The bottom line is what you think and not what other people think. That’s why it is very important for someone to have wisdom, because that is what is going to direct your footsteps in everything you do. We all have a mind of our own, when someone tells you something, do you just go ahead and do whatever they tell you to do? I guess not. If you know what is right then you will think about what you are told and weigh your options. You will then decide whether to take it in or not. In life there are many advicers people will tell you all sorts of things but it will be up to you to make a decision or a choice. Because not everyone who advices you has a good motive towards your life. Others may give you advice that will ruin you instead of building you up so people really need to be careful with the people they are dealing with on a daily basis.

we have instances where in History people are not given adequate importance as along as they are alive but they get fame after their demise.

Considering 6 as 9 is a human nature to think of something negative of a positive thing and worrying about it all day. This affects our performance also.
Let us hope today will be a fine day for all of us.

@Mahesh, Very nice blog, so realistic, and it did happen to me having unemployed ex and it turned me off because every time we dined, it was my money spent for the payment of the foods.Then I told him if he can find a job considering that he was a graduate of an economics course in a university.He said that he cannot find a job I said how come you have a degree.So to make the story short, I made a final decision to break our relationship.It turned me off having a boyfriend like a leech. He cried but his tears cannot convince me.I said enough is enough, Thanks for letting me recall my ex and bad feelings for him being jobless through this blog.

Saying no is a weakness to so many people. You will find people having a hard time telling someone no for fear of being rejected or being told off, but the thing is rejection doesn’t mean that you cannot move on. I remember i used to be that type of a person who saying no was not in my vocabulary most of the time. I always used to feel like I am being too hard on soneone , but as days went by I learnt that saying no is not a bad thing it’s just part of life. When I got a job I always wanted to be told things clearly so that I will not crash with anyone or have misunderstandings. B3cause whenever a misunderstanding came about people would obviously take advantage of others. It’s at such times I would stand my ground and say no to certain things, otherwise I would end up doing someone else’s job because I fear saying no. In some instances you may find your siblings or even friends expecting you to do for them favors even when you can’t, and when you don’t do them they start criticizing you. It’s okay for them to critize just remember that you are human and on the right to say no it’s only natural.

you did a good thing. Something if not useful for us let it be shared and become more useful for others. I liked it. I appreciate your outlook towards life. Don’t if no one likes you. The world is wide and big enough to provide a 6′ of space. Isn’t it?

That’s nice! Taking every opportunity to earn instead of wasting time. Some of us are just here for the love of writing, and earning at the same time is a bonus. Finding writing sites where one can earn is a good thing. Thanks for sharing these. So you are also Cmoneyspinner in other writing sites? Good to know about it.

I dislike such people. I cannot stand them really, they can really annoy you. I have encountered such people who will always want to say things that will provoke you to say something. The best way to deal with such people is silence or ignoring them. I guess what you did was the best way to deal with that lady. Though I must say you regard her with so much contempt as much as she got you mad how can you say that she wasn’t so pleasing. Anyway you alone know how she looked and how she reacted.

Lots of people tout the benefits of sharing your blog post links via Quora but I’m not very active at Quora. If it works it works. But on the rare occasions when I do pop in at Quora, I’m usually looking for information and not providing answers. 🙂 That’s been my experience. I have actually used the Quora blogging platform. It’s OK but doesn’t suit my purposes.

This is happening with every country and everywhere nowadays. The media can give a twist and make relentless efforts to make you believe what they want. This practically did not occur during the recent U.S Presidential elections as most of the U.S citizen were in favor of Mr. Trump than Mrs. Clinton. The media tried heavily to criticize, demoralize, and unpopular Mr. Trump. But, it could not get success and finally, the people got what they want and Mr. Trump could swear in as the President of U.S.

Hmmm the media has become a force to recond with. They seems to become misinformed group of people who do not appreciate the truth and fact anymore as that do not sell as much as falsehood and lies. They have become laws unto themselves as they fed the general public with false information which will excite people and paint others bad or black as they say it. I don’t listern to the media any more in my country because they have all become progovernment press who sees nothing wrong with government policy. Let watch them carefully.

Maybe he just wrote the name of Mr. Big Shot, because he thinks you will not verify if indeed he is recommending the applicant.

That is why, when we are applying, we should see to it that we put a reference who knows you well because you were once in his employment. Besides, see to it that you have a good track of work records so the recommender will also give good reviews.

Never just write a big shot, when the big shot doesn’t even know that you have written his name for reference. It’s discourteous to do that.

If you are a grown up, you have your own mind to make good decisions but most of us would rather go with what we are told. The thing is if the guy asked for a recommendation from the other guy, it’s obvious that he asked him if he would use him as his recommenderecommender, why then would someone write you such a bad recommendation letter? If you knew that the person was not qualified you should have told them from the beginning. But tarnishing the name of the candidate is not a good thing. That’s why it’s always good to ask questions before you get favors from people or even close friends .

There are times when we come across people who will be an influence of negative behavior and if we are not careful, we will probably be misled. You are responsible for your own actions, so when you involve yourself around negativity, then most likely,you will become negative. It important for us to determine that you should not blame others for your actions.

Being misled is tricky. In some sense, you can be misled by being lied to. That is one reason why a person can be misled. It is wrong for someone to lie for personal gain. If you are a strong willed person with any kind of intelligence, you will not allow anyone or anything to become a negative influence. You should always push for positive influences. A person can also mislead themselves, another person does not have to be the one to mislead you.