18 Complex Signs That She Is Really Into You But You Don’t Even Know !

She Likes Me Or She Likes Me Not? How to Identify?

Women are the most complex species that you have ever encountered with and so do their likings and the way they show their signs. If you are one who is confused whether the girl really into you or likes you? Then believe me, you are not alone. Sometimes Girls don’t even realize this. They are also confused with their selection methods, feelings and tastes. However some complex gestures that we have seen from women time to time when they really into a guy. These signals are mostly obscure. So trying to read her signals and looking for some certainty. We help you to understand these.

These signs can be diverse from women to women on the bases of socio-cultural and geographical locations. For instance, girls from west are likely to more open and bold with their feelings. They directly let you know if they really like you and may be their friend approaches you as a third wheel in order to convey the message and can drop more hints, while women from eastern countries are shyer in nature. They usually don’t express their feelings openly. However Girls reciprocate hidden signs which help you identify that now you need to make a move. However it has been found, guys are less likely to pay attention to these signals and end up being in a losing side.

So, following are some of the complicated signs that will help you identify that she likes you. Which you probably not looking out for.

She Unexpectedly Ignores You Without Any Reason:

This is the attention grabbing trick, if you are in a position where you found that a girl is really good with you in person but suddenly starts to ignore you without any unpleasant incident. This simply means that she is trying to grab your attention because this has a shock value and by doing this, she makes you realize that how it feels without her? On the flip side she is giving you the signal, like she is now feeling different and requires more attention. If this is the case then you need to understand the situation and identify the need of this change.

Many people miss-read this signal as an uncertain ignorance and keep expanding the distance with the girl. This can be true as some time girls actually don’t want you in her personal space. But there must be a solid reason behind this ignorance. If there is no strong reason then you are likely missing your chances.

She Laughs Even At Your Dumbest Joke:

This is the key hint to determine her intentions. If you find a girl which enjoys your humor a lot and often laughs even at your lamest joke than this means she really likes you and trying to convey that you are really good and funny. Mostly when a girl is interested in a guy then she always finds him adorable and funny no matter what. Her body language describes a lot about and now you know that this is real when she gives you this look.

There is a reason why girl does this when she is interested in? Because she wants to make the conversation more funny and enjoyable and may be she likes the circumstance that you are funny chemistry with her. Since you are having a good time with her while making humorous moments because you already liked her, so she is responding you back with her laughs in order to participate the joyful conversation.

She Flips Her Hair and Play with Jewelry

So, you are not looking out motions which is very obvious with girls. She is much more likely to do a whole combination of very subtle touches and grooming measures. This can also be a slightly move of the hair from face or she might be re-adjust her hair to show bit more of her neck.
It might be that you just noticed playing with her hands, necklace and ring bit more while she is talking to you. This doesn’t mean that she is mainly trying to communicate something. It is much more likely that she is feeling actually bit confuse under your company. As so doing things like touching her hair and hands are done very subconsciously.

The hair flip consist of women raises one hand and pushes finger through her hair and running her palm along the surface of the hair. Some women made only one hand movement while other they are about to have hair upside down. The women put hand to her hair several times within 30 seconds in a row.

So we are talking about smalls signals unlike big hair switches such as advertised in L’Oréal ads. As we are considering these tiny little gestures that probably mean she does actually quite like you.

She Creates Space and Show Availability:

Basically she makes sure that you got enough face time, so let’s think about this for a second. This goes back to how women have been conditioned to think that they have to present themselves also they have to show availability that they have to create the space as to get the guy to take the step forward which in this case she means creating physical time to hang-out together or making sure that in the right place and the right time. Such as attending the same party where she knows she is going to see you. Making sure that after work perhaps you are the last two people in the office and she is clearing away the soft together so she can go into the elevator with you. Yes this really is it, creating availability and giving you an opportunity one-on-one to take the steps forward.

It doesn’t mean she is going to do anything clear than that because still depends on women’s mindset. As how women being conditioned and this is what they expect or think right. She can’t be to obvious about this but to put you off so the best she can do is giving you physical time with her where you can make the move forward. So the burden of expectation is definitely unfortunately on you.

She Often Asks You About Your Future Plans:

If a girl is really interested in you and you kept her attention then there is a high chance that she often ask you about your future plans not necessary about wedding and children but most likely about your final education, career plan, settle down. Like what you want to do in next five years. What you have in mind regarding your future endeavors. It can be like what you are doing next week or next month for the specific party or function, what you will be going to do after that and this.

She is trying to gauge your planning thoughts. If she do such questions then you have positive sign.

She Creates Long Conversation On Text Messages:

It has been found that girls are better in text messaging as compare to boys. They are smart and they know how to keep the conversation going during text conversations. If she replies you with long text messages with lots of emoticons and most importantly she response quickly as you don’t have to wait for long to get the answers then you are in right direction.

Because sometimes girls are really dry and they don’t respond you as quickly or even if they do then those responses are consists of short answers. By doing this they actually want you to know that they do not enjoy your company or might make it clear to you.

