Earning self respect and enjoying life

Self-respect and self-esteem don’t come in one gift meal in Mc’Donalds and not delivered home in post office box.

They have to be earned like everything else in our life. my life often did not treat me right or good, not because I was treated by people bad, but because most often I was not treated at all. How come that possible’

No reaction is also the big reaction. Avoidance and making claims you have no time for some person is also claiming you don’t want to be friends with that person so it is not very comfortable when people avoid or ignore one’s calls or words.

When young I have fortune and met my life love very early and set our marriage very early, but while I was building my family, marriage, happiness in the totality of life – my friends were still in school, doing university and arguing with their elderly parents for an allowance.

For me, it was impossible anymore to understand my friends as for them was incomprehensible how I decided so young to have the pack of children.  How can you be 23-24 year old and beg elderly parents to pay your expenses? That was laughable to me.

I used to work other jobs before getting  one I work now. But all that as short because of my babies. Still, my husband who is exact same age like me worked from the first day we married. That is the big thing for young couples.

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To set life goals add to work from day one so that we have hope in future.

 

There will be a time in life when to feel down over things coming your way or things not being spoken to you, but do not mind. It is not of their business, nobody business how you lead your life and what you do with you, your career, your body – not on their business list.

 

Life is just one soilly bath , let’s enjoy it.




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    • The topic is a very interesting and educative one. Self respect can only be gotten when you learn to give others the due respect they deserve. It is only when you are able to acknowledge others right and you are ready to respect it that your self respect can be achieved. This will enable you not to disrespect Others and by so doing people will reciprocate this towards you and at the same time respect you for who you are and when this is achieved your self respect and self esteem will definitely be obtained.

    • I do agree that self-respect is connected in boosting one's self-esteem. In some point, our life is not perfect but should not be blinded because of the overpowering love. Some people cannot stop being worthless due to being madly in love with someone. Whatever the case, we should still need to love ourselves.

      I had seen some people changed because of loving someone. It comes to the extent that they forget to love themselves. it means, we need to know our worth in the eyes of people. It can never be worthless if we know the value of oneself.

    • Indeed self respect is a characteristic that can elevate you to high places. If you don't respect yourself how do you want people to view you or treat you. Respect is what will determine the wway that you are treated by the people around you. If you cannot respect yourself no one will bother to respect you, everyone will treat you like trash most definitely because that's the way you see yourself. So I would rather have self respect than have fame. I have seen so many people who suffer in life because they won't love themselves, someone soul look in the mirror and say to herself that she doesn't like what she sees and that just shows that you do not love yourself that much to respect yourself. We need to take care of ourselves first before people can take a glance at us

    • Self respect is the key to successful life on earth. Man is born with self respect that is why, no one can disrespect anyone in any way. self esteem springs from self respect makes men popular among the public. It s law of nature that do respect and get respect.

      I describe her the difference between self respect and self esteem in these words.... as..

      Self-respect and self-esteem are different.
      Self-esteem comes from how you think and feel about yourself.
      Self-respect comes from what you do.

      Random action based on guess-work or the opinions of others won’t do the trick. Your actions must be guided by your values, and your values must reflect your authentic self. These values are the foundation for every decision and action in your life. Act against your values, and you’ll lose respect for yourself

      Keep these words in mind..

      We are all alone, born alone, die alone, and—in spite of True Romance magazines—we shall all someday look back on our lives and see that, in spite of our company, we were alone the whole way.

      I do not say lonely—at least, not all the time—but essentially, and finally, alone. This is what makes your self-respect so important, and I don't see how you can respect yourself if you must look in the hearts and minds of others for your happiness.

    • Self respect for me is the ability to think of logical reasoning. Before we gain self respect with others we should have to respect ourself first. Knowing what we want in life and the best thing we can do to grow in order to become a better person. Unfortunately, some people doesnt know how to respect themselves, they go on in their life without logical reasoning that there are not fully aware about taking their life at risk because of their own free will. Many commit taking illegal drugs, crime, adultery, murder and some sort of things which is abomination in the eyes of God. If they only knew how they ruin their life into their total destruction.

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