December 30, 2016 at 12:48 am

Living alone cely is the best gift that you could ever have. Thete are people who live with either their families, or with relatives or friends and are not happy. Yes i would love to have my damily with me at all times but the truth is they won’t be with you forever. There eill co.e a time when you will so want to be alone and independent. Tgete are certain things that happen when you are alone that cannot happen whdn you are with family. One thing is for sure you becomd independent, yoh learn how yo make decisions on your own, responsibility comes on its own, you gain control of your life, and so kn and so forth. And the best thing is that you have privacy and freedom thats very important for an adult. For example me i.like veing alond because i am able to do my stuff without getting distracted, i cook what i want and whenever i want thete are no limits and riles to follow. I can watch whatever programmes i wantvat least there is no one there to tell me to watch something that i don’t want to. I am absolutly free i am not answerable to anyone, i dont have to report to anyone or adk for permission to ho out, its such a good feeling to stay alone sometimes not all thd time. There are times when of course you will need someone by your side for a shoulder yo lean on, or someone just yo talk to thats a given. Otherwise i eould advocate for someine to live alone for some time before they sttld down its a nice place to be. You will appreciate it some day.

December 30, 2016 at 12:30 am

Come to think of it, we are also experiencing some high temperatures in our country right now. It is very hot and the weather broadcasters sag that ut is going to remain hot with no rains until the month of April. Now this spells trouble for us because there’s gonna be drought and then there will be scarcity of some foods. Before we know it food prices will have escallated. Hot weather sometimes is good and sometimes it brings worries more often than joy. When its too much so many things go haywire. Right now we are experiencing water rationing because the dam that supplies water to different parts of the country, is running at very low levels which is dangerous. The coyntry could end up in problems if there was no water completely. That same water is the one that provides electricity as well. So we just pray that the levels in the dam would rise to avoid certain problems from croppunf up. Blackouts are not really a major issue in our country and we thank God for that. There are alternatives that people can use and atill survive unlike in th3 states where everything is about electricity.

December 30, 2016 at 12:18 am

I love the dog picture its awesome. I can see that you are pressing on to your goal this month looks like you have totally put on your thinking caos and are ready to go. Well as for me i have just started another round and i am hooing that i will be able to reach my goal in february though i cannot say much about it. Reaching payout in one month here a real big challenge for me. I thought i could make it but it seems so tiresome. You jave to ne really dedicated to get there. I guess you are way ahead of so many participants we shall get there some day, but for now its all about taking little steps and moving forward.

December 25, 2016 at 10:52 am

These eating disorders where did they originate from i wonder. I have never had an eating disorder before, maybe depression. I also remember a time when i was so frustrated with life, i didn’t like what was going on in my life. I was always anniyed with someone i always felt down nithing made sense to me at all. So with that came the idea of not eating i had no appetite, food was not really my favorite thing at the time, but never once did i want or have the feeling of throwing up. Mine was just the depressing mood that made me not eat. Its a really bad feeling but i soon got iver it and i have learned that getting myself worried over stuff that i cannot change doesn’t add a day to my life.

December 25, 2016 at 10:39 am

I have read your post i know you mean well and all, but when you say that men should not drool over other women we all know that men cannot control themselves especially when they see a beautiful woman. Telling a man not to look at that woman is like setting food before him and asking him nit to touch it. How now. Thats a tital waste of time if i may say. Someone just needs to be disciplined enough to di what is right, your not a child to be told nit to do that or not to touch that yoy know better so do what is right. And then another thing is you say a man should not seat down with another womans wife, what if they work together and are working on a project, or maybe they are in a committee that needs them both there, what if one of them wabts to plan a surprise for their partner and they feel that the only person who can bring out the surprise is this man or woman friend of his, or maybe its a doctor and a patient discussing about an ailment can’t they sit down together? Am just thinking of difgerent scenarios here so some things are better left unsaid. The only thing that comes out of this us that peiple need to be cateful when they are around each other an let everyone uphold his or her morals. Then of course respect everyone in your circle and all shall be well. Have a lovely Christmas elom

December 25, 2016 at 10:24 am

These is quite interesting cely. Okay for me its wuite a dufferent story i dont dream most of the times. Usially when i go to bed i end up sleeping the moment i cover myself up. Wakjng up in the middle of the night is usually unusual for me. Anyway of late like 4 days ago i notice that i have been waking up around 3.30am and this they say thats the time the devil is at work and thats when wickedness is taking place. I don’t know if you have ever experienced this when robbers break people’s homes they normally do it around that time when they know people are asleep. And if you are a born again christian we are told that thats the time the devil wants to attack God’s people, its a time when people are deep in their sleep, and waking up to pray is so hard, so easier to be attacked . Anyway i live potatoes especially french fries i can have them literally everyday and not get bored. I find it easier to cook them at home myself that’s why i eat them regularly. Maybe that’s the reason i don’t get nightmares or bad dreams. Come to think of it i haven’t eaten fries for like 3 days or so maybe thats why i keep waking up at 3am. Thanks cely for the tip that’s something new for me today.

December 25, 2016 at 10:09 am

These are some really good advices there we may all have different ideas and ways to curb diabetes and we all know that it can be regulated by eating well and doing some exercises. Diabetes is a lifestyle disease i know there are those who will agree with me and those that won’t. What we eat is what we become. We see in America mostly people are obese why because of the food that they eat, they dont regulate thei intake of sugars, neither do they eat food that is rich in vitamins or tey don’t consume vegetables as it should be and that makes them prone to developing diabetes. If we can take more care of our eatibg habits i think we can be able to control th3 causes of diabetes. Thanks for sharing the tips.

