Are You That Too Sentimental To Move On?

Are You That Too Sentimental To Move On?
By erlymags ) @cely/ @lovern)

Why are you having that feeling? Why are you afraid to move on? Do you always like to cling on your past and harm yourself with too much pain that sucks? If you continue doing that way, it is not only yourself hurting yourself so with your family. They will not be in peace seeing you too sentimental and impractical. You can never bring back yesterday and past serves as springboard of your present life, therefore wake up and start to build your new life. First, think of the cause of that sentiment. Next find out an exit to that sentiment. Further, look around to convert your attention and change your stimulus to a better and challenging one. Then look up high to see the sky and sigh. Release your tensions and fears so you can breathe well and eat well. What you need is food. Sometimes empty stomach does not make sense for the nervous system will continue asking you for food and you must satisfy your digestive system. When your stomach is full of nutrients, goodbye loneliness and sentiments, for happy thoughts will replace the bad thoughts. That is the power of right foods to evade ill feelings and senseless sentiments.

Well, that is your life. If you stick to your odd principle, it is all up to you. Life is what you make it and refusal to accept the reality inhibits bad contempt, so let time heals your broken heart. Usually, the worst cause of sentiment is love that disappears like smoke. It is better to have no money in the pocket, than feel the ache of cheats and lies. Life is hard to define so with love. Somehow in our lives, we have to focus more on how to improve our financial status than to focus more on the sentiments that block your interest to move on. There is no better way and no other remedy effective as moving on, so do it. No one can do it for you, close to you like family and friends, only strong moral support they can do and nothing more. It is useless by the way clinging to yesterday. There is no strong support and evidence from science and laws to change the movement of your mind, except yourself. Science gives theories you will follow and laws provide you security and nothing more. If you move on, life will no longer be in bloom. Life is mysterious.

I have a friend. It was so hard for her to forget her love that cheated her. She wanted to die by jumping in the creek. I told her make sure you can perfect your plan for her parents cannot afford to send her to hospital. She was awaken from deep and cloudy thoughts. She never jumped to creek. She realized she was wrong and it was wrong for her to end her life that way. I told her not to make a short cut for life does not stay forever. The reason of her depressive thought is she surrendered herself to the guy. It was hard indeed, but I told her, you are not the only victim of love, accept your failure for that is not your final destiny. She is has moved on and my friend is now a bank manager with a nice and loving husband. Let us never betray life, love it to the fullest if possible for life is beautiful.

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