I too feel that it depends entirely on the couple as to when they want to have children since the responsibility of raising kids falls on both. I have seen that older mothers are a lot more tolerant while dealing with their children.

@Cely what is ML?

I walk away becuz if I stay then I know me……..I know my attitude. Am going to come back at u like u coming back towards me. When I feel like things between me and my dude have calmed down then we can talk about it. Other then that if its something really bad then that means that am not gon talk to u period.

I guess it depends on if its something we really want to do at that time becuz in reality if your in your 40’s and 50’s then that’s really to late to be having kids if your in your 30’s still and your having them then kudos to you. I have babies right now and I had both of them in my 30’s but I have alot of patient. You just got to when to stop…[Read more]

I resemble my mom becuz she always took care of the family and she also took care of us. But my attitude, bad month, very bad temper all came from her. She was very out spoken and will have no problem wit tell in u what is on her mind….jus bold in her own way. She was also smart and very wise. Am thankful that I did have her the time she was here.

Yes, I do believe blood is thicker then water but sometimes water is thicker then blood but its only becuz your family can be assholes and treat like u don’t mean anything. I am going thru that phase but I don’t care becuz what don’t kill it’ll make me stronger in da long run.

I feel like it depends on the spouse or the wife. In my eyes a husband and wife is suppose to have each others back regardless of what the situation is but don’t get to comfortable wit jus sittin back and doin nothin becuz we as women can only support or men for a certain amount of time becuz we have to take care of the kids becuz am the only one…[Read more]

Yes, people use all kinds of excuses of why they can’t do this or can’t do that but If u put ur mind to it anyone can handle their own. That’s why their is a such think called independent meanin take care of your own and  do not worry about anybody else. U can give people advice, you can be there as much as u can but its up to them to either take…[Read more]

@pc work, betrayal is the most common mistakes people, us, everyone encountered, suffered and/or do. But on my part, I was the one who was betrayed physically, emotionally and it was a day I cannot remember. I had to move out our house for several months to regain my strength to face the circumstances. I dealt with it after 4 months far from that…[Read more]

It’s never too easy for men to follow those things and commandments which can be found on the sacred book. Even if we say they believe in GOD but they don’t still get it how to become a good husband to their wives. Most men nowadays follow what they like and love and not what the Lord says them to do. Every relationship has its own sufferings and…[Read more]

Everyday I have to improve myself jus by bein independent. If I don’t be that way I will never learn how life is. I would jus be this lost puppy that never succeeded in life. Then my kids won’t know to defend for their selves and they would always depend on family, friends, men, women, etc.. I mean jus people that don’t care about them. But as…[Read more]

I have had a family member betrayed me becuz they had sex wit my baby daddy and tried to make it seem like everything was cool between when it wasn’t. So I don’t talk to that family member any more. Then another one of my relatives tried to talk to my fiancée at that particular time and I stopped talking to them as well to. So am done betrayed by…[Read more]

@shavkat Sorry you are having your content stolen. That is NOT cool.

I have to wonder how something like that happens here with all the posts being moderated. Are the admin not checking before they publish posts? That physical activity post is really weirdly formatted too. I suspect it was already copied from somewhere else.

Not a good…[Read more]

Every relationship has its equal share but I wouldn’t want to be compared to any female becuz I would be to busy focusing on my issues that am having wit my own self but I know when I get that relationship wit him he will be happy focused on the fact that hopefully we can be as one  wit our life together and enjoy our kids etc…..

@analyst157 I can understand why you would prefer there not to be a DMCA takedown. I don’t know much about how Google ranks sites that have had a complaint. If the site removes the content, does it still count against them?

It’s too bad that so many here seem to be struggling. I hope things will improve.