Suren Paris Prince
@surendrangunasegaran active 6 years, 8 months ago-
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I can feel you on this. As you can observe, what is said in the bible to be a sin is now being done by other people such as that one. Because it has been open now about same sex relationship, it seems that it is now accepted as not a sin anymore.
It is so sad, that in this modern age, the nice teachings in the bible are now being disregarded.
Even leaders of some countries already have permitted it. Though, it is so admirable that here in our country, Philippines , there are more believers in the bible than those who disregard the said teachings in the bible.
The leaders should have been who is being followed , not the leaders conforming to what is being practiced by a few and make it as something that is normal.
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I have a counter question: what would you do as a leader whether you will agree to popular public demand or allow them to do what is right for them? But then who will decide what is right or what is wrong and here begins the problem.
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Hi suny,
In the Holy Scriptures or Holy Bible more particularly in the Old Testament (Genesis Chapter 19), the story of Sodom and Gomorrah is a classic example of sexual immorality where male don’t want to have sexual intercourse with female anymore but what’s happening in that story was that male wants to have sex with male (homosexuality and homosexual practices) and female wants to have sexual intercourse with female (lesbianism and lesbian sexual practices) and such immorality and wickedness is such that God had destroyed such place through fires and brimstones.
In our modern times it seems that the values of societies are changing on how we view homosexuality and lesbianism as such. There is the so-called LGBT (lesbian,gay,bi-sexual, transgender) Community which are now constantly fighting for equality and attention in our modern society.
Consider the legalization in America and other countries of the so-called “same-sex” marriages. This is quite revolutionary for it has a dramatic impact on how we traditionally view marriage as a special contract between a man and a woman only.
Such legalization of the so-called same sex marriages has a far-reaching effect and implication on the family and society in the long run.
With this kind of development there is already an erosion of the male and female traditional role which ideally the younger generation could emulate for good.
I have nothing against any member of the LGBT Community.
It’s not my business to interfere with their personal sexual preferences, but my primary concern is the marriage and the family itself as we use to know it.
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I agree with both of you, I agree it’s none of business or be judgmental but I have written what I felt is right for society as whole.
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Husband and wife should understand each other all the time; if they have different careers, they should allot time for the family together especially on weekends. If the wife stays at home and do home chores, the husband should understand and appreciate her efforts. She should have weekend off with the husband; and the husband should also help in some home chores when he is on day-off.
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Agree with what has been stated by you above in your responses to the article. Many a time I find the communication lacking between couples whom I meet and I feel this should not be happening. They should take time out of their busy days to see that they do spend at least some amount of quality time together. Come to think of if if people get married and do not find time for their partner that is not a good thing at the end of the day.
I have also observed some couple tend to have more children say around three and above and they get very little time for each other as they have to tend to more number of children even if both of them are putting effort collectively to see that things are going smooth. It does turnout to be a rough ride sometimes as there are too many mouths to feed and the number of hands are less. Weekends are a time when both should get the required rest to see that they are ready for the coming week. Whether it be good or bad times sticking together as a unit is the most important thing. That is the key to success in a marriage.
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The whole problem arises due to the improper attention by the parents. There are mainly 2 reasons for this problem to take place;
1. sexual thirst 2. Social stigma to take the responsibility 3. Financial problem
The factor No.3 in most of the cases is very much less as no parents irrespective of their financial condition will always try to feed their offsprings at any cost, doing whatever job it may be. As far as the reasons 1 and 2 are concerned they both are interrelated. Sometimes, the newborn is thrown into a dustbin with a fear of social stigma.Most of the cases fall into this category.
Another reason is father or mother getting into a remarriage after divorce or in the event of death of another. This makes children being subjected to torture and force them leave their homes to lead a life full of freedom. Most of these children can be found near garbage centers where they will be selling the collectibles of the day. They earn and eat. The Government Department tries in most of the cases to give them a good life with the support of NGOs. This is a great Job. They are doing it. But, still there is some need to do it with the active support of NGOs and especially with the support of the Public.-
When it comes to factor number two as has been mentioned the number of cases see a sharp spike. That act of dumping the child in the dustbin and the other one of torture where the child is unable to bear the same any further and hence sees running away as the only solution. Many lives have been wasted this way as the whole life these poor children end up suffering for no fault of their’s and the protection which they are supposed in the formative years is also missing which also affects their psyche.
They are badly hurt and shaken and are unable to express what they are going through and there is no one to hear them too that confounds the situation which they are in. I only hope things in our country will improve with more accountability by the families as that is where the children come from. If stringent punishments are meted out to those troubling such children then chances of thing improving is possible to a large extent.
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