Parents play an important role model to Children. All parents wish their children to have to better future and grow up to be a Human… I mean act like a Human not like a Beast. But do parents realize that, whatever that they are doing, they are being observe by their children?
Okay.. let me give a simple example here. A mother telling their child to love their father or vice versa… but then both of them always quarrel.. What will come to a child mind is that.. “hey, you scold dad too, you scream at dad too, why can’t I? Why you can do it but I cannot?”…
Or Maybe…. ~~
Some parents don’t even know how to treat their parent (their child’s grandparent). As everyone know, when human get older, they do things a little bit slower compare to others and they tend to be forgetful and some even release some kind of bad odor from their body. And so, usually people will think that old people are annoying. So, if a parent treated their own parents badly, do you think that your child would follow what their parents said?
Or Maybe.. ~~
Trying to nag on their children on how important to study and how bad is watching television or playing computer is but they themselves watching television or playing computer most of the time..
Ya.. ya,, Above are just two example.. but there are lots more.. example, parent who smoke, parent who drink, parent who gamble, parents who do disgusting actions at home (dirty, watching t.v. non-stop, do not do healthy exercise, sitting in from of the computer most of the times)….
In my opinion, if someone have child or children, before teaching your child to be a Human and Act Properly, first of all , look at the mirror to make sure that you are really a good modeling, if parents have a negative modeling, each time when they try to teach their children, what will their children always in their mind if ” WHY YOU CAN and I CAN’T? IT’s UNFAIR!!! “. With a proper modeling, a parents do not need to always nag at their child. Because from young, they look at their parent attitude and learn from them on “WHAT IS RIGHT and WHAT IS WRONG”.
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To a child's eyes, all what the parents are doing are right. So, they would emulate what their parents are doing.
If the parents are fond of saying vulgar words, the children will also speak those vulgar words because they always hear them from their parents and thought that they are nice words.
One thing I hate, are children who are saying vulgar words. EVen without knowing their parents you would conclude that their parents are always also saying those vulgar words.
If the children see their parents so loving to one another, they would also grow up to be loving persons.
That is why all parents must see to it that when they quarrel, because quarrels are unavoidable to couples, they should do it in their bedroom where the children can't hear them.
Better yet, text one another what you have to say to each other even if they are bad words. At least they are not seen by the children.
Can't agree more, parent should set the good example in front of the kids.
Unfortunately, no all the parent alert about this issue, they never want to learn how to be a good man/ woman and a parent. They just earn and feed the children, but not educate.
Us as parents should be more responsible when it come to our children. I know a couple of people that has raised more then one or two kids and has done a dam good job of taking care of their kids. So I feel that we as younger parents should follow the path of our older generations. Plus have ourselves together far as relationships, careers, financial stability, and etc......when we get up the morning to take care of them jus by going to work or to a professional job like nursing or flying airplanes. Our children take an understanding to that and they tell us when their toddlers "Mom am going to be jus like you or Dad am going to be jus like you. So does nothing but gives us the strength to work or push even harder. So yes, be remodels and step up our game if we have to just to show them they can have when they get our age.
Parenting is the most difficult thing to handle. If a couple wanted to have a family, then they need to take the responsibility seriously.Being a role model is essential in the eyes of a child. We don't want our child to feel their parents are incompetent in parenting. Some married couple doesn't know the impact of being irresponsible. We always need to do what's best for the children. I do think parents wanted to do this as much as possible.