HOLDING ON TO OLD RELATIONSHIPS IS A LOVE- KILLER POINT IN MARRIAGE

Returning to an old Relationship

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Holding on to old relationship is a bane to a marital relationship. Holding is the present continuous tense of the word” hold”. To hold in this topic mean the following; to get and keep an old partner to oneself at the same time involuntarily keeping a new relationship without care. To voluntarily allow an old partner to occupy the place of a legitimate partner. To have room for an old partner when there is a recognized partner still existing. To regard and consider an old partner, when there is an incumbent partner by his or her side. To possess another partner other than the publicly recognized partner. To bind oneself in another relationship yet being in a recognized relationship. To retain a contact with the old friend when the new partner has been legalized. To go on being firm or loyal to an old friend when a recognized partner is in vogue. To remain unbroken or unyielding to an old relationship other than the legitimate one still subsisting. To be valid with an old partner and keep the legitimate partner invalid. To continue a relationship with an old friend when a partner is already verified. To grip an old friend and loose tenacity with the legitimate partner. To have an inner controlling force pushing away the original partner and keeping the old partner. To seize an illegitimate partner to one while keeping the legitimate at bay .To acquire a fake relationship when a real relationship still exists. Maintaining contact with an old illegitimate partner creates partial or no contact with the legitimate partner. The above definitions are descriptive of what occurs when “holding on to old relationships”. Old relationships when revived are like “nursing vipers under the armpit”. The repercussion is visibly noticed when a spouse starts releasing the arsenals he or she learnt while in another partner’s bosom. It is important to know that separation and rejoining in marriage is dangerous. Couples should be patient and tolerate each other. They should be ready to mend their broken fences without engaging with third parties.




  • Samuel Ekechukwu

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    • It is said that men are polygamous by nature. However, that is not true with some men who remained faithful to their wives all through their living years.

      And I guess that's because the center of their marriage is God. With God in their heart, they will be deterred from being unfaithful.

      Sometimes too, the wife should stop being a nagger. She should also be trusting to her husband . And the husband too should be transparent in things he does.

      Overall, for both to be faithful with each other, they must truly and fully understand , love and trust each other, alway putting God in the center of their lives.

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