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| I BORN SIMPLE, AND NOT USUAL TO LETTING PEOPLE KNOW WHAT I HAVE, WHAT MY FAMILY HAS, AND WHAT I DO FOR LIVING. THAT IS WHY I ALWAYS LAUGH WHEN I MET ANYONE WHO IS SO ARROGANT AND TRYING TO UPLIFT THEMSELVES, PRAISING THEMSELVES, AND NOT ALLOW OTHER PERSON TO ADMIRE THEM FIRST. HOW PATHETIC A PERSON COULD BE WHEN ONLY THEIR OWN SELVES APPRECIATE EVERYTHING THEY HAVE. I ALWAYS ADMIRE PEOPLE WHO ARE HUMBLE ENOUGH AND NOT TRYING TO PUT THEIR SELVES UP WHEN THEY SHOULD NOT. BE HUMBLE IS ALWAYS THE BEST WAY TO LET PEOPLE WHO YOU REALLY ARE.
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| Arrogance comes before a fall. the fact that we are all born flash and blood, who came into this world from the mothers womb with anything. when we die, we go with nothing as we came. How then do you think yourself more special than someone else because of the little money you have. Your money can not help you in anyway without your fellow man. be humble cos that is what counts. | |
| @Raphael Agbetor, I probably agree with your idea. Yes, we are nothing without other individual’s help. And sometimes, there are those people who think they are very good in any aspect of life more than the others, which really annoyed me. Some people also see themselves as far better just because they are educated than they other. As for me, even one is educated and have all the degrees in the world, he or she still don’t have the right to say that he or she is more capable of doing things and not the other person who doesn’t have a degree. | |
| Why should one feel arrogance? I have seen people feeling arrogance which they are not competent for. Does it means are there any qualities to feel arrogance? Yes. Be arrogant if you are good. Be arrogant for being very sympathetic, be arrogant for taking responsibility of your parents in their old age even in the thickest of odds, be arrogant to be submissive always. This is one of the qualities that spoil the personality of a person. In group dynamics it does not carry any value or importance as one has to move along with others keeping aside all his status, money, and rich/handsomeness aside. There are times in which one has to fold his sleeves up and if he does not do it will be quite wrong. | |
| They call it PRIDE if i am not wrong. This is what causes people to becaome arrogant in life. When you have pride in you nothing else matters. Not what people say orwhat they do can make tou change your mind in any way, why vecause you feel you know it all and that whatever you say stands. I have met so many arrogant people in mt life and i always want to tell them being humvle never hurt any one, in fact it brings you more favor than you would expect. Arrogance will only drive people away from you, it never accirds you reapect, it will never eatn you genuine freindships or relationships, it will n3ver make you a better person. So in short arrogance never adds value in your life, it only take it away and it makes you loose tour dignity. Better be quiet and humble and let people elevate you to greater heights don’t do it in your own. Yiy might end up being alone in your circles. | |
| I think we have to understand and accept the fact that – there are people who do better than us. And then there are some of the people who continue to be good than us. So they are likely to have ego. So that’s something we can’t change. So people will be arrogant for they being in better place than you. And that’s something we can’t change. |
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