Couple age difference, what is the best option?

What is the ideal partner’s age difference? Of course, we should not blindly believe in formulas – both successful and unsuccessful marriages are created both among peers, and when the man is older or younger. But have you ever wondered what the advantages and disadvantages have such marriages?

There is no clear answer in this question. Good relations in marriage can enjoy annuals partners, and those whose age difference of up to 10 years, and those whose difference between ages is more than 20 years. How partners will go along in the family depends on how they are able to meet each other’s needs: security, acceptance, respect, communication, love and caring for one another. Disagreements begin when the family starts less to communicate and leave unspeakable own wishes and together not listening what are the most important partner needs.

Peer marriage’s advantage is that both partner’s life’s experience is equal, both begin to feel physiological aging at the same time. These partners are usually grown up watching the same movies, listen to the same music, and similarly remember the most important historical events in their lives. They always can share cutest similar memories. So naturally for partners with so much in common it is easier to communicate.

Another very weighty thing is that peers partners are in the same stage of personality development and is going through the same crisis. They face the same problems at the same time: the completion of studies, job search, and challenges of establishing in the labor market, rising career, health problems, approaching old age, friends’ losses, etc. One of the pairs similar problems unite, and the others – apart. If both partners are experiencing additional stress at the same time, it can lead to no compassion and understanding of the close person.

Peer pairs biggest drawback is that they both feel equal and no one does not want to come down during the conflict. In addition, these couples sexual compatibility is not ideal.

Marriage, when the man is older than the female advantage is that a man can offer women greater emotional and material security. Already five years older partner is more mature, more seen life and more experienced. He already is able and willing to be his partner’s companion and teacher. Another woman endearing fact about older partners is that they are paid to take care of everything starting with A and ending with Z. The older man, the better he knows how to take care of and satisfy chosen younger partner.

Disadvantage of such marriage may not be that if man has achieved as high as possible walk of life or has higher material wealth, he may be more inclined to control and protect a younger woman. It may be that a young girl chose a much older husband, at the beginning of the relationship will enjoy patronizing attention, ask advice to resolve problems. But one day, a young girl will grow up into a mature woman who wants to solve problems independently, seeks career, and wants to be an equal in relationship. This woman can sicken a man constant care and guidance of what to do.

Pair, where the man is younger than the woman for about 10 years and more, the biggest advantage is sexual compatibility. It is known that women sexual activity reaches peak in 35-40 years and males 18-20 years of age. Also in this marriage, a woman will be able to meet her need for maternal care, protection and unconditional love for a man who can be a bit childish and emotionally unstable.

Woman always will care to look younger. She will more engage in sports, her outfit will be youthful. The couple’s relationship can be very romantic, warm and full of love, or can be a lot of conflicts and a lot of passion at the same time. The biggest drawback of such marriage is that the couple are likely to get gossip and condemnation of surrounding.

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