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Krishna Kumar replied 7 years, 6 months ago

This concept of barter used to be there in ancient times and the surprising thing is that we have it in our country in many villages and even in the cities too. This concept is a good one as there is no money exchanging hands and you do not end up transacting. This is services for services or goods for services or services for goods or goods for goods it can be a combination of any of the four options.

In the villages many farmers take the services of labour and pay them in the form of rice or food grains grown from the field. So both the parties are happy with the concept. They also exchange services like getting something for someone staying in the village from the cities and they being given some goods which the person has grown in the village. On the whole this is a successful concept. Only thing is we need two people who have the same mentality.

acelawrites replied 7 years, 6 months ago

Husband and wife should understand each other all the time; if they have different careers, they should allot time for the family together especially on weekends. If the wife stays at home and do home chores, the husband should understand and appreciate her efforts. She should have weekend off with the husband; and the husband should also help in some home chores when he is on day-off.
- Krishna Kumar replied 7 years, 6 months ago
  
  Agree with what has been stated by you above in your responses to the article. Many a time I find the communication lacking between couples whom I meet and I feel this should not be happening. They should take time out of their busy days to see that they do spend at least some amount of quality time together. Come to think of if if people get married and do not find time for their partner that is not a good thing at the end of the day.
  
  I have also observed some couple tend to have more children say around three and above and they get very little time for each other as they have to tend to more number of children even if both of them are putting effort collectively to see that things are going smooth. It does turnout to be a rough ride sometimes as there are too many mouths to feed and the number of hands are less. Weekends are a time when both should get the required rest to see that they are ready for the coming week. Whether it be good or bad times sticking together as a unit is the most important thing. That is the key to success in a marriage.

sivasubrahmanyam shatdarsanam replied 7 years, 6 months ago

The whole problem arises due to the improper attention by the parents. There are mainly 2 reasons for this problem to take place;
1. sexual thirst 2. Social stigma to take the responsibility 3. Financial problem
The factor No.3 in most of the cases is very much less as no parents irrespective of their financial condition will always try to feed their offsprings at any cost, doing whatever job it may be. As far as the reasons 1 and 2 are concerned they both are interrelated. Sometimes, the newborn is thrown into a dustbin with a fear of social stigma.Most of the cases fall into this category.
Another reason is father or mother getting into a remarriage after divorce or in the event of death of another. This makes children being subjected to torture and force them leave their homes to lead a life full of freedom. Most of these children can be found near garbage centers where they will be selling the collectibles of the day. They earn and eat. The Government Department tries in most of the cases to give them a good life with the support of NGOs. This is a great Job. They are doing it. But, still there is some need to do it with the active support of NGOs and especially with the support of the Public.
- Krishna Kumar replied 7 years, 6 months ago
  
  When it comes to factor number two as has been mentioned the number of cases see a sharp spike. That act of dumping the child in the dustbin and the other one of torture where the child is unable to bear the same any further and hence sees running away as the only solution. Many lives have been wasted this way as the whole life these poor children end up suffering for no fault of their’s and the protection which they are supposed in the formative years is also missing which also affects their psyche.
  
  They are badly hurt and shaken and are unable to express what they are going through and there is no one to hear them too that confounds the situation which they are in. I only hope things in our country will improve with more accountability by the families as that is where the children come from. If stringent punishments are meted out to those troubling such children then chances of thing improving is possible to a large extent.