There are indeed insensitive people. I now fully agree that there are so many of them like those people mentioned here I helped got employment, useless being. I hope they would not stumble on the rugged ground so they will surely see my face to beg for another help which i would rather say to them, enough is enough. You are not human enough to be given trust and consideration.

I think that is becoming so normal with people like we are. Just like when a person is trying to loan some money from you. YOu are the most important person to them because they want something from you. But when the time you need the money and ask for their payment, that’s the time you will become their worst enemies.

I think the best thing for us to do is just forget what we have done to them. Anyway, its our deeds that make us to become human and not them. We helped them, that’s it. They don’t remember what we did for them, its okay, at least in heaven that will be remember.

Though the Bible said that we should not expect favors or anything in return for our good deeds, we are but human not to feel so disgusted and sorry for helping them in times of need. You are right, ignore them and someday they might realise the wrong they had done to you!

The old lady is better. She deserves your help.

So you learned your lesson now in who to help.

The two ones are ingrates. They didn’t even remember to give you something when they first received their salaries from the university where you referred them.

Wow, imagine the other one is a relative and yet she didn’t invite you on her wedding day.

And the other one, did not even thank you once he was taken in.

So you see, it is better to help people of no relation at all to you especially the old woman. So nice of her to always give you a gift on your birthdays. But how did she know your birth date, by the way?

@Dina, you are right friend, but God might have used me as the instrument for these insensitive people to survive.There are really humans like them. If only someone has helped me, rest assured, that person can say he or she never regret in helping me. But these two persons, do not have intestines hahaha. They will never be rich for God won’t allow them to be this for they are like Judas.

What happens, after these experiences, is that you step back. You don’t recommend anyone, you keep your mouth shut. I have been luckier than you. When I think about helping someone they often do the most horrendous things so that I can only give thanks that I didn’t say anything.