Writing in my local paper I made the point that women go after married men. Danny called me out on it, and wearing a cheap ‘gold’ wedding band went to a bar on the other side of town.
Girls were coming off to him and he had more sex than ever before.
The fact is, many women have inferiority complexes. They don’t think they are good enough. When they can attract a married man this proves they are ‘better’ than the wife.
This gal, who no one much cares about is better than a woman that a man actually married.
Other women who want the benefits without the detriments become the mistress. They go after older men with deep pockets.
The man will pay their rent, maybe buy them a car, and they live free without having to do his laundry or put up with him Monday to Sunday.
They meet irregularly so ‘the wife doesn’t get suspicious’. She gets what she gets, and while the affair is going on she may be looking for another man to augment.
She can’t get hurt because she doesn’t love him. He can’t control her, because he isn’t there all the time. He can ‘help her in life’.
Many gals get jobs via the Big Man they are sleeping with. The more important the man, the bigger the job. And because she got the job on her back rather than her feet, no one is going to risk earning the ire of a Big Man by ‘dissing’ his gal.
The gal will take the job, often one with a pension, and do her crappy work without pressure because she can’t be fired.
Often, the man gives her the job as a ‘parting gift’. He wants to deal with a younger woman, doesn’t want her to interfere, so gets her the job, so her bills are now paid and her silence is bought.
She is never the housewife, never the woman a man can betray, never suffers a broken heart. She’ll spend her teens and twenties finding the married man, her thirties moving upwards among his friends, and by her forties, fit into a cushy job.
That’s why so many women go after married men.
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So you mean to say that the Relationships are governed by money. Yes. It can be in sometimes, but not all times.
This concept of family itself has been changed with the advancement of Information Technology. Earlier, the position was not like that as mentioned by you.
With the advancement of Technology, the greed for earning money at any cost became important for meeting several expenses.The technology has given and made her things easy in finding a job and if not a part-time job which she can perform without any risk.
Parents themselves are lacking disciplines and ethical and moral values and are not in a position to take care of their children. A dividing line is becoming conspicuous in the Parent-children relationship and Husband-wife relationship because of Technology and financial necessities.
Whether the man is married or Bachelor is not the question . But, whether he is having cash or not is the only question that is becoming a point of concern for a gal in the modern society of India, which once had a rich culture of its own. Even now, the position is still hanging at the edge. The downfall is inevitable. No need to feel over it.
What I describe is what is happening in Jamaica today.
Again, respect to all but I would have to disagree with some of the statements made. First, any woman that has an affair with a married man is a detriment. What ever happened to that statement, "GET YOUR OWN"! Anywho! It is extremely appalling and disgusting that some find it so easy to do things like this. Whether it be a woman having a affair or a man having a affair. Why is it disgusting, well it is hard for some to even kiss a person after another person has kissed them. Also some women and men do get hurt in these type of relationships because some become attached. Many examples are made with these new movies that they have come out with based on fatal attractions. More realistically, homicide shows prove the results of having affairs.
Now on the subject of control. Some do act controlling whether it is a good relationship or a relationship that consists of affairs. Some feel a sense of power in this type of behavior.
As far as job security, some may think that this is a good way to obtain a great job or the job of their dreams but it can also backfire. They had a movie similar to this and the lady who was the mistress and got the great job in the end she did not have nothing and it crushed her. So the saying goes, "You reap what you sow".
Anywho! To the guy who has had more sex than ever, hope he does not end up with a deadly disease.
The obviously right thing to do is for a man and woman to assist each other financially, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. These things have known to be valuable in any successful relationship. When it comes to a woman's self esteem that is a subject that is individualized and can be discussed forever but independence is important.
This is what is going on today.
Those who have sinful affair with married man are usually sick women. Some are also social climbers.They want to reach the stars and they could only achieve what they dream through finding some men to act as their sugar daddy.Some are also prostitute beyond the knowledge of the man. He will only learn about it if the real wife will be contaminated and bad if the wife is pregnant. The husband may find the reasonable guilt at the end.Some married men have shallow reason why cohabit another women. their reason s wife no longer submit herself during his sexual need, which is wrong.The husband should not forget that a wife has her own feeling of dislikeness.I am no to this kind of act.
this is what is happening in my society.