SUSMITHA CS
@susmithaanoop active 8 years, 3 months ago-
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Trust no one, especially friends even best friend because sometimes, best friend can be your beast friend. They know everything about you, and even your darkest secret so you must be careful in sharing them.
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I had a best friend we were friends for years. She turned out to be my worst enemie.she would go behind my back and do so many things even involving with my boyfriend. It’s like because she knew everything it was easier for her to go behind my back and get over on me. But I grew to learn her and I had to let her go. I don’t have time for people like that in my life.
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My partner in New Zealand is a happy loner. He prefers to be alone with his pet cat now.He has a son and is separated from his dad.But what I noticed that there is always association of word blue in his emails, Skype, Facebook, plus, his clothes ,brief, Polo-shirt, t-shirt, pajamas, pants, jogging pants, all in blue. I wonder why he likes but. I never dare to ask him why , but all I know is , he is happy to be alone.In fact, he changed his mind from being marriageable to non-marriageable. That made me sick when he told me that he changed his mind to remain a non-marrying type.I think those who like to live alone pretend to be happy when actually not happy. Man is a social being and he needs someone to talk to. Having gadgets and other things never equal the happiness felt when there is human to be along with, to be happy with and to share some thoughts, problems and heartaches.
All I can say is, I can never live alone. I will be lonely of alone living in a house. I need someone to be with. It is not enough to just watch TV and do on line activities, so weird, but I cannot blame those whose preference is to live alone. They are loners and I believe they are cowards to face challenges of life just like my foreigner partner.
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If an individual chooses to be alone even though they may have opportunities to have people in their life then surely they are a happy lo9t. To each their own. We cannot judge anyone and call them cowards.
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Living alone is an art This is the real meaning of life. Living alone is a challenge. One who overcomes it can take up any kind of challenge and achieve it with a great ease and comfort
Yes, I agree with you that there are many who are living alone and are happy. Living alone is not a sin. If we say that man is a social animal and he needs some company in life it does not mean that he should be in the company of somebody who will be hammering around him and picks up quarrel with him It is better not to have such company
In general, most of the people will have a company But, if by chance if one had to live alone he should equip himself to face the situation There are many things available nowadays. We can make a life quite meaningful living alone
One can do yoga, one can visit ground and watch the games, one can spend time watching T.V. Meditation is another way of spending time which gives good opportunity to realize the things in life Attending foreign languages class is another way of spending time nicely There we will have different types of people we can interact with. Spending time with like-minded people on Fb and other social media sites is also a good way of spending time lonely. There are many ways. One need not worry if one has to live alone-
Not many are blessed with company that is compatible or shares interests. In today’s world as you have pointed out there is so much one can keep happily occupied with .
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Oohh The joy of christmas, who doesn’t like the sound of carols. If anything carols are what get me into the Christmas mood when I hear a song in radio that imemediately stirs me up to start looking for my old cassettes that played Christmas carols because those songs from way back are the original thing so it brings out Christmas in a more natural way than what we hear nowadays. Its true that nowadays Christmas stats early some people even start it as early as the last week of November in preparation for the festive season. The only bad thing about this early celebration is true fact that when the actual day comes people are bored already so the day usually just comes and passed by nothing much is done.
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December 1 is the day when I start playing and yes by the time Dec 25 arrives they lose their charm (lol)
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What you have said here is universal. That change of scene is felt everywhere. But I keep to the old traditions and quite enjoy being that way.
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Thanks for posting. Reshared to my foodie blog.
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If you like coconut and jaggery this is a great snack. You must be having an interesting food blog. How is it faring?
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To date, my Food Ways blog shows 30 published posts. I used the Blogspot platform. Just recently set up a foodie blog on Tumblr for more sharing of more food-related stuff. That’s where I shared your post. Well I don’t know if other people like the blogs but I like them! There is always the goal of successful monetization. However, if I were to draw on my past experiences there are only 4 possible outcomes for my blogging adventures: (1) the blog will be deleted by the site owners, (2) the blog will be allowed by the owners but won’t get any traffic, (3) the blog will be allowed by the owners and might actually get subscribers and followers, and (4) I’ll die and my surviving family members will delete all of my online activity OR let it stay online but ignore it. They ignore what I do now anyway! ๐ ๐ You’re sweet. Thanks for asking. ๐
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I like your logic about what could possibly happen to your blog. I hope your point No.3 is what will happen to your blog. I too have a couple of them there but I also know hardly anyone in the family would be interested in retaining them when I kick the bucket going by their lack of interest in knowing what I do when I am living (lol)
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LOL. I enjoy talking to you. ๐
It’s the strangest thing but when my mother passed away, my brother was going through some of her things and found her handwritten notes. It was a collection of quotes she had written down over the years. They revealed something about her character and nature that even her children didn’t know. He read some of the quotes at her funeral service.
