True staying rooted in the present is the ideal situation taking each day at a time and making the best out of it. The analogy of the football and goalkeeper is aggressive but can work wonders as one cannot sit idle mulling if a plan fails. Instead if the individual devises a new counter strategy to effect a change in the situation and keeps…[Read more]

In my view changing the course of action instead of brooding over the past is the best way of achieving success.

It should be like taking the football to the opponent’s side every time changing the strategy and the direction without any disappointment if once it is stopped by the Goalkeeper. Every time, the Goalkeeper of the opposite time may…[Read more]

Thank you for expressing your point of you in a very direct way. Yes even I have seen many families going through such situations and that continues till years. I fully agree with you when these husbands should just mind their business when they are in no position to do anything and the poor lady has to slog and do everything from A to Z  they…[Read more]

Treat a woman like fellow human being. Generally, a wife enters your house expecting some hope and support from you. If you deny them, she will go shattered and the trouble starts and may go to any extent. Of course, no lady is timid nowadays to bear with tauntings of the husband. There are still some ladies who are docile and degrade themselves…[Read more]

@acelawrites

Happy to hear from you and feels good to know that people nowadays treat women the way they should be treated with respect. But there are many places in the world where woman are discriminated for different reasons. Like in the case of salary, facilities which are not gender neutral in many countries especially in the private sector,…[Read more]

@PEEUSH TRIKHA

Totally agree with your view regarding maintaining distance out of respect especially with people who are not related to us or those whom we know very little about or strangers. We should see that they do not feel uncomfortable with our presence due to ego, attitude or any sort of domination as mentioned by you even in the case of…[Read more]

@Mahesh

Appreciate your response for the above topic. Yes I do agree that it is better to take one step at a time especially when we are going to try something new. For this we definitely have to compromise and move out of our comfort zone cocoons which we would have built over a long period of time which is nothing but a state of mental barrier…[Read more]

Peeush, thank you very much for your recommendations. It seems you like thrillers. All the tree books you have recommended are in that category.

I think you will like Dan Brown books as well. If you have not read yet then you can read Angels and Demons, The Vinchi Code, Inferno and all.

Well I can talk about a lot of books, but will restrict to a few only:

1)The current one I am reading is “The Sigma protocol” by Robert Ludlum- it is a mystery thriller involving spies and some cunning international Business syndicates who can go to any extent to protect a secret, which if revealed can cause upheavel in many countries.

2)Naked…[Read more]

Happy Women’s Day. You are right when you elaborated some of the rights of women and how people should regard them as human beings with rights and feelings. I am happy because so many people now appreciate and treat women the way they should be.

I think the best way is to respect women, and maintain a distance, especially those who are not our mother, wife or sister.
Even with mother, wife or sister, we need to regard their feelings and not be aggressive or dominating with them.

What I found is that we have to take small risks. We have to take one step at a time. You can do this by coming out of your comfort zone. You have to get out of your comfort zone one task at a time. I think some of the time you have to focus on things you can do to motivate and challenge yourself. But it all comes down to where you stand. You…[Read more]

Thank you @arnoldcruz for your recommendation. I will surely read this book if I get time. By the way, there is a movie in the same name, is that adaptation of the same book?