@Shavkat, at home our parents play favoritism even in school. Being obedient and respectful serve as the bases for appreciating one member in our family. When we have a sister or brother that is so obedient, kind, and thoughtful we tend to like her/him and that is not good for me for in a family there might be a sibling who cannot find a job, or…[Read more]

The thing that makes a person a good friend is being loyal to the people around you and being friendly. Many people think that being friendly is only about being good to your friends and family but it actually means being good to your enemies as well that is what makes a good friend. You have no limits or boundaries when it comes to people and…[Read more]

such things make me wonder why most cultures consider boys/men more important?

according to chinese tradition, old folks would insist first born baby to wear jewellery on ankle, wrist or necklace as a symbol of precious, important, the only one, especially if the baby is a boy.

Actually, it is not popular anymore in this modern time but it is polite to accept the gift but remove it after that.

baby might get strangled…[Read more]

most of them do it for the reason that you mentioned last. I’m aware that there are cultures with rules that we’re not capable to understand if we don’t share their beliefs but under normal circumstances I find such a geasture totally pointless

There might be some beliefs of parents why they are doing this. Maybe they believe that putting golds and other glittering in their children will bring to good fortune or good future when they grow old. It could also be a belief of warding off or pushing away the evil spirits so they cannot harm the baby. Or maybe, the passion of the parents of…[Read more]

I undrestand what you are saying. I also think it’s a total waste of money and parents should do something useful for their children with that money.

The answer to your question is a definite yes. Human beings are much more demanding then animals. You can’t even begin to start comparing him two they are way apart. A pup just needs a month or two to take care of, whereas a baby will take years on end to take care off. Children’s will always be kids to their parents forever so parenting never…[Read more]

I have learned that men/women are just human and most are not trustworthy no matter what comes out of their mouth. You can live with a man that you think you know 100% only to find out that the man has been cheating on you, your whole entire marriage. How does one suppose to feel about that? It makes the woman think something is wrong with her.…[Read more]

I have never addressed my mom as mom. I have always called her by her first name. When I was little I was raised by my grandmother and my aunt (mom’s sister) so I always thought my mom was my sister. She has a few mental issues amongst a few other things so she doesn’t know what she is doing half of the time.

As for my sperm donor, I have only…[Read more]

I have two girls, ages 20 and 17 and two boys, ages 16 and 13. I also have an angel baby that would have been about 8 or 9. I don’t know the sex of that baby since I was only 6 weeks when I lost it. It’s always hard losing a baby no matter when.

Do I want more children? Maybe. I guess I’m at the age where I’m ready to do things without having…[Read more]

i have 3 kits. My oldest is 9. My middle is a girl and shes 6 and my youngest will be 5.  3 is hard sometimes but its worth it. Yes you are outnumbered children to paents but if you spread the attention its not to hard