Significance level Zero Point Zero One

Hi Admins! 🙂 I’m hoping nga mapost ni siya but if not, tana mapost jud..hahahah.. I’m not from UC but same as your other senders, I’m an avid reader 😉 . Wala tana koy plan to submit a confession but I change my mind.. basaha lang please.. taas taas sad baya ni but please have patience 😉.

We all know that not everything we hear or read from the media are 100% accurate and true, right? But then again, we automatically discredit such fact basta naa na tay mabasahan esp. if mga juicy information involving politics or entertainment, wa tay pili. Grabe jud ta makareact, kanang murag wa nay ugma. Unya ug ang involved ana na mga stories kay di ta ganahan, kusog kayo ta mu pass ug judgement like we know them personally! 🙁 mao ng uso kayo ang mga haters and bashers rong panahona. We easily point them their mistakes and make hateful comments like “bitch”, “slut”, “criminal”, “murderer”, “fuckboy/girl” etc. We passed on judgements on these people as if we are living a pious life, void of committing mistakes and sin. Hay naku Pilipinas kong mahal, ano ba? You might be wondering ug unsai relevance anis akong confession, haha, chill lang mga pre kay PASAKALYE palang ni.. <3 <3

Sure nani, magsugod nako. Hi I’m Dee, just an ordinary girl na naay own world. Ako diay ang girl na SELDOM ra jud makacrush, but if naa gani there’s no holding back sa feelings. Pero di sad lagi maglast akong admiration. Di nalang nato idiscuss ang expiration date sa akong crush kay halata na dayun sa akong mga friendship nga ako ni gaconfess diri 😀. Kuan diay, I’m one of the gazillion of girls na nagka crush kay SEBASTIAN DUTERTE! Yeah you read it right! Well, why not diba? If there are women who are attracted to Men in Uniform, there are those who are attracted to someone with a bad boy image esp those with tats. Labaw na ug kaparehag face ni Baste! Dolordecolor!! Baste isn’t just a pretty face man gud. He is witty and smart if nagwatch mos iyang video interviews during the election campaign. He is a man with SUBSTANCE! Pak ganern mga pre!

Well, anyways, as the election unfold, nabal-an sad nato esp those nga grabe makasubaybay sa progress sa iyang papa, nga Baste is taken already. Not bound by the sanctity of marriage but naa shay Gf of 3 years and a 2 years old baby boy. Saklap mga besh!! Hugno langit kayo and disappointing kayo na news yet many still wanted even the tiniest attention from Baste. Grabe jud makapapansin sa iyang wall. Naa pay nagcomment ug “Baste, bunstisa ko bi” or “ako nalang ka. Ulia ko diri” and many more. Hahaha, nalingaw jud kog basas comment jud ato na time. Then sugod na ug kahumot si Baste sa mga mata sa media. They wanted to know and capture every move he make. Every bit of info about kay Baste kay magtrending jud. Daghanany sad kayo ang waiting sa iyang mga updates. People invaded his facebook and instagram accounts. Follow dinhi ug follow didto jud ang nation, naa pay taga lain country kay lagi daghan gaadmire sa atong bida. Some even created a twitter account for him, may gane kay nagstat dayon si crush na wala shay twitter. Naa pa jud tong hashtag sa twitter about niya and uban pang mga anak sa presidential candidates.

Then came ang nagviral nila nga photo ni Ellen Adarnas surigao! I started to wonder na. Uyab sila? Unya unsaon nalang si Kate? But then niana man sila nga friends ra daw (showbiz jud pre!). then i started to follow him on IG (stalker mode at its finest jud ko ato). I discovered na sa iyang mga posts, wala maski isa ka nawong si Kate or ang ila baby but nay video ug pic si Ellen!! Beastmode ko mga besh. Nakaingon kog unfair lagi ni aih nganung wala si Kate?! Ako sad gi stalk ang IG ni Kate and nakita nako na naa shay mga posts nilang duha ni Baste, naa pa gani nagtag kay Ellen didto. Siguro to point out na this girl is waiting for Baste to come home. Tas obviously sa mga post ni Ellen sa IG bida jud si Baste. Naa pa silay picture sa Japan. Sakit besh, nasakitan ko para kay Kate. Yes crush nako si Sebastian but I really didn’t pray nga magbulag silang Kate. I’m praying gani nga magpropose na sha. Di man sad sha gansi kay Kate kay pretty sad kayo si girl, maybe not pareha ka mestisa kay Ellen, but she has her own beauty, glam and class. Talented pa jud and dili eskandalosa ahh. Chill ra kayo sha amidst the controversy involving them. Sure jud ko nga mabasahan niya ang mga comments sa mga followers nila Baste. Comments nga makahiwa jud ug heart. Naa pay #BastEllen. Liman ka ana!! Nangreact man gani iya mga friends. But she kept her cool. What a woman!

