WHY SHOULD I TRUST YOU?

Generally, the long term, medium term, and short terms require you to execute a particular form along with supporting documents and the mortgage require you to show something on your name and as an assure to repay the loan amount.

But, the problem arises only in the cases of a person who approaches you suddenly with his family for a monetary help on the road.  How should I trust him? Will it be nice to deny him help? Will it be nice to see him continuously on the road approaching others for some petty help?

This is what exactly happened when I went out for a small relief after posting a blog on the site.

After finishing my snacks while I was returning home and slowed down the vehicle as somebody came in front of it. It is at that time a person approached me fast and asked me in Hindi ‘Sir, I do not know your language. I am coming from Maharashtra and lost my purse coming along with my family. I am not begging for anything sir, but I am asking for your help to provide for my family to eat’. I am stuck up in Hyderabad and I have to go to Aurangabad.’

 

A lady along with her two children accompanied him

 

I gazed at him. He was wearing good clothes, his lady was also having good clothes and the children were pressurizing her for something.

 

I was not in a position to help them as I could not draw any amount from the Bank being on ‘end of financial year’ and the ATMs were also not functioning.  I told him the same in my own language but observed that he could not get me.  I said the same thing in his language and he was about to leave.

 

But, something really stopped me from moving and I called him back and offered some Rs.20/- which I was having in my pocket. He literally felt very happy and could not understand why I denied him first. There was a tinge of waterline I noticed in his eyes.

 

You may wonder why have I denied him first and called him back. The reason being that I had a similar experience when I was traveling with my family from Tirupathi to Hyderabad. We lost the purse. There was no time for us to fill them up as the Bus was ready to start. It was at time moment we realized that some pickpocketing was used against us and we were all robbed not leaving anything to reach Hyderabad comfortably. We got down at Kadapa, stayed at my sister’s house and then started for Hyderabad taking a hand loan which made the journey quite comfortable.

But, a co-passenger could understand our situation we landed and offered  Rs.1000/- which we returned safely with personal gratitude.

 

Why should he help me? He could have turned his face off while I was hitting in my pockets for change and was searching further realizing that the things along with purse were also taken away. He could have denied me any help very easily as an unknown co-traveler. But, he did not do that.

 

Afterward, we started meeting regularly sometimes over the phone and sometimes in theaters and became good friends.  We mutually increased our social relations as well as professional relations. If he had not helped me our circle would not have developed this much and the journey would have been a routine journey suffering both physically and mentally. He really with a trust helped me and avoided both these situations for me. We became very good family friends subsequently.

 

LET US TRUST SOMEBODY WITH POSITIVITY. IT BRINGS US ONLY SWEET FRUITS IN RETURN. IT BRINGS INVALUABLE RELATIONSHIP THAT CAN NOT BE PURCHASED IN ANY OPEN MARKET AND THE WEIGHT OF WHICH CAN NOT BE COUNTED IN KILOS.

IT LOOKS SMALL  IN OUR FIST  LIKE A STONE  BUT SHINES LIKE A DIAMOND IN  OUR FINGER.