@Mahesh, Very nice blog, so realistic, and it did happen to me having unemployed ex and it turned me off because every time we dined, it was my money spent for the payment of the foods.Then I told him if he can find a job considering that he was a graduate of an economics course in a university.He said that he cannot find a job I said how come you have a degree.So to make the story short, I made a final decision to break our relationship.It turned me off having a boyfriend like a leech. He cried but his tears cannot convince me.I said enough is enough, Thanks for letting me recall my ex and bad feelings for him being jobless through this blog.

Saying no is a weakness to so many people. You will find people having a hard time telling someone no for fear of being rejected or being told off, but the thing is rejection doesn’t mean that you cannot move on. I remember i used to be that type of a person who saying no was not in my vocabulary most of the time. I always used to feel like I am being too hard on soneone , but as days went by I learnt that saying no is not a bad thing it’s just part of life. When I got a job I always wanted to be told things clearly so that I will not crash with anyone or have misunderstandings. B3cause whenever a misunderstanding came about people would obviously take advantage of others. It’s at such times I would stand my ground and say no to certain things, otherwise I would end up doing someone else’s job because I fear saying no. In some instances you may find your siblings or even friends expecting you to do for them favors even when you can’t, and when you don’t do them they start criticizing you. It’s okay for them to critize just remember that you are human and on the right to say no it’s only natural.

you did a good thing. Something if not useful for us let it be shared and become more useful for others. I liked it. I appreciate your outlook towards life. Don’t if no one likes you. The world is wide and big enough to provide a 6′ of space. Isn’t it?

That’s nice! Taking every opportunity to earn instead of wasting time. Some of us are just here for the love of writing, and earning at the same time is a bonus. Finding writing sites where one can earn is a good thing. Thanks for sharing these. So you are also Cmoneyspinner in other writing sites? Good to know about it.

Traffic was not that congested at that time, unlike today, one can not do it. Your father was a good husband, because he loves your Mom’s cooking and he took the time to have lunch with her at home; and you too!

That was a very nice togetherness with your dad. I am so sure your heart was bleeding in sadness when he died.It is not easy to lost someone dear to us especially our parents.I hope your mom is still alive this time and still enjoying her cook.Thanks for this nice post.

That is good story and all of us do that, for me my work si 30 minuts if no crowd and really i hate everyday or amost every day to go to my job, but what to do, we need to work for ourselves for the family for the community for many reasons, but only if the work is near by it would be better, the crowd is another thing, oh my God and the traffic is so bad when its summer and the ac is not working
But in some places its not the crowd that is the issue wince it becom somthign that you are used to with the time wnd with daily usage, but the issue is the stupid drivers who rush you and they run to the road or those who do it slow way things i can never understand and make me so angry from them, they should have their own way and they think as if the king fo the raods.
thanks for sharing the story

It was interesting to read your post regarding your dad’s practice of going home for lunch from bank. True it is good to have food in one’s own home. good day

If my working place is not away from my home, I would prefer to go home during lunch time to eat together with my wife. I have the same feeling with your dad. I do appreciate the foods cooked by my wife. I would love to see her on how busy she is. My presence is more than enough to relieve her of her chores.

Eating together is one of the important moments I always cherish to do especially not only with my wife but also with my 6 children. I am happy to see them eating together in one table, talking, joking and whatever they do. We have a strong family ties because of that and also we believe that family could be together forever.

Every year especially during new year’s day, we spend our quality time with our family in going outing especially to the beach. Our family bonding is indeed strengthened. We want to build the true spirit of family that prays together, stays together or even forever.

Anyway, in this kind of attitude a dad has shown has edified the saying, “there is no place like home.” I believe that.

Lots of people tout the benefits of sharing your blog post links via Quora but I’m not very active at Quora. If it works it works. But on the rare occasions when I do pop in at Quora, I’m usually looking for information and not providing answers. 🙂 That’s been my experience. I have actually used the Quora blogging platform. It’s OK but doesn’t suit my purposes.