Feminine illusions scrap destinies and steal time.

One more very common female fantasy blurs women eyes and steals from their amazing youthful years, and then leaves the pain or frustration in the hearts. Statistics shows that if a man not proposes during the first two or three years, the probability that he still will go for it is a microscopic. It goes without saying that the girl in the meantime is firmly attached to the loved man and the potential pain of separation, the fear to be left alone, forcing her to continue to wait for the promised propose. Some of them are waiting for five and ten years.

I know a young woman who is waiting for more than 10 years. They met when she was 25, now she has 37. And they continue to meet; sometimes she stays at his home, sometimes – on the contrary. He forces her to watch out, that she would avoid pregnancy, after all, now is not the time. And this time is ticking, it will take a few more years and for her will give birth already will be problematic. However, she continues waiting for promised wedding, cool wedding ring, dreaming about a tiny miracle will call her a mother in one day.

Such feminine illusions scrap destinies, steal time and leave behind a void. A void in the life, and in the heart. After all, those women are very much. Maybe it is too painful to take off the rose-tinted glasses right now, at this moment, but after you do it, you will gain a chance to create the true happy and strong family. Look at your life from the side; try to see it with a stranger’s eyes. Maybe there are some feminine illusions in your life? You as all others have the right for a family, for a love and happiness. Do not distort anymore the reality.

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