December 25, 2016 at 9:57 am

This is quite sad am sorry for your mother being sick, but you’ve got to be strong for her because of she sees you sad then you make her recovery worse. Just be positive that she will get out of this stronger. She will be fine. The only tging you need to remind yourself is tgat she is an elderly woman and sometimes this elderly people can be very sturbbon. All they want is to do things their own way which can really get you mad. Keeo her company always be there for her keeo her vusy so that her mind doesnt wonder away and start thinking about her sickness. Don’t worry even if she won’t be home for christmas take it to her in hospital and she will be more than greatful. All the vest and may you have a blessed chriatmas. Your mun will be well don’t stress out okay relax and pray for her i wish her a quick recovery too.

December 23, 2016 at 12:28 am

Nice pictures right there cely. Christmas time is a rime to celebrate. As many people would say it is a time when nothing is controlled everybody everywhere wants to indulge and do all th3 stuff that they were nit able to do throughout the year. Now here comes th3 time when all the food you love is being laid out everywhere you go. What do you do will you just let it pass gou buy or will you dig in and enjoy. I know what most people would do they will indulge and then think about th3 damage they cause on their bodies weeks later. Like you said its good to watch what we eat during christmas time so that we don’t regret it later. Every beginning of the year you will always hear people confessing and saying how their new years resolution is to cut weight, this us because they over indulged during the festive season. So taking precaution is good at all times. For me exercise is part of me and health is something i take quite seriously i don’t let food take over me.

December 23, 2016 at 12:15 am

I guess the changes that were to happen ha e just taken place. The admin was lookibgvto change how much time they take to approve posts and rhis is something quite noble on their part to do. They have really heloed a lot of people. At least someone doesn’t have to wait for two days to have their posts approved thats nice to hear that you have had 3 posts approved in no time. At least there will be more articles to read and answer to as we mive aling. Congratulatiins on your good work admin.

December 21, 2016 at 2:30 pm

They say that when uou love someone you should let them free, if they are meant for you they will come back if not they were not meant for you. So your friend shouldn’t feel bad she will soon get over it and get on with her life. I have been there before done that and i have been sad but life has to move on regardless. I used to have a boyfriend who used to do me wrong most of the time, and all i used to do is be quiet because whenever i asked or confronted him he would always tell me lies so all i did was give him time. But a time reached when i could not take his lies anymore i walked out of the relationship and moved on. I remember when i had my current boyfriend, if we met somehow he would remind me that i left him and u would tell him it was all tour doing so deal with it. I have moved on and i am not turning back. So ask your friend to move on and forget about the guy for her own good sake.

December 21, 2016 at 1:58 pm

A good day is started when you start planning your day the previous day in the evening. And this all starts with your routine in the house. When you wake up in the morning make sure you have laid out your clothes and shoes so that you dont have to start running around looking gor what to wear. Once that is sorted you have your breakfast in peace and when your done you start your journey to work. You know what you do the first thing when you get to the office. The above guidelines are good enough to get you started to a good day. Its all about time management if you can manage that then you are doing just fine.

December 21, 2016 at 1:45 pm

Being aring is not a demand but a choice. You can choose to be caring or a dont care. But in this life that we live in we all need one another, we need to watch over each other if you have a problem to day, its more than obvious that tomorrow i may need you to help me with something. So caring should be something that comes naturally its not supposed to be forced on anyone. When you care for someone don’t do it in the thought that uou will be paid or you will be given something in return do it willingly and let God be the one to reward you for what you have done. If the person you have helped does not regard you or is not appreciative for what you have done for them, don’t sweat it yoh will get your reward from above and it will even be better than what you may have been paid by the other person. So always do good and it will come back to you double and better.

December 21, 2016 at 1:27 pm

I have never really thought about it in that way, but i tend to think that everyone has their own way of making ends meet. I think when you think about christmas we have too many people selling their wares at that partivular time to pave way for new syuff in the coming year. Given that christians love to shop for christmas thats the vest time to bring out the stuff you have as a business person to be able to sell. So you will find that at that time there will be so many sales with low prices to enable the stock to be finished, by the time the new year starts. If you look at the muslims most of them bring out very nice things and knowing muslims they like to adorn themselves with nice expensive stuff, this is stuff that cannot be sold at a cheap price considering the price that they bought them with. For muslims its not about clothing its more of jewelry thats why they probably have high prices on whatever they are selling. As for food i guess its the same all over.

December 21, 2016 at 1:15 pm

I will say this without feeling bad about it. But the truth must be said at some point in our lives. We have a government yes and leaders too, but in my entire lufe since i started voting the one thing that i have noticed is the kind of leaders that we have in our givernment and country. People have become so self centered, no one really cares about the people that they are leading. Everyone wants a piece of the cake and we all kniw that that is not possible. The leaders that we are having now all they think of is how they are going to rich in a mtter of months. Our leaders are crooks, they ar3 cons, they are thieves quite literally everyone is blaming the other person for something. No one is ready to take the blame or take the reaponsibility for money that has been lost in their dockets. And this has become a trend and many citizens are getting hurt because of this. There is no day you will wake up and not hear about some scandal that has freshly emanated. And the best thing that they can do is give excuses. So for me that idea of our government officials stealing from innocent citizens.