She Shares You On Social Media:

This is the era of virtual social networking and mostly lead by girls. Nowadays girls are the experts of these social networks and shares Information among their friends and relatives. If she shares you on her social networks such as Facebook, twitter and Instagram. It means she is confident enough to let her social circle know about you.

She tries to Touch You or Make physical contact:

 

 

Physical touch is the main sing that clear all the doubts. If she is into you then she finds excuses to touch you. It can be a little hug or just rubbing your back, shoulder or leg. This can be done by any other way like she can give you high five, a friendly punch and friendly fight. If she initiates the first touch then this the huge impact as this mean you are already late because she make the move at the end the end.

 

 

 

 

If you try to touch her like the way mentioned above and she reciprocates then this is the definite yes for you.

She Often Stares You, Stalks You & Makes More Eye Contact:

Let’s talk about Eyes, since eyes play and important role as non-verbal communication and in many case eye says it all. If you are good in eye reading then you can communicate without saying a word.

If you found a girl watching you and you catch her while looking around. If she suddenly looks down and smile then she is probably staring you.

Some other cases girls do stalk you not only on social media but in real life like in a class, canteen, office and other places. And this is natural if you like someone you start stalking naturally without even know it. You may get the idea when she start staling because it cannot be remain hidden.

Apart from staring and stalking if she make an eye contact with you either during a conversation or without having any conversation. If you two have strong eye contact and last more than 2.5 minutes then you can say she has a crush on you.

She Pays Attention To You:

If a girl keep all the attention towards you or what you are saying that means she is giving you more value. For example you both are in the middle of crowded restaurant which is very noisy. It’s really hard for one to listen and keep the concentration but she is still keeping all the attention to you while having this much disturbance. So I have no words to describe what it is?

Believe Your Intuition If You think She likes You Then Probably She Is:

Sometimes, your intuition play an important role in your life to help you out in order to determine the outcome of the decisions that you have no idea whatsoever. Just like that your inner self give you some hints about your surroundings and people. If you think she like you on the bases of behavior or the feelings you catch internally then you are probably right as there are always two-way of communication.

She Frequently Requests For Your Help:

If a girl wants you to be around then she might find excuses such as she has school project, computer problem or anything else entirely. She ask you for help. However sometimes she can fixed those problems and don’t even really need a help but she wants to go for it just to make you around as a way to build more deep relationship. So you both have a time for each other.

She Makes Small Things For You & Invite You Over:

She always make small things for you, it can be anything like cooking and making chocolate cake for you. However these small stuff don’t have monitory value but you have to look the time and effort that she is putting into just to make it possible for you. So she can invite you and you both can have dinner and watch some movie or whatever together. May be by inviting, she might want to introduce you with her family members.

 

Sometimes It Seems she Is Into You & Sometimes Is Not:

As I told you earlier, girls are confused personalities, even time they are really not sure what they have to do? Sometimes you find her super funny and you both have good chemistry but sometimes you find her total stranger or may be like any other usual friend. In this case they don’t know how to pretend without expressing all the feelings for you and believe me girls are really good in hiding their feelings. So if you found yourself in this 360 degree turn then you can say she likes you but don’t know how to express.

She Teas You Or She Respects You:

If she is making fun of you or with you and you find that she is only doing such things only with you than you are good to go. On the other end she teas all other friends except you. So you are either in perfect position. Since she respects and try not to create any bad impression in front of you. So, On the both case you have a chance.

You Always Find Her Well Dressed & Well Maintained:

If a girl really likes you then she put efforts on herself to make it effortlessly beautify when you are around because she wants to catch your attention. So she tries to look beautiful all the time when there is the chance that you will be there.

She Always Re-check Her Makeup When she Is With You:

As mentioned above, she wanted to be look gorgeous in front of you. So in order to maintain this, she always re-check her makeup and hair. For example you both are in the restaurant, suddenly she visit the rest room and now you notice that she put some more lip-gloss and fixed faded makeup, just to grab your attention. So, She can have more compliments.
P.S: Girls Love Compliments…

 

She Changes Her Voice & Talking Style:

This is the most effective way to identify, what she really feels for you. If she is into you then you find her talking style has changed suddenly. She is using very rigid voice tone to make it more professionally polite. You can easily distinguish the fake voice and style as it is so made up. Because she does not normally talk like this. It might be possible that she is trying to make an impression on you. If she does then it simply means you already made an impression on her.
There is an old saying that if someone is trying to impress you which means he/she already is impressed by you!

 

Conclusion:

In last I would like to recommend you that if you are a guy who is waiting for the signs and expression to make your move then you are not doing justice. For me if I like someone I would go to one on one and tell her. This save a lot of time and effort. Because I am confident men and I have lot to offer. If she likes me than I don’t have to go through all these signal things or if she don’t then this will save a lot of time for me as I don’t have to spend efforts and being ended up on losing side because this hurts. Rejection don’t hurt but wasted time, hopes and suffering hurts.
Everyone one has different opinion and these signs can be vary on situations. This is a debatable topic please share your constructive views on this. So we can have more information on this topic. Surely there are many girls reading this article.

 

 

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