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My husband isn’t much of a church person . He only comes with me in going to church when there is an occasion or whenever he feels like it .
And the other Sunday , was one of those “no occasion” Sunday , yet he went with me to attend the 11:00 a.m. mass. We didn’t bring the car, so we can have the exercise of walking.
As my husband and I walked up the stairs going up the hill where the church is , I noticed that I am a bit slow in walking yet I had my one hour exercise that morning.
We have to climb the concretely made shallow steps at the left side of the road to reach the top , as you can see in the picture I attached.
And since I added some weight over the Christmas holidays that I am up to now trying to lose, I walk slowly so my knees won’t ache. It is a bit aching whenever I go up a stairs.
My husband kept walking ahead of me at the stairs without even noticing that I was walking far behind.
Thus, when he was at the landing of the stairs in front of the church I was still a bit far behind and he stood waiting for me, grinning.
But as I approached the stairs he went ahead again inside the church .
In my annoyance I passed by the side of the church where the statues of the saints were not on the entrance and sat the front pew instead , while he was the backmost pew .
After the mass , I saw him waiting for me at the back entrance of the church . I was still annoyed , but he was grinning again that made me so more annoyed. I didn’t say a word at all.
And once outside , I confronted him for not waiting for me while we walked up the hill.
He laughed and told me , “ I thought you can walk faster because you just had your exercise “ . He doesn’t exercise yet has a slimmer built body.
I was speechless but annoyingly pulled at this hair. So he tested me because I have just exercised thinking that I could beat him in walking fast .
I was annoyed the whole time of the mass because of that , yet it was just a joke for him!
And as we walk down the hill , I was pinching him for what he has done , to which he kept laughing.
I bet some of you gets annoyed at your husband or partner over petty matters. As for me, I have a lot of his annoying manners at the house.
Do you confront your husband whenever he is that or you give him a cold shoulder ?
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A good topic. Just a happy experience and memory between the couple. After getting married 10 years, I just ignore it and forget all these issue, move on and sleep , haha!
Actually, when we were younger , I would always give him a cold shoulder whenever I am angry or annoyed at him. Over the years and have proven that he is incorrigible , I just would take it as it is , confront him and be done with it because anyway at the end of the day, we will be side by side on bed. ha ha ha
26 years of his annoying ways has made me numb already , somehow. ha ha ha
I seized a moment, several years ago, to teach one of my daughters what marriage relationships are about. She mentioned something my husband (her dad) does and asked me how and why I put with it since it was so annoying. I responded: “Yeah. He does do that. But it's nothing I would get a divorce over.” She smiled back because she clearly understood the “lesson”. :)
Of course our partners have habits that annoy us. In the same way, we have habits that annoy them too! But we overlook or tolerate them because, if we weigh them on a scale, we realize that our mates have many more good qualities than they have annoying habits. Those qualities are why you stay together. The habits you talk about and change if you can. If not, you learn to ignore them. :)
That is so true. They may have their annoying ways but we also have ours. That's why we just have to accustom ourselves to them so each time that they commit it we won't be annoyed.
They too have been accustomed to our annoying ways besides when we married one another we promised to we love each other unconditionally, which means even with our flaws.
Men can be the most annoying beings in earth then kids. The things they do sometimes you may find yourself asking so many questions that only you can answer. I don't know why they feel that they can say stiff all the time and make it look like it's no big deal.
For me my biggest problem is when my fiancee visits. When I am busy working in the house, moving from one corner to another, all he will do is just sit on the couch and flip through the channels. The next thing I know he expects me to cook, serve him and clear the kitchen, yes i don't refuse that it is my duty to do that, but if I could only get some kind of help i would appreciate. Men have oftenly believed that the house belongs to the women and so she is the one in charge of keeping it in order. He's only contribution is to have the rent paid that's it no, that's not right, he needs to also engage himself and help around the house. Another annoying thing is when he gets too loud around the visitors or friends. It can get so annoying that you actually feel like putting him off and asking him to keep quiet. Another thing when you would go out together with your friends, and that are busy drinking and making merry, so it would get to that point you feel he has had enough and so you should leave, but guess what, instead he now gets into the fun even more, and decides that he doesn't want to leave just yet and that we should wait a little longer. That really posses me off, and sometimes you can't really do anything about it.