The biggest shock of my life came on the night of the 16th of November, 2016. A photo of Sebastian and Ellen kissing was shown on TWBA! Di jud ko kalimot sa date kay grabe jud kahuot akong dughan ato na time! Affected kayo ko sa akong nakita nga liplocking nilang duha. Lami kayo hulbuton si Ellen sa tv ug kulatahon (harsh I know, sorry Ellen). Nangurog kos kalagot nga mura bitaw ug akoy uyab ni Baste! Hahaha. Murag gikumot ug sandamakmak na kamot akong heart and nasakitan ko para ni Kate. Ako gani nga wa kaila ni Baste personally and crush ra nako sha, pirti man gani nakareact, how about her? They created a baby, they spend three years together. She had given her heart to him, di kaha to sakit? Manhid ang di masakitan ato. But daghan ang nagbunyi sad ato na time kay they are rooting for Baste and Ellen kay ug nila pa, single man si Baste. Besh basin nalimot mo nga COMMON LAW WIFE niya si KATE!!!!! I cried a river that night! Labaw pay ako ang gibetray ni Baste my loves ato na time. Mura kog gibulagan ug uyab (feeling ra kayo ko, I know! Ayaw nag react friends kay kabalo sad ko nga daghan tang nadevasted atong gabhiona). I was heartbroken for days ato. Hahaha. I told you nga all-out ko muhatags akong feelings basta naa koy crush.

Then just this month nakabasa kos post ni Baste. I even watched the video wherein disappointed iyang papa kay wala na shay uli-uli sa ila kay naa sha pirmi kang Adarna. Then I’ve read comments from his FB and from Ellen’s IG. Grabe jud makacomment ning uban uih. Makabungkag ug self-esteem. Then sa IG ni Kate mostly encouragement and support ila comments, for her to stay strong. Although her posts aren’t about Baste or Ellen (wala man shay negative post about nila). Pero sa IG ni Ellen, grabe jud ang mga reactions sa mga followers ba! Kung pwede palang magbinayluanay ug kumo sa comment box, daghanay na siguro ang nagkablackeye ato. Bahin sad ang mga tao kay nay support musupport kay Kate, daghan sad kay Ellen. Upon reading their comments, mura jud baya silag kabalo sa tinuod na story. Hinuon sad, ing-ato sad ako reaction pagkakita nako sa ilang picture nga liplocking kayo.

Just then, my realization hit me hard! Not everything in the media is true! They can easily twist the story to their liking and para mabenta lang. Hmmm, pila ka % ang probability nga tinud-anay ang giingon sa media? Pila man ang level of significance ana to say that the story about Baste and Kate, ug Baste and Ellen are reliable and valid? Kay ug sa research pana, before ta makaingon nga ang study is reliable and valid, kailangan pa ug 0.01 or 0.05 na level of significance. Unya ang media be? Naa na silay ing-ana? Standardized ban a ilang mga stories? Tsktsk. Whatever it is, only Baste, Kate and Ellen can tell the truth. And whatever the truth is, wala na koy labot ana kay it is their life. All I can do is pray for them 🙂.

To the bashers and haters out there, hinayhinay lang tas atong judement sa ila. We know nothing about them personally. And whatever it is that we think we know about them, are just second-hand information. Allow them to have the liberty to do what they want to do with their lives. They don’t owe us anything. Let us just pray for them. Those hateful comments we leave for them doesn’t help. Know that words cut deeper than a knife. Maybe makaingon ta nga they deserved every hateful and negative comments we throw their way, that they can easily take it but remember that they are humans too, like you and I, masakitan sad sila.

To Ellen, know your worth! Sorry if I think badly of you. Wla man tika gi bash openly, but in my mind grabe najud nakong balikas nimo. I know I don’t have the right. I apologize for my bad impression sa imo. God bless you.
Thank you for reading this. Let’s not be hasty in our judgement pips.. 😉

To Kate, we don’t know each other but I admire you for the strength that you have shown amidst these chaotic controversies. You have shown that you have much more important things to do than stoop down to your bashers and haters. You’ve faced your trials with your head held high! I salute you madam! God bless you every day. Thank you for inspiring me 🙂

To Sebastian, dong daghanay ga love sa imoha, isa nako ana, but please dont hurt Kate and your kids. Don’t throw away your diamonds just because of a lil piece of glass. Please value your family, spent time with them. Ayaw hulata nga its too late to take part in the growing up years of your kids, and that you’ll be a stranger to them. Bitaw uih! I don’t really know your REAL story, so please forgive my intrusion and rants. Know that I will always admire you, flaws and all! I don’t admire you just for your beautiful face baya. May you find your happiness and may God bless you.