A good spouse – what it means for you?

How to be a good spouse? This question probably not so often arises in our heads. I think women more than men are prone to take interest in the subject of relations, analyze problems, seek solutions and development opportunities. We had a such topic for conversation in a meeting with friends and laughed imagining that men also could meet to talk about how to be a good husband to their wifes. I really wanted to ask my friend who is in marriage for 25 years, and it still seems, at least to me, like their marriage were at the first year.  I wonder how build the relationship those who, after so many years seem really happy together. So, here is my thoughs on how to be a good spouse.

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Maintain a good relationship. It is important to plan your time together with your spouse. If something is planned, both are waiting for a time together. There should be shared hobbies and leisure. It is important to create certain traditions, it may even be very small traditions what you can do together with your spouse. Enjoy the small things and create good feelings and memories of experiences together.

Handle a conflict situation. Never offend your spouse. Distinguish between serious relationship problems and small falling-out, which may arise from fatigue, personal failures, bad mood and so on. A serious relationship problems need to discuss quiet, and what is not important you can just forget and move on.  Better to try abstain from the emotional explosion.  Never make generalizations being angry. remember that you disagree on something, but basically you love each other and in principe everything is fine. Not be afraid to admit your mistakes, misbehavior and so on.
Together care about your children. Duties distribution related to child care, should satisfy both, but in different families may be different. It is important that both feel good. Children need to see their parents as a strong union, united, not conflicting with each other. Children should see the opposition to one another. It’s enough to be a good parent of your children, you do not need to be perfect. The best thing parents can give to their children is to be happy together, to enjoy life and love one another.
Be a good spouse. Allow your spouse to feel recognized, respected, important. Praise for the successes and support in failures. Keep the peace at home. Be interesting to your spouse that relations would remain intrigue. Have your own interests, be interested in new things, improving, not staying at one place. Never show yourself as a victim in a relations. Do not do what nobody asks you, what nobody wants and not feel for this worthy to be valued. Self-sacrifice requires limits. Alternatively, the limit is where you begin to feel a victim. Allow yourself to not be able to do everything and ask the spouse for help. Do not be emotionally unstable, angry, muttering…
That’s my thoughts on how to be a good spouse. I like to read about happy marriages formules and something try out myself.



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    • marriage is a two party understanding once both couples learn to get along with each other trust me the marriage will last longer,for men you have to be a good listener,women also have to learn how to stop nagging when your husband band is speaking thank you

    • love is a mutual understanding if. a man and woman are in love they are bound to stay with each other,when they are ready to get married is when the real love starts,but is always advisable to go through courtship in any relationship before you go to the altar.thank you

      • Many couples marry and after few years even if loved one another suddenly are going for divorce. Nowadays I see more and more divorses around me, and even altar did not saved their marriage. It looks like years ago there were more happy marriages than nowadays.

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