Anjee started the topic How do you discipline your children? in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years, 4 months ago
I am really curious how you discipline your children guys. I am still 20 years old and if the time comes that I’ll have my own children, I can adopt your ways to discipline them.
When I was a child, my parents used to spank or even pinch me. As a child, I hated them for doing that but as time goes by, I started to understand them.
How about you…[Read more]
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Kyla Matton Osborne (Ruby3881) replied to the topic Bathing a new born in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years, 4 months ago
@kaka135 The bathroom basin is very small here, and would not fit even a newborn! But many parents will bathe very small children in the kitchen sink, as it’s similar to the sink where the nurses show parents how to bathe their babies in hospital. We did that for many months with our children. Most of them were bathed in the kitchen sink at least…[Read more]
Anitah Gimase replied to the topic Sickness in the family in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years, 4 months ago
Indeed God heals it is never easy taking care of a sick person it takes a lot of courage and patience but am glad that despite the carrying and the needle pokes your mum is well.
peachpurple replied to the topic Sickness in the family in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years, 4 months ago
In 2012 my mom had sudden stroke after a fall. She was fully paralyzed until my bro seek a acupuntutist to poke needles into her limbs.
My bro had to carry her from house to car to the tcm shop to seek treatment.
He was pressured by her weight ,money and worries of her recovery.
Fortunately thru prayers n treatments ; 2 years later she…[Read more]
Anitah Gimase started the topic Sickness in the family in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years, 4 months ago
Sickness is a situation no one wants to be in, but again it is inevitable that we will all get sick at some point in our lives. In the last 3 years my younger sister has been sick always being in and out of hospital and it was a worry to all of us and it weighed heavily on my mum. I used to feel so sorry for my mum at her age having to keep going…[Read more]
peachpurple replied to the topic Bathing a new born in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years, 4 months ago
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I had normal birth delivery, not cesarean , so I can move about the next day.
my mother in law wanted me to learn how to bathe my baby as early as possible
Furthermore, she cannot squat down often, she had knee caps problem
Grecy Garcia replied to the topic Bathing a new born in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years, 4 months ago
I don’t know how to bath a newly born, but I am watching at my mother when she is doing it to her grandson, my nephew. It is hard from watching it as you will be scared to hurt the baby and the skin of babies are so delicate that you would prefer to use gentle/mild soap, that are especially for babies because it will hurt their eyes and leaves to…[Read more]
Lee Ka replied to the topic Bathing a new born in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years, 4 months ago
@ruby3881 I did not know such jugs exist as well. When my baby was in the first month, I bathed him in the basin in the bath room. Well, I actually put a small wash bowl in the basin, held him with my left hand, put him inside the wash bowl and use a handkerchief to “wash” him. As I was going through the c-section surgery, it was not convenient…[Read more]
@kaka135 In my son’s case, it’s part of his autism. But I know a lot of kids don’t like water to get into their eyes or around their mouth and nose. They become frightened that they will drown or that their eyes will burn. It panics them, which just makes matters worse.
There are now some specially made jugs for bath small children. A friend of…[Read more]
@peachpurple That’s really quick you learned how to bathe your first baby. Was it just the second day after she was born? I was going through the c-section surgery and my wound still gave me much pain, so I just learned to bathe my first baby after the first month.
I heard about using “black tiger beer” to bathe the baby, and I always thought…[Read more]
@shavkat There are some prenatal courses for expected parents, hence I think bathing the baby might be included in the course.
Yes, it is really wonderful to watch a kid growing up, especially when you watch her from a newborn baby, then toddler, young kid, and later growing up to be a young adult, etc. I always agree that the first three…[Read more]
@ruby3881 I have seen some young kids screaming really loud and badly when taking shower, especially when pouring water over the head. I actually do not understand why the kids feel so insecure while taking the shower, at first I thought if it is because of some not so pleasant experience they have got previously. Perhaps it is just normal for…[Read more]
Anitah Gimase replied to the topic Bathing a new born in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years, 4 months ago
I also don’t have kids cely but I have the experience it’s good learn try and you will never regret it I assure you.
wow your a strong mum dealing with a autism child is not easy it takes a lot of patience am really proud of you, am just amazed at how you deal with your child and that is so impressive. keep up the good work, and if I may ask are you able to feed him while he takes a bath?
peachpurple replied to the topic Would you save your wife or your mom? in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years, 4 months ago
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yeah when it happens in reality, it might turn the other way round.
Do you know how to swim?
Actually, you can teach your mom and wife to learn swimming, then you don;t have to save them either!
Me I think it is a good idea to learn this things early in life so that when you get there you have a pretty good idea of what you are getting into. it is a scary affair really especially if it is a first time but for me my mum is a nurse so it was easy for me learn from her with my sister’s kids. it was awesome being able to hold a young child by…[Read more]
cely replied to the topic Do you spank your child? in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years, 4 months ago
I never experienced spanked by my parents and even my elder sisters and brothers.That is why I dare not spank my cute and little and noisy nieces and nephews hehehe. I just talk to them telling them to observe silence for other members at home are having high blood pressure, and they stopped.
cely replied to the topic Bathing a new born in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years, 4 months ago
I am singe and never been married, so no kid and no experience bathing an infant. bathing an infant needs extra care for the baby is so vulnerable.
Anitah Gimase replied to the topic Do you spank your child? in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years, 4 months ago
You have said it very well teaching a child when they are still toddlers is good. that way they get to be responsible but there are some children who can be very unruly sometimes that may require a little beating. I don’t agree with beating them all the time because they could get used to it and that could stir trouble. being able to talk to the…[Read more]