sometimes, the more you ignore them, they will come back to you naturally because they are super curious what happened and yet they don’t know why and how it happened!

It is alike curiosity kills the cat

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you got all your parents charms and talent.

A brainy child, I must say, it is fortunate that you had inherited all the good behaviors and characteristic.

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@peachpurple  I have got my enthusiasm from my mother and creativity from my father. My father was not an architect but he built his house that was his pride but neighbour’s envy. I could say that about me when I designed Solitaire my dream home.

About enthusiasm yes that I got from my mother. Even at work my bosses always appreciated  my e…[Read more]

I agree with you that not all sober people are boring i guess i didn’t mention that a few of them are you may find someone who is not adventurous always wants to stay home and study or play games all day stuff like that geeks if i must say i have nothing against them though those were just my thoughts i have nothing against any sober person.

Am happy for you its a good thing your hubby has an allergy to alcohol that’s so cool i must say. As for your dad am sorry about that i thank God that even though my dad was a drinker he never quarreled or became a nuisance to anybody we never saw any negative behaviors in him towards my mum or me and my siblings but all in all i also don’t like alcohol.

When people get married it is supposed to be about two people not a whole clan or extended family. Anyway for me i would stick with my hubby at any given time because this is the person that i am living with if there is any problem that may  arise he is the person that will be there to help me first hand he is my confidant so if anything is to be…[Read more]

I don’t mind if a person has an occasional social drink, but I have a very low tolerance for drunks. That being said, I have no idea where you get the idea that a sober guy will a) always be home or b) be boring. Man or woman, we all have plenty of other reasons to be away from home that have nothing at all to do with drinking. Work is a very…[Read more]

oh my hubby is a non smoker and non drinker.

He can’t drink beer because he will have skin rashes, he is allergic to alcoholic drinks except Shandy which has 0.1% of alcohol.

I would rather have a non drinker because my dad was a drunkard for a few decades.

It was agony for us , my brother and me because dad and mom always quarrel when he was…[Read more]

@peachpurple, hehehehe, I like your idea to better have a date with a younger man than older.LOL.

@morgoodie why would you wait to start having trouble in your relationship when you can avoid it at all cost? like you said @oksummer age is just a number but the one thing people don’t realize is that age also has issues and when the issues come it breaks down a lot of things and that is when you hear people divorced or separated because of some…[Read more]

15 Years as an age gap is too big, this is someone you can compare to your dad. first and foremost there are too any disadvantages to this kind of love for one you will always have conflicts on everything because the older person has other preferences to the younger one. it is said that when a younger person dates an older person they tend to…[Read more]