Wendy Spickerman
@wendyspickerman active 7 years, 7 months ago-
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thanks fo the post , its full details, did not know about it
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really thats so sweet from you and yoru friend who did all that, nice things means meaningful things not pricey things, its by the menaing oft he things not by the price of the things or by it is sizes, its only has a meaning when its from people you like and when you need it or they need it and gave it to you, its so beautiful to feel for others when they dont say a word and help also without them to ask you to help
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@mangoh ,
Thank you for saying that.
They are after all my parents. I am just trying to return the love they gave me and my siblings while we were growing up. They sacrificed a lot in order for me and my siblings to have a nice life and be sent to college.
Now, that I already have a family, I see to it that I still have the time to be with them in my free days from work and give them the things they may want. Although, my father being a retired judge have a big pension, this little thing such as giving to him this gift that is supposedly for me, made him so happy.
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That is so nice to hear this thing about you my friend. You are a person with a kind and generous heart , because you like sharing things especially when it comes to our love ones.
You share without asking for return and that is what is expected of us when we help people or share our time to help other people.
Really, you volunteered in Central Asia? When was that and what did you do as a volunteer? And were you not given any allowance for your needs there, or were you in allowance basis?
It is really a nice feeling when in our own little way, we are able to share what we have not waiting for any return at all.
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That is how we should be to our parents. Loving and caring. Even if we give them little things, it means a lot to them already.
That’s because they feel important when we give them these things they want. Especially, when they are already getting old, the least we can do is be with them, talk and share stories with them. Time is already getting shorter for them, so we should find the time to even just be with them and give them small things like their favorite foods.
They took care for us all since our birth and until we can be on our own already, so when the time comes that they are already a bit older, we can start paying back those days when they took care of us.
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So funny. Moms can complain about a gift we give them and we’ll bend over backwards so that she will be pleased. :0
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@Treathyl FOX ,
Yes, moms would complain of our gifts. My mother is like that.
She would complain that she has lots of them already, when I gifted her a shawl and a bag.Father got angry at her for being that way and reprimanded her that she should be happy we gave her a gift and it comes from our heart. The next time around , she didn’t complain anymore.
That is why, I like giving a gift to my father, because he would really smile from ear to ear and would thank profusely for it. Little things means a lot to him already. 🙂
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So funny. Moms can complain about a gift we give them and we’ll bend over backwards so that she will be pleased. 🙂
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This is a good work for the day. Do you think every day to be like this? For me a big ‘No’… What will be the beauty if there is no change?k It becomes a routine job in the office. Going to the office, sorting out the things, typing some letters on the computers, lunch, again doing some work, A coffee, some work, and finally settling for the return journey. It looks nice only sometimes, but not always. Some inconvenience, some change in the emotional values, some shouts, some orders, some obedience, and some disobedience everything must be there in an office environment. I like something challenging.
This is only people already having challenging jobs talk about some leisure hours and moments in their office.
What I suggest is when we work out and come back to our homes it is better to detoxify our mind from things that may be causing pressure to our mind. Each individual will have his or her own ways and have different coping mechanisms and skills which they would have learnt over a period of time. Do not allow the pace of work at the work pace to overwhelm you as that too place its part in creating anxiety.
People would just want their work to be done and no one is interested in how one is. That is how it has become. They say you are being paid for the job you do so do it happily. This is how they generally speak. Avoid any negative talk to affect you at the place of work. In between whenever you find time a little it may be but still take a two minute break as it does a world of good for ones health and the mind. Thanks for the share and best wishes.