Happy to know you are in problem

Have you ever had a person in your life who secretly felt happy and relieved if he came to know that you are in trouble or you have some problem?

The question looks weird to you, doesn’t it?

Well there are really some people on this planet who feel happy and satisfied to see other people in problem.

Are they very bad and ill willed?

No, they are not bad of ill willed. They are just like the rest world. They do jobs, have families, friends, they participate in social activities.

Why will someone feel happy finding others in trouble?

The roots of the problem lie in subconscious mind. Even the person may be completely unaware of his mental condition.

They are those people who are suffering in their own lives. May be they are not satisfied with their jobs, family life, financial conditions, health conditions, body image, social image etc.

They may have some unfulfilled wishes or unachieved goals.

These unachieved goals and wishes keep them dissatisfied and bitter. Most probably they look fine and pleasing personalities but in their subconscious minds they are negative, jealous and bitter. They are envoy   of people who are doing good in their lives, who looks happy, successful and satisfied in their view.

As because they find themselves unhappy inside watching others happy and satisfied or even trying to achieve their goals makes them uneasy, it can take peace of their minds. Although on our face they show that they are happy for our success and happiness in side it’s very hard for them to digest it easily that others are happier than them. They will cheer us, party with us in our successful moments while inside dying to cry.

So when they hear that someone is having some trouble, their subconscious mind gets relief that they are not only who is suffering there are others who are also suffering. No matter the person who is suffering is their dear one but it gives them some kind of pleasure and satisfaction.

They may offer help and suggestions, show that they are worry more than anyone for the person in problem but in side they are extremely amused that the person is in trouble and now it will also be sad and depressed like them. Although they offer help and all but never do genuine effort to really solve the problem.

It is not difficult to recognize these kinds of people because with all their efforts to show their sadness and offer to help the expressions on their face expose them very well. The mind got amused by the fact that someone is having problem, so their entire existence is amused and they fail to hide it.

We cannot blame someone for being like that because it is their subconscious mind which  is ruling them .

Have you ever met this kind of person?