July 3, 2016 at 6:44 am

I am active here every single day. Although I have around 50 friends there are just about a dozen or less I get to interact with. Where are they?  Why do that want friendship if they have no intention to be here?

July 3, 2016 at 9:06 am

I am not here for long. I do think some of them do comments in blogs. I think it cannot be seen in their activity unless if these members responded to one of the blogs. Since I joined on this site. I only see some who are active here. This is just my observation.

July 3, 2016 at 9:41 am

Friends are friends. They become your friends for several reasons and you do the same. Friends may be collected through a first meeting or a social gathering. They may be found in the social media like the Facebook or here on this site. On what occasion, they are found that reflects too the intention of having them as a part of your circle of friends.

We’ll be asking in spite of the myriad friends we have had only a handful of them are communicating with us. Why? The only reason is time and their availability. Unless, we take a time to follow them up by a constant communication. Then and only then, we may know if they are still interested with us. We need to spend a time for that to let them and to keep in touch with us.

This is also through when we have a business online. We should have a committee to have the customer’s service. Their work is to follow the customers on what they do, on how they are making with their order or whatever. In this approach, we could take hold of them and we couldn’t be asking: where are they?

Where are my friends so to speak? It takes a lot of work.

July 3, 2016 at 9:42 am

Honestly, i have 90 friends and beliebe me, these people aren’t active here.

I guesd that they wanted my friendship so that i could read their post.

Out of 90 friends, only 15 of them are active members here.

You can see the number of people participating in forums.

Its either uou ir me or our regular friends.

Don’t worry much.

Just let them be.

Alternatively, you could check their profile ir posts before you accept them

Sorry for spelling mistakes. The notification orange tabs are blocking my view

• This reply was modified 8 years, 4 months ago by  peachpurple.

July 3, 2016 at 10:17 am

@shavkat. Oh no! I clicked that ‘report’ button  by mistake. Sadly we cannot reverse that action here. Just ignore it please and move on.

And talking about those who just comment on blogs and not have any other activity here that activity may not be substantial to say that they a here – just a thought.

July 3, 2016 at 10:18 am

@nakitakona13  I know what you mean but at sites such as this we expect them to interact and participate.

July 3, 2016 at 10:20 am

@peachpurple  But I notice they do not blog here either. I wonder what the purpose is to request for friendship and then vanish  (lol)

July 3, 2016 at 11:07 am

@bestwriter It is fine. Well, I hope the population of members in Literacy Base will increase. I had noticed that only a few members are so active. I am also wondering. The members should be on this site since it is a weekend.

July 3, 2016 at 1:11 pm

@peachpurple, I also do not care about those I accepted as friends here and after that no more.Let us just talk and talk anyway, we are paid. It’s their loss not ours. By the way, I hope your pay pal problem is solved.

July 3, 2016 at 3:01 pm

@cely  It is sad that we are taking this so lightly. It would have been great if all those who requested for friendship were serious about it and interacted with us.

July 3, 2016 at 11:51 pm

@bestwriter  There are only a handful of members who are active on a daily basis here. And we all know who they are. These members are active in the forums , write regular blog posts and obviously they are the ones who ultimately will get paid. Rest are sleeping members or there are some who visit the site once in a while.

July 4, 2016 at 4:40 am

They are there just to give a false number.

July 4, 2016 at 5:08 am

Like @peachpurple, I have about 90 friends here and have rejected friendship from some users who seemed to be a little shady, or maybe just looking to add friends without participation. My experience is te same: there is a core group of about a dozen or two users who are active here in the forum, who write regularly or comment on my posts, and with whom I may  have a friendship on other writing sites or social networks.

I don’t really expect much different. I’m not terribly disappointed. Rather, I appreciate the friends I have who do keep in touch!

July 4, 2016 at 6:31 am

I am here but when I get done with watching kids after 11 1/2 hours everyday I do not feel like writing.  I tried but I just fall asleep.  I really wanted to write more but I cannot seem to find the energy to do both like I thought I would. My brain just not want to think after 6PM.

July 4, 2016 at 7:20 am

@Mark Graham   But you do participate I see though not as feverishly as some of us do (lol)  I was only talking of those who just want friendship but never participate.