True staying rooted in the present is the ideal situation taking each day at a time and making the best out of it. The analogy of the football and goalkeeper is aggressive but can work wonders as one cannot sit idle mulling if a plan fails. Instead if the individual devises a new counter strategy to effect a change in the situation and keeps…[Read more]

Thank you for expressing your point of you in a very direct way. Yes even I have seen many families going through such situations and that continues till years. I fully agree with you when these husbands should just mind their business when they are in no position to do anything and the poor lady has to slog and do everything from A to Z  they…[Read more]

@acelawrites

Happy to hear from you and feels good to know that people nowadays treat women the way they should be treated with respect. But there are many places in the world where woman are discriminated for different reasons. Like in the case of salary, facilities which are not gender neutral in many countries especially in the private sector,…[Read more]

@PEEUSH TRIKHA

Totally agree with your view regarding maintaining distance out of respect especially with people who are not related to us or those whom we know very little about or strangers. We should see that they do not feel uncomfortable with our presence due to ego, attitude or any sort of domination as mentioned by you even in the case of…[Read more]

@Mahesh

Appreciate your response for the above topic. Yes I do agree that it is better to take one step at a time especially when we are going to try something new. For this we definitely have to compromise and move out of our comfort zone cocoons which we would have built over a long period of time which is nothing but a state of mental barrier…[Read more]

True getting motivated for some time is one thing but sustaining the same on a continuous basis is totally a different thing. It would be better for us to break big or huge tasks into small units and take one thing at a time as this will help us continue sustain our motivation on a continuous basis. Only a few people will have the bent of mind to…[Read more]

God Shiva is omniscient He is present in all directions and all atoms too. He is one of the three trinity in the Hindu pantheon. He is the easiest of them to please and obtain boons from. He never says no to a devotee who approaches Him and asks Him for something for which he has been praying to reach him. He is also known to come to the rescue of…[Read more]

@PEEUSH TRIKHA

Agree with you good things do not come easily to one and one has to put lot of effort to achieve the same and enrich his life with the process of change and the success which receives at the end for the sacrifices one has had to make for the better. But it is always worth giving a try for something which does overall good to us in…[Read more]

@MANASHA

Congratulations to you on being able to change and stop a habit which one is used to. I agree it does take lot of will power to achieve or change something which we have been accustomed to since a long period of time and which has negative effects on the health. One more positive is that once you are able to change something like this it…[Read more]