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Don’t let your mood influence your attitude

No, never! Do not let your mood influence your attitude. By that I mean that We should always keep our mouth shut down when we are angry or we are controlled by an rigorous emotion inside us.

I have learned this lesson long time ago. My point is that we should never talk when we are angry. It might ruin your relationship with somebody.. It can get real serious if you don’t control what are you saying when you are influenced by your anger.

We often get stressed out and get angry, and the first person to talk to us, is often the victim. I think that we should keep quiet when we are angry, and control our emotions since we may hurt somebody important to us, and completely innocent person.

When we are angry, we often do not want to listen to any advice, but it is always good to see the situation from the other side too. Maybe if we calm down, the other person is just trying to help us. Put yourself from 2 perspectives. Do not be selfish.

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You know there is a saying. “You will get annoyed by someone that is unimportant and you will spill your ferocity on someone that is IMPORTANT to you.

This was my lesson of the day, that we should always have a control of our attitude. No matter whenever we are or whatever is the situation.

There is this example that once I was coming home unusually late than before, and slowly opening the handle of the door, it was around 1AM and everyone was asleep. I entered but my footsteps were creaking and my mother wake up. She started giving me a mouth-toasting, pointing out my lateness. But at that time I couldn’t think from both-sides. I was so angry, due to the lost money in the Horse betting shop. I remember my selected horse that was about to win the race and earn me astonishing 300 dollars, lost in the last 30 seconds of the race. I was so mad. I lost the last 30 dollars I had, and if it kept going my luck, I would have won the 300 dollars and go home cheerfully. I needed those money, it was my birthday the next week. it would come in handy.

And, as I was saying, about my mom shouting at me, I started shouting even louder, causing myself lose balance. Only to discover that they were planning a birthday present to me, and that was the reason my mother was so nervous and upset. They were standing there for 30 minutes waiting in the lights closed for me to come, while I was gambling.. Wow.. After that day, trust me I never even raised my tone against my mother again. That’s my lesson of the day! Have a great day bloggers.




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    • That is correct, if we utter bad words and hurt feelings of others we can always ask apology but we can never get the bad words we say on that person. That is important that before we speak we should think it first and let it subside for few minutes before continuing. If we are in the height of our angry feelings, we tend to say the words very hurtful to the people around us.

    • You have chosen the topic which is quite applicable to me. Should I say it is excellent? No. Because I will be hurting myself and this is nothing but cheating my own conscious. So unless I reveal myself I can proudly accept your topic as the great and very useful one not only for me but also for the others who are like me.

      I am the most intolerable personality on the planet earth. The moment I get angry I do not see the person whom I am talking to. It is very dangerous. I do not know myself if I sit only for a while and give a thought to it, why I will be shouting like a mad dog while the other person none other than my own wife will be hearing to me with patience. But I do agree I am endowed with a boon of introspection. I sit for a while and think is such a harsh language is necessary ? I immediately beg pardon from my wife. This of course to a great extent has been reduced. Even then I do repeat long dog wagging it\'s tail.

      Yes. You are hundred percent right. We should not use bad words or harsh language. Silence is the best medicine. I will improve myself. sometimes it is dangerous to our health also as you aptly said.

    • It is important that we keep mute when we are in a bad mood so that we don't hurt those that might be of help to us in the future. Though it is a very difficult task to do however, it pays if one can adhere to the rule.The Through situation is that whatever is facing one person is actually backing the other. So do always have it in your mind that your point of view may not always be right all the time. Thank you.

    • It is really ideal not to say anything to somebody who is still under the spell of anger. The reason, a problem will not be solved if both of them are bickering. It is better to have a couple of time to distance oneself and let the anger toned down.

      There are some people who cannot control oneself. However, there is always an option to change. The time of calming oneself to prevent hurting other people's feelings too.

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