Comparison? The thing is โฆ I don’t think my own children really know me that well. Also, I have grandchildren and a great grandson. One grandchild I see regularly. But as for the others, circumstances keep us apart and so we don’t really know each other. Perhaps they might find my writings online and read them to learn a little something about me. Who knows? Maybe my work might connect us in some way. It might guide their steps if they need advice, or encourage them or cheer them up, if they feel down.
That’s my hope. It’s a prayer. ๐
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I think there is some truth in your saying. Once the conifer branch is cut and after a day it becomes a dead wood But, it is coming as a tradition. Bringing the entire family under a tree is a great idea It is this idea that has to be viewed with appreciation. A sense of togetherness is involved in decorating the Christmas tree. No doubt the tree will be decorated with many other items also. But, one has to honor and appreciate the interest shown in decorating the tree
Even in the Hindu religion, there is a similar tradition. Here the people worship an AMLA tree during KARTIKA MASAM
They actually have to worship the Amla tree lighting a lamp under it. All relatives are invited and they dine as a group sitting under a tree
During Kartika Poornima, it will be followed very meticulously. They name it VANABHOJAN.
But, in cities, it is possible to perform such activity.
So, most of the people purchase a branch of Amla Tree and place it in the prayer hall. They light a lamp under it. They arrange all food items under it. Sit around it and dine along with all the invited guests. After the ritual the branch has little value and it will be thrown out.-
Christmas tree has no religious significance but it is more a tradition.
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Christmas is one of the most important religious ceremony on earth because it reminds all of us Jesus Christ’s arrival and departure from this fickle world. In modern age every religious ceremony has become the part of old tradition and lost its religious spirit due to our materialistic thoughts.
We must ponder over the importance of Christmas Tree reveals the mysterious death of Jesus Christmas. I think all religious festivals must be made with full pomp and show to make alive the dead spirit of religion all over the world.
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Christmas is the day to celebrate the birth of Christ and I am not sure if the tree has anything to do with religion per se.
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Christmas Tree is part of Christmas celebration, Since the birth Jesus Christ is wonderful in which the wise men came to worship Jesus Christ as the savior of the world.Jesus was being honor by these people. I think by raising Christmas trees, we are honoring the birth of our Lord Jesus Chris.
He came to die for us, the raising of this Christmas tree is more than tradition -
I totally agree with you..I enjoy this time of the year. It seems like no matter how bad your years been Christmas always puts joy in everyone’s heart and puts a smile on there face and best of all brings the family together. Don’t you just love it!!!
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Sorry to hear about your father but I am sure he will be happy if you continued the tradition. And as for relatives that drift is felt the world over.
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It is time to thank God through our Lord Jesus Christ who had accepted to died for our sin and rose again on the third day, so raising the Christmas tree because we are celebrate the the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ is worthy to be doing.
Any living soul who know the important of Christ’s coming to this world will raise Christmas tree for Him-
@timothy I understand and believe Jesus was sent here to die for my sins. You mention Christmas tree for Him being born. Wouldn’t a Christmas tree be better suited for Easter in your line of reasoning as it would signify the wood of the cross that He dies on for our sins? I do have a Christmas tree put up and do it for the Christmas spirit. But am trying to understand your argument
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A thought has just crossed my mind why do people put up Christmas trees and decorate them? I know I am one of those people because it was a family tradition during Christmas to cut a tree and get it into the house then decorate it with all sorts of ornaments. Come to think of it we never really use to think about thedudus or aunts for those who may not understand dudus. I remember my brothers going around theestate looking out for a nice tree that they would cut down and bring to the house regardless of whether they had ants or not. Anyway at least I can say that we never had any issues with the ants they were clean trees. Once the tree was in the housewe would go out of our way to decorate it with lights and cotton wool to bring out the feeling of snow, the little balls and the star on the top of the tree. Back in the days having a Christmas tree was a big deal so if you didn’t have that would make you feel like Christmas will not be nice. So it was like a mandatory thing back in the days. Nowadays this things are not so much in people’s minds.
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Here the Christmas Tree fever is still on but mostly they are artificial as confers do not grow here.
