your darkest time, even the whole world is against with you. Because a true friend will never ever judge you no matter what he/she heard from others. A true friend will always believe in you no matter what.

 

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  • jetskie

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    • Thanks for sharing, not easy to have true friends in the life path. Thus, have to appreciate if someone love you, care you and treat you with a sincere heart.

      Anyway, the advice from a true friend never be sweet and good to listen or follow, we might treat it as drugs while those sweet words from false friends might sweet as honey.

      Thus, we should listen and think twice when some of our friends advise us or even scold us because at least our friend is care about us, and this is a real friend,for sure.

    • It is an amazing topic for a discussion.For me friendship is the only relation we have a liberty to choose and continue. Rest all the relations are made by God. So it is a relationship where i have an opportunity to choose and I really don't want to do anything wrong with this precious relation.

      There have been times when I did not value my friends a lot and soon lost contacts with most of them after college. And when I realized my mistake it was too late.

      ALL thanks to God he gave me another opportunity in life to make good friends . Now i m blessed with 3 true ones who will help me whenever I would need them.I can completely rely upon them.

      After a big lesson learned I will try to cherish this friendship life long.

    • Friendship is only real and true if it has no conditional cluse attach to it because you meet many people in you lifes journey who might want to be part of your life for either a negative reason or a positive reason.
      One therefore need to be careful when allowing certain people into our space.
      Though it is difficult to know those sho are geniure, with time you can know through their actionss.

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