Maybe that syndrome is the cause of crimes like robbery, snatching other people’s jewelry, money or cellphones. It can make those who are envious of other people to try to get it too even using desperate means.

It is a good thing to do one thing at a time as has been stated in the article. But in today’s time and age it is proving to be a difficult thing to do as many other things also come and seek our attention at that particular moment. If we do not attend to them then we will have to give explanations as to why we could not attend to that work on time as was required. But it is proved that doing one thing at a time is the right approach for our health in the long term.

What we can do is we can tell people if we are attending to a work we will not be taking something new. This if it is maintained and developed as a habit in the long run will help us. And others will also understand what we are trying to say. As they would have got used to us by now. This is how it works. But there are many things on which we do not have control. That is a different issue to tackle in this case. Thanks for the share.

I don’t know if you believe in Karma or not, but all the ups and downs that we are facing right now or in the near future are the fruits of our past deeds. Our destiny is already written and we are witnessing it happening in our lives. We have to accept all that comes round as the will of the almighty and keep on moving. Hard times and Good times are like seasons as winter and summer they come and go, you just need to bare them patiently.

Thanks for sharing the colorful “gems”of Hinduism. I am naive on this religion; just a little knowledge about it from our lessons in Asian civilization. I admire the way people in your country or those in other countries in observing Hinduism. It looks like they have a deep sense of religiosity when you see them praying in temples, or in their places of worship.

It is a observation which I have observed personally and with others known to me too that when they feel for a long time and get the thought whether something which they want to go right, will it go right? Many times it has gone wrong and horribly wrong. I leaves with a sense of helplessness as that is the only word which I find can be used to describe that. It leaves scars in our mind and will continue to haunt us long after the event has taken place.

Yes it happens. It depends on ones coping mechanism and acceptance levels. One even gets this thought Why does this happen to me? There are only clear questions and more questions but no proper solutions or answers. It is better we leave that thing at that and focus on something worth thinking and can think and get solutions for it with time. But it is a bad situation going through it. It continues for days and months. Thanks for the share.

True. You become what you want to become. If you think some bad experience will come it may occur. That is why it is suggested we should always think positive. Perception is what makes us all. good day.

The word speculation is totally a misgiving. What should we speculate or why should we speculate, when this has got no specific path or direction to follow.
I work throughout the day. I know I will be paid Rs.300 per hour for my work. After the completion of the day, I am sure to get Rs.2,400/- (for eight hrs of my work). How can I speculate on that? Why should I speculate on that?
Speculation leads us towards ruination and makes us greedy which we are not eligible for.
Similarly, there will be some deduction of Rs.800/- per month from my salary. At that rate, there will be an amount of Rs.9,600 in my Govt., account. There is no place for speculation in that.Speculating something which we do not know makes us DAY DREAMING on everything and everybody knows pretty well the value and significance of life spent upon DAY DREAMING.

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Very well, very fitting for couples who started a relationship up to the time that both are “retirees!” ha ha ha! I can relate to this! But the success of a relationship really depends on the couple; they should remain loyal to each other through the odds of life. Usually when we are old enough, it is just respect for each other that prevails, which could also be considered as “love” for each other; whichever way it is, it should be, for the relationship to last forever!

i have always been very thankful that despite the fights i had with my husband we grow stronger together. we both understand each other’s needs as time passes and now we are being tested by distance…

After a lot of reading and encountering many serious situations, I have decided not to have any strong and loving relationship. The more I observe and examine the more serious they turn out to be. We get depression and even insomnia. I allow it to continue as it is. Just enjoying nature, moving to a restaurant together, going side by side holding hands together, some respect for each other, some objections, some quarrels, agreements and disagreements etc.,

I love this article. Thank you for writing and sharing it with. As a young person, marriage is a hard subject because there are so few great examples out there. We see marriage as an unhappy union, something to make other people happy rather than the couple themselves. It is an expensive endeavor, for if it does not coast a lot then apparently the love is not real.
So you points have struck a cord with me as deep down i believe these points.