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Christmas is one of the major religious gala of the followers of Jesus Christ but people clever priests has turned it into mere a tradition and thus Muslim Eid, Hindus’ religious festival and Christian’s Christmas all have lost it religious spirit in broader sense. Hollow hearts are making religious festival all over the world that is why moral sins are prevailing on earth all over the world.
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There is one good thing that Christmas is responsible for and that it brings together friends and family
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It would be a great idea to spare some time and to have the company of these little souls. These souls just need our attention.
Spending some time with them will surely mitigate their sufferings and sorrows.
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I threw a Christmas party for them. We danced with them, played games with them and ate with them.
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This is really touching. I love hearing about how others care. And it’s good to show this special kids that there just as special as anyone else. Yeah they may seem different but at the same time they still have a heart like we do. And it truly touches my heart to see others caring for the special needs.they should receive the same attention and respect as we do. If anything we should show kids like this just a lil more attention. Care for them in everyway we can. Don’t treat them different because their different. They still deserve a chance in life. It’s okay to hug them show them love they need it more than we do…Most important their still humans and we as people should never forget that.
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The one who knows you are your enemy, and that’s true. Why? because they know every detailed about you. They know your secret, they know your strength and the worst thing is they even know your weakness. They even exactly know when or know how to attack you. Enemies are like snakes, they get closer and closer to you until they set their right timing. And there he goes…. backstabbed you.
It was ages ago when I was in highschool. Very bad person indeed.
Definitely the one who knows you can become your worst enemy. I went through this with my ex. Never in a million years would I thought he would turn on me and use my personal information against me. Left me completely heartbroken and betrayed
I’ve always felt your worst enemies were the ones who know you, they have more info to hang over your head. They could ruin your life if they wanted to. It always seems to be family that gets over on you more. It’s like they feel just cause your family that they can get away with more. Be careful with what you let others know, family or not.
Apparently it is true that the person you call friend of the person you think is close to you is your worst enemy how I do ironical. Just like we can say about the tongue it can curse and bless, then we can also say that spite is the most toxic thing in your body. That’s what scientists say that you saliva can kill or heal you. So it’s quite unfortunate that out friends are out worst enemies. Someone would pretend to be your friend just to betray you in the most unexpected way. So even when we make friends we need to be very careful when we get close to them. There are things that we can share with them and there are those things we just need to keep to ourselves for our own good sake.
Truly, you’re bestfriend is your best foe. I also have this kind of friend in my childhood. We were very close then and have so much something in common like our favorite childhood anime that were going crazy about in our younger years. What i noticed to her is that she always flaunt the things she have and everything she does just to get attention even her so called rich friend in school that they were hanging around and have good time most of the time something like that just to brag. She’s not even pretty at all but when you look at her she has this over powering confidence in herself like as if she was a big catch but unfortunately she has more thights than brain. In my early teens ive always wondering why she was playing cupid and looking for someone to hook me up for unknown reason not even noticing her real motive to destroy me in the eyes of people without knowing it ill be surprise then when someone will told me about the things she said spreading nasty humors against me. Then, i came to realize how hypocrite she was. You see, you will know a person in her true colors if you’re going to keep an eye on her and all the unlawful thing she was doing behind my back. Snakes are every where. You should be watchful on the people you’re dealing with for some will not be a friend on you but your worst enemy that will bit you on your back if you lose your guard. In this world which full of strangers, never trust anyone. Don’t ever share your secret with anybody. Keep it with yourself. THATS THE RULE. For many will trying to put you down and degrade yourself respect.
Truly, you’re bestfriend is your best foe. I also have this kind of friend in my childhood. We were very close then and have so much something in common like our favorite childhood anime that were going crazy about in our younger years. What i noticed to her is that she always flaunt the things she have and everything she does just to get attention even her so called rich friend in school that they were hanging around and have a good time most of the time something like that just to brag. She’s not even pretty at all but when you look at her she has this over powering confidence in herself like as if she was a big catch but unfortunately she has more thights than brain. In my early teens ive always wondering why she was playing cupid and looking for someone to hook me up with me for unknown reason not even noticing her real motive to destroy me in the eyes of people without knowing it ill be surprise then when someone will told me about the things she said spreading nasty humors against me. Then, i came to realize how hypocrite she was. You see, you will know a person in her true colors if you’re going to keep an eye on her and all the unlawful thing she was doing behind my back. Snakes are every where. You should be watchful on the people you’re dealing with for some will not be a friend on you but your worst enemy that will bit you on your back if you lose your guard. In this world which full of strangers, never trust anyone. Don’t ever share your secret with anybody. Keep it with yourself. THATS THE RULE. For many will trying to put you down and degrade yourself